0 views
LUSH IS ON , ♥ Squat for 69 tks!! /Goal: pole dance & cumshow♥ /LUSH CONTROL 100 TIPS/20 tips ROLL THE DICE/PROMO SNAP/Ask for custom vid [2222 tokens remaining]
Date: November 3, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
WeekendPussy
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
Sounds like you need to set some very strong boundaries. You will have people mad at you but this sounds like a super stressful situation
Shut the fuck up.
That would be the mature thing to do, but I’ve been pretty wishy-washy lately and think this would come off as pretty insecure- so was just looking to see what others thought. I sent the pic through Snapchat and I looked back and he saved it? So I guess maybe he wanted to try a different route of response?
Maybe he didn't want to eat alone?
oh-
Thanks for your message. I totally agree and I am certainly to blame. I am trying to get rid of jealousy.
How many have you had? You were a Virgin, right?
I wouldnt say so, I mean you guys can also keep your own lifestyle or also find activiteas that you both like to do. In that case nobody needs to flip anything.
I can see that. And also, I’m glad you used the word “insecure” because it means you’re self aware. Relationships are hard, long distance relationships are usually harder.
How old are you two? How far do you two live from each other? How did you meet? And how long have you been together? And have you ever met in person?
Thanks for sharing with us all how comfortable you are with stealing, it really reflects well on you
Haha you are so fucked. In a few years you will either look back and wonder wtf how you could be so blind. Or you gonna be sucking dick for drugs too. Nothing good is gonna come from this girl right now.
Have you considered medication before? Guarantee the boner with some pills
This!
I only split when I never intend to see the person ever again. When I ask someone out and plan for it, I’m paying for it. It’s how it works in my culture (and that’s including friends not necessarily just a romantic thing).
Your boyfriend is being emotionally abusive. You should not have to tiptoe around someone who loves and respects you.
Girl? Are you serious?
Hello /u/ThrowRAgyh,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
And I’m so fkn worried that what your saying is true. Jesus. You wouldn’t believe me if I told you that this relationship had 0 flaws until this came up. Unreal.
Any advice? Move the fuck on
Well when he won't go to a single family dinner, not to mention he ends his engagement over it, it kind of does back up my interpretation of the situation.
Ummm hello not. wonderful relationship – every time you turn around and look the other way the guy is trying to cheat. Who wants to live that way?? You can’t trust him. Do you want to spend your whole life checking his phone ?? Just dump him. Who needs all this mess???
This isn’t just some red flags. Your boyfriend is the damn Soviet Union. Like each of those is already a dealbreaker even if that was the only red flag.
I am wiser, I know how it should be an advocate it.
But it just ain't like that when it comes to Wives that display this type of behavior..
Leave her.
She’s an idiot, and actually believes that her worth, and the worth of her relationship is down to how many people you have been with, now whether that is due to religious belief, societal pressures or something else, she’s still an idiot.
If you want to hammer home how stupid she is, tell her that if she feels dirty now, how is she and her next partner going to feel, knowing that she has had other people inside her, and one of them was you. Tell her that there’s not enough soap to get rid of that, then laugh as you walk away.
What happens if he becomes unable to earn
It's 'cuz your second comment comes off as rather misogynistic. You call her immature and a jerk, say she's being shitty, but give very little explanation as to why you think that. Compared to what the BF is doing, OP can hardly be considered a jerk.
Well for wedding trip I can understand her. “Our” trip for wedding… You can't isolate her from others that also come there for the wedding. It's selfish!
Maybe you two need to plan a trip where there are no friends around… Like some all inclusive south destination.
Looks like she plans those trips based on her friends and somehow you think it's only for you two and expect to be alone with her.
There's a difference with our trip me and you and our trip me, my husband and others. Communication is important
Not sure why some women are so surprised when men don’t put a ton of effort into weddings. It just doesn’t mean the same thing to men as it does to women.
Stay out of her way.
Do not confront her, you do not need a vicious life-long enemy in the family.
If she has a teen /preteen daughter, then yeah, you're either gonna need to cover up, or she and her child would be better off moving out if it's getting uncomfortable
Just like you have the option to sell pictures of your body for money, your SO has the option to not be with you for doing it. You can't force them into being with you just as they can't force you not to do this.
Live and learn that personal choice goes both ways.
new business – triaxisman : life coach
I'm searching for a reason – any reason – that you should apologise here and I'm finding nothing. Drop her like the piece of shit she is. And stop describing her as your friend. She's an obnoxious person jealous of your happiness.
IUI is probably not an option if her husband has severe male factor infertility. It was not an option for me and we had to do IVF even though I have no issues.
“No” is a complete sentence, use your words.
Dude works 50-60 hours, sole person bringing in money, taking care of house, and caretaker for wife yet you think HES the problem?
If this was the other way around this sub would be calling him a hobosexual and telling OP to stop mothering him.
Consult a lawyer. This is above Reddit’s paygrade.
Not unreasonable at all
Be careful for gaslighting attempts.
“She was struggling and I knew we had room to help, should have talked to you first and I'm sorry,” kinda stuff.
I work with the profoundly autistic population.
This comes down to the two of you not being compatible, if the individuals in my facility can manage to be polite and kind, your girlfriend can too. Truly sounds like she’s using ASD as an excuse.
Yes! Why in the world is she able to track you?
I'm sorry I was kinda mean…But damn it you lost your shit! I imagine in front of your kids or you made holes in the walls of their home for them to see everyday. They deserve better.. You both have a choice and they don't. There's nothing wrong with raising another man's child…in fact you'll probably doing the same since you guys can't get in the same page. I wish you the very best but this shit isn't sustainable long term and kids need stability…including the baby in her tummy.
Thank you girl I really appreciate your advice and honesty. I don’t share this type of stuff with my friends or family as I’m a very private person so I don’t usually get advice on these topics. I only go by what I think which 9 times out of 10 i know it’s just my anxiety. So when I see comments like this it really helps me
Yes you can. You can get to the altar and turn around and walk away. What you are suffering from is the sunk cost fallacy meaning because you’ve put a lot of time and effort and money into some thing you must go through with it even if it’s the wrong decision. It is objectively crazy to tie yourself legally to someone who doesn’t value you just because it will cost you money and be embarrassing to call off the wedding.
I know someone who called off their expensive wedding the day before. And married someone else two years later, and has been married for many many years. If you realize you are marrying the wrong person, it is never too late to call it off.
That said, you may be fine marrying this guy no matter how he treats you. And if that’s your decision, that’s fine. But don’t justify it by saying it’s too late to call off the wedding. You have to own the decision and acknowledge you’re going to go through with the wedding because that’s what you want to do.
Subreddits like these are full of bitter women whose answer for everything is “divorce/dump him” in response to a story with secondhand details. Reddit is an absolutely terrible source of relationship advice.
A family member gave her a piece of jewelry. It doesn't “mean” anything to wear a ring unless it's a wedding/engagement ring. You have a warped view of female jewelry.
Relationships is not just about loving a person and wanting to be with them, they;re also about getting what you and them want in life.
You live once, if you want kids, you should do what you need to do to get what you want in life.
Your current GF does not want kids, which is her right.
As much as you love one another, you have to decide if you really want those kids, because she doesn't.
And bonus tip, if you chose to stay with her, and a few years down the track she will most likely have a change of heart, but this 9 out of 10 times is false, you will end up having a child and she will regret it, suffer from depression afterwards, you two will no longer have sex and most likely break up anyway.
Oh boy. Do not put her name in anything, better yet, do not marry her. Why would you want to CHOOSE to make your life about drama and bullshit? Because that's what you'll be choosing. Find someone on the same page as you to marry and exit this relationship you're in.
Do you think you should have to push and force the idea on someone? Do you like when people do that to you?
Do you hear the words coming out of his mouth that he’s not ready? Sounds like he’s told you over and over, so no you don’t have a right to be upset that he bought you a cheap ring and you jumped to conclusions that you shouldn’t have.
Trying to force him into a commitment he doesn’t want is going to drive him away. Best case you can try to show gratitude for the gift, apologize for your behavior and have a calm and rational discussion about your future together.
Yes this is what I'd do, just change one ingredient ?
Thank you
He chose to stay once he knew she was having an emergency c-section. Nobody decent waits when they hear that shit. They run as fast as they can to get to their partner.
Ok so your options are to stay with an absolute tool and have your boundaries stomped all over or come back to the US and somehow the US is the worse option? I'm sorry, you have decided your path and aren't going to fall back and regroup, there's nothing any of us can do to make this boy stand up for you.
Ok so your options are to stay with an absolute tool and have your boundaries stomped all over or come back to the US and somehow the US is the worse option? I'm sorry, you have decided your path and aren't going to fall back and regroup, there's nothing any of us can do to make this boy stand up for you.
I get the sense that you think that going NC and the big “walk away” event is going to make him realize how much he really loved you all along. He doesn’t, and he won’t.
Move on.
It’s also love bombing. Exploding on you and then sobbing begging you to forgive him.
I think you'd be crazy not to do this, and equally crazy to make any arrangement with your boyfriend to make the property “his” as well as yours. But this is probably why he's not keen on the idea. This gives you autonomy and independence and he might be feeling a bit insecure about a future where you aren't reliant on him. Well, in my opinion, he needs to suck it up. NTA.
She's ignoring you dude. You're not catching the hint
It's okay, give it some time. To me, it sounds like you do want your dad to be happy, and that you've already identified your feelings aren't by any fault of theirs. It sounds like this came as a big shock, and you have difficulty with big emotions, which is okay.
It's okay to pardon yourself, take a step back, and take some time to sit with those big feelings. They'll run their course. Just don't entertain the feelings of betrayal too much. I can understand why those cropped up, but I don't think there was any significant betrayal here. Maybe you felt like they were navigating your feelings instead of trusting you to handle them, and maybe that hurts. But that doesn't mean they meant to hurt you- I think they were trying to soften the blow of the shock. They were planning on telling you, and that's important too. You matter to them, which is why “how” they told you mattered to them.
I don't think OP did or said anything to warrant these cruel comments. She was stressed about her missing dog, randomly stumbled upon the new knowledge that her dad was dating, and then had a cry in her car. She didn't avoid him, she didn't lash out, she didn't hurt anyone. Sure, it's been 5 years, but the grief for a parent passing relatively young (probably 50's) after struggling with cancer sounds different than the grief for a parent passing after a long life well lived.
Maybe she didn't process that Mom is gone because she came back to be there for Dad and centered his feelings. Is death and grief supposed to be rational? None of this screams crazy to me.
You can always take the picture of the ring on the finger after the proposal once you get your nails done. I wouldn't let something trivial such as nails ruin a big moment for you and your man.
No no he did not cheat on me
????
No. I suspect ud relate to the hsp sub.