It’s not unreasonable to be upset. His reaction to her very valid fears is basically to get over it and give him kids. He’s not responding with, let’s do a surrogate, or let’s look at other options. She’s terrified of IVF and he’s only thinking about how to use her body to make him babies.
21 is already “old” enough if she has a mature personality/outlook in life.
A 7 year gap like this can be a healthy relationship depending on the maturity of both sides. It's not a big deal. They are even still part of the same age range of “young adult”.
Nothing disgusting about it.
Now dating high schoolers as an adult is different as those are adolescents who are more vulnerable.
You should stop touching someone when they say stop. The elbow swing really should have been the end of it, and denying he threw something at you that literally hit you is VERY concerning.
Really? What about your mates that were at your stagparty? They'll miss you.
Bud. You're in a hole right now. A fucking deep, dark depressing hole. Look up. You know what the good thing about a hole is? It's not an enclosed cube. So there is an exit. There is light at the end of that hole.
You know what another good thing is about this hole? It's rock bottom. The only way out, is up. It will get better. Read the thread. Read the responses from people that have been in your shoes and lived through what you're going through. Take those people to heart. We're random idiots on the internet but we sure as hack need more of us. And that means we need you, too.
There were no red flags in the beginning. He spent time with me, called me every night, spent the night and the only time he was acting weird was around the time his child was born. Then he went back to normal but I thought he was in trouble because his boss had been arrested and figured he was involved in the case somehow
there's where you have it wrong I have never verbally told her I wanted to break up with her ever. She was the one that's always wanted to over dumb things frankly. and she's even told me everytime that shes sorry so… idk I just let her find her thoughts and wiegh them for herself
Seems like a nice guy, bit rough around the edges but hey. Work with what you got
I'm on your side with the cuddling and bonding being more important than the phone addiction
I’ve been allowing the hurt I just wish it wasn’t there, I wish there wasn’t a reason for the hurt
It’s not unreasonable to be upset. His reaction to her very valid fears is basically to get over it and give him kids. He’s not responding with, let’s do a surrogate, or let’s look at other options. She’s terrified of IVF and he’s only thinking about how to use her body to make him babies.
If you say somthing it is the same as asking her to stop. Just give it time, you WILL get over it once you are secure in the relationship.
21 is already “old” enough if she has a mature personality/outlook in life.
A 7 year gap like this can be a healthy relationship depending on the maturity of both sides. It's not a big deal. They are even still part of the same age range of “young adult”.
Nothing disgusting about it.
Now dating high schoolers as an adult is different as those are adolescents who are more vulnerable.
You should stop touching someone when they say stop. The elbow swing really should have been the end of it, and denying he threw something at you that literally hit you is VERY concerning.
Makes sense I deleted it because I wasn’t getting constructive feedback and people used this as an excuse to troll & be dicks
It’s not about exercise, it’s about eating more calories then you burn. If you don’t want to work out then don’t eat so much.
Really? What about your mates that were at your stagparty? They'll miss you.
Bud. You're in a hole right now. A fucking deep, dark depressing hole. Look up. You know what the good thing about a hole is? It's not an enclosed cube. So there is an exit. There is light at the end of that hole.
You know what another good thing is about this hole? It's rock bottom. The only way out, is up. It will get better. Read the thread. Read the responses from people that have been in your shoes and lived through what you're going through. Take those people to heart. We're random idiots on the internet but we sure as hack need more of us. And that means we need you, too.
I love how she says all I did was oral . . . . . And that's acceptable how!?!
There were no red flags in the beginning. He spent time with me, called me every night, spent the night and the only time he was acting weird was around the time his child was born. Then he went back to normal but I thought he was in trouble because his boss had been arrested and figured he was involved in the case somehow
there's where you have it wrong I have never verbally told her I wanted to break up with her ever. She was the one that's always wanted to over dumb things frankly. and she's even told me everytime that shes sorry so… idk I just let her find her thoughts and wiegh them for herself
Preach. I love when my wife breaks out a toy and gets off while we are at it.