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Room for online sex video chat DIANITA_1988
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Date: October 14, 2022
Sorry for my previous comment, I had to rant
Yeah, i know. I just wasn’t sure if what he was telling me could be true 🙁
That's strange, I wonder what happened. For so many years you guys had been talking and he just stop talking. Have you tried speaking to any of his friends there? If not contacted before, can you contact them through insta or fb by finding their names, maybe you'll find at least one. Known relatives can also be found on social media.
If you're an engineer, you might find it better to date someone who has a similarly decent job, and is not on food stamps.
Speaking as a straight dude, there are TONS of men out there who love going down on women. Don't waste your finite life with guys who are too childish to get down there and show you how much they care.
Should you have talked to a guy who wants you sexually about it? No.
But – and this is vital – this does not let your BF off the hook. Do not let him try to make you into so much of the bad guy that you feel like you can't bring up your needs.
If this relationship is to last, your needs are important too.
To paraphrase what I wrote elsewhere:
He didthe ole-slip-and-slide-table-turn to now make you the bad guy so you'll be so determined to not lose him over this, the original issue – him ignoring your needs – not only takes a backseat, you can never bring it up to him again.
So while you're bending over backwards to “regain his trust”, your sex life remains boring and unfulfilled while he keeps getting off just the way he likes it (plus bonus! her friend/his competition goes too!).
Don't do this.
Yeah don’t think op really cares about whether she cheated or not right now and more so wants to figure out if he’s responsible for a baby or not. His reaction to op telling him that doesn’t do anything in the realm of obligation to the child or having to pay child support. That is gonna require a dna test.
OP, it might be worth talking to a lawyer and getting a court ordered paternity test. Since you are not married, you are not presumed as the father. DO NOT SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE BEFORE A DNA TEST IF YOU HAVE DOUBTS. Get the test whether it is court ordered or not. If it’s yours well sorry man. Try to be a good dad. If it isn’t, then you have zero obligation to the child or this nut job woman. Whether you personally feel obligated or not is up to you but it’s not like you were negligent and careless about unprotected sex.
I’m a poly guy. I’ve actually had to consider asking my partner to close up too. Sometimes self esteem is great, others it’s a hot Fuken mess.
I had some not great breakups and some heavy life shake ups. The loss just left me so hollow. I’d isolated myself out of my poly community, and stopped seeing anyone outside “us” for almost a year. When I did some soul searching, I realized I’d felt replaceable and expendable. Seeing them happy while feeling miserable and unwanted was just devastating. I was unable to mitigate my own disappointment and it was becoming resentment.
Then it dawned on me. I’m was only feeling this way, because I was finally feeling like me again. I enjoy being a poly/ENM guy, so I did the work to get back to being comfortable.
Having read what you said about her not listening, ask her to tell you straight out what YOUR point of view is. Have a whole discussion where she has to articulate what you are thinking and help her with that.
Nope he just moved here…
She made it out to go on a date with you though right? She was walking around town making out with you and her conditions didn’t stop her.
Not trying to be a dick or anything, you came here for advice. You obviously know something is up.
Frankly, you need to do you. If you don’t like or want my advice, that’s completely your call.
Good luck!
Let it go. If you have some kind of compulsive anxiety disorder you need to get into treatment for that. But once someone ends a romance you're not supposed to stay in touch with them or care about their confessions of infidelity. Some forms of depression do have a hereditary component but if you're getting the proper treatment for that you'll be far better situated to identify it early in your kids and get them into treatment too. Depression/anxiety isn't just some lifestyle you have to live with. These are diseases with actual medical solutions. Get some help so you don't have to feel this way forever.
Chemo generally causes bloating and weight gain.
As time went on, C became a much more sympathetic, tragic figure. When i finally said I needed to separate entirely because I was worried I was going to start communicating from a place of frustration and say things I couldn’t take back (this was after a month long period of no contact, that she ended after lighting me up about a post about her on Reddit.. she was still stalking my account.. she had taken out of context, thinking it was derogatory when in fact it was quite complimentary), it was because she was literally only calling me to tell me about like, how her mom really felt bad for C because he was a really good guy with untreated mental health issues (the guy had a fucking psychiatric counselor and meds, idk if that qualifies as untreated) and that if he just had more people in his corner helping him things could have been different, and how she and her mom had a good cry over that.. like bro, you know he and i are very similar in that way, and so many others, I know you know because you told me that ALL THE TIME.. although most of the comparisons she made were in a negative light after the first 3 months or so. When I told her I had to go back to no contact because I was worried I was going to say things to her that didn’t come from a place of compassion and understanding, she said “I just have so much love and respect for you right now” in a way that just made my brain boil til my ears shot steam.. it dripped with condescension.
So like, look, you could be in for something like this (there’s more but this will likely be too long already), or maybe you’re not.. you know your girl better than strangers on the internet do. My ex, and I say this with a lot of compassion because I honestly still love her and feel for her, is autistic/ADHD and either a full blown narcissist or suffers from BPD/CPTSD and codependency that manifests as narcissism when in a relationship with another codependent, and part of the reason i am very understanding even though she did some really suspect shit is that I have the same weird cluster of mental health disorders, but didn’t suffer nearly the same trauma she did when she was younger. I had some moments with her that left me genuinely believing she was a good person who cared about me.
Of course, I did also figure out after our break up, while watching our old sex tapes (we had well over 100 hours of footage), that while I thought we were just filming for us, I wasn’t the only person watching. I also noticed that interactions that had previously seemed loving were just drenched with contempt, and it baffles me why we were together if she hated me even half as much as it looks like she does. So idk.. if none of this sounds familiar, congrats, she’s probably just hung up on her ex and needs therapy. Reddit probably can’t help you too much beyond that.
As a male when you open your relationship you can bet the female already has a guy waiting and it would be much easier for her. I don't see how anyone can stand the thought of their so being with other people.
But yeah you can't be inlove with 2 people at the same time. You can really care about one and love the other.
Question: are you paying his way? Like does he live with you while you pay all the bills?
Of course there's intimacy that's not a solid reason to stay in a dead relationship. You won't find true love or a life partner with her hanging around your neck.
Move out. Move on.
Asking someone for sex, then saying no and you saying you really NEED it is literally the definition of rape in some countries.
Also, why in the world would you want your wife to have sex with you if she's not interested in sex at that particular moment?
You keep saying, but, but, but marriage as if you don't understand that a marriage license doesn't entitle you to sex on demand.
Have you seen what he looks like at all? He could be very self-conscious about his looks and might be afraid that you'd break up with him if you see that he looks like an actual catfish. Or he may be catfishing you
It will be a one time thing. With you….. not them
My man you married someone the same age as your daughter. Was she your daughters friend? How long did you date her before you married her? Was she even over 18? I’d would never talk to you again for that and then you had the nerve to tell her you wish she had never been born? You are vile. Go and live with your regret and do right by your daughter and leave her alone.
Online dating. Unfortunately. I’m such an idiot.
Your own father was the one that double dipped, he is literally your own family. And you should have just let it go instead of making it awkward for everyone.
That decision is yours to make but do realise that there are a lot of other men who will genuinely be your friends and not just be waiting for their turn to get to screw you just because you're sexually adventurous.
Yes, the staffing situation has been terrible. He finally fired some people and I think they just hired some as well. He put his schedule on our family calendar, so I'm hoping he'll make more of an effort to be home on time.
Just leave her. No negotiations or anything. You clearly can't handle emotionally manipulative people, and she is such person.
I know you're already doing relationship therapy, but I think you would benefit from some individual therapy as well. Then you can drive where your therapy session goes without your wife there, so you can process some of that trauma and figure out the kind of life that you want for yourself. You know that this isn't it.
Agree. Dear god please make the partner the focus on the letter. Don’t write a letter that’s all about how bad you feel and how you have been impacted by your actions etc.
100%. I see this stuff sometimes in the infidelity support sub I give advice to sometimes. You can often pick up on the troll posts after awhile. As someone who experienced infidelity some time ago, pretty pathetic that people do this kind of thing for attention and engagement.