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I think he has ulterior motives deep down. Would you want your boyfriend doing that to you? If you were in his girlfriends shoes and what he’s doing would upset you I wouldn’t keep feeding into it.
“Molly, you in danger ,girl”. ~ Ghost.
Just start the eviction process and evict her
When a person shows you who they are, believe them. Trust me, I was in a relationship with a narcissist, too. The only time I could get any real information out of her is to get her angry so she slips. Otherwise it is 'none of my business'. He has you now, and he thinks he can control you. Don't let him. You are in charge of you and only you can make the decision to stay or leave. He will make it about him if you try leaving, your feelings don't matter to a narcissist. Be true to yourself.
That's what I gathered too… OP comes off as ridiculously immature too so it wouldn't surprise me.
That's what I gathered too… OP comes off as ridiculously immature too so it wouldn't surprise me.
That sounds a lot like flirting tbh
Your cats are loyal and love you. Your bf is a selfish prick who treats you like shit. Seems like I'd be picking the cats if I were you.
As for your bf, just remember: you get what you settle for. Do you really want a selfish ass who would treat you and innocent animals this way?
You have your boundaries which he should respect. However, I’m a woman and follow guys for eye candy.. although most just happen to be gay. I still want to be with my partner, I still think he’s hot as hell and I wouldn’t trade him for anything. I feel like we all look at attractive people whether it be in passing or online. It doesn’t mean we picture a reality with that person. Long term relationships become a lot easier when you accept that it’s human nature to look. I’m not saying that gives him permission to dismiss your feelings or boundaries though. Maybe he feels like it’s a control thing, maybe your insecurities dont make sense to him. I’m assuming this isn’t the first time he’s tossed your feelings aside because if it was a one time thing you’d be able to talk through it easily after 3 years. Are you guys actually compatible? Are you dating a dick? Things you have to clear your mind and ask yourself
As open minded as I want to be to people with big age gaps it usually a major red flag. Woman’s youth is sexualised and men see it as some sick trophy to bone women as close to their teens as they can. 23 you are a kid. You think you are all grown up and mature but your text alone show you are not. You are delusional like a 16 year old with her first crush!
I love my man? After a few months? That is what teenagers do and that is stupid. You don’t know him. It is easy to be on your best behavior for a few months.
Met his kids ? Regularly hang out , have the audacity to think “ you have a good bond with them” you must be joking! I can tell you it is a major red flag and extremely irresponsible to have kids meet a new partner so soon… What number are you? How many of you have they already met?
A mature woman would not force herself on 13 to 9 year olds. They want to spend time with their dad and it looks like you are there every second. The gracious thing to do is let them have their das. Wait until your relationship is mature and slowly introduce yourself. You are letting a 13 year old with teenage angst get under your skin. She sounds like a smart cookie to me who does not see you as a role model and glad she doesn’t.
I have been quite harsh but you really need to man up over here and stop being naive. You are overstepping boundaries. These kids owe you nothing. Give them space to be with their dad. My boyfriend also has a child and in his time I make myself scarce often… because it is not about me. I can deal with not seeing my boyfriend for a spell because I am in a relationship and not a 16 year old crushing on someone .
Sharia Law. Eye for an eye. The boyfriend must gaze upon the friend’s pierced nipples as well.
The gap between 20 and 25 is huge she might be a completely different person in 5 years, which is fine but you need to be allow and support this. If the relationship you have with your girlfriend is healthy and supportive then if they say that your girlfriend isn't allowed, you also don't go to that event. They don't control your life.
But why would they hang out alone? If he likes you and wants to get with you, and she KNOWS you like him and have been talking to him, why would they even hang out? You said he asked her out before but are they friends? Have they hung out previously? And are you sure nothing happened between them when they hung out?
Also…so your friend all of a sudden feels awkward being “between” you guys if you date. Then why would she put herself in that position in the first place by hanging out with him alone?
Damn that's a good one!
He is negging you. Those sorts of questions come from awful relationship advice sites for men. He is trying to tear you apart and then demoralize you so he has control and power in the relationship and you live off his bread crumbs of affection. The first 3 months were love bombing. And you will live off the HOPE of him being that way again, and occasionally you will get one day or a weekend of that again-just to keep you bound to him.
You are young , seriously move on.
You’re absolutely right, it’s not the child fault. Speak to your son, tell him that you don’t want her to feel left out. If you don’t want to buy her fudges, tell him they should bring a few presents for her to be given to open with the other kids.
See a doctor. That level of pain may indicate a problem that could be solved medically.
No notes.
What he is doing is can (unconscious) form of manipulation and extremely unhealthy for himself and his partner. OP should try to break this habit, when he acts like a victim call him out on just that. Not tolerate it, not comforting him when he does that etc… And talk about this with him in a serious way during a neutral moment, not right after an argument.
And if he keeps this up, I'd personally leave. The manipulation is fucked up enough to break the partner's self esteem and confidence. But personally, I get the ick from men (and women) who act all pathetic and sad like some stupid pouting child instead of talking to me like an adult on how to fix the issue. I'd leave just because it feels gross and is extremely unattractive.
Tbh you have a lot of excuses why your terrible behavior is excusable.
Put the relationship on ice. Get a paternity test. regardless if the baby is yours or not, you two should not be dating each other or anything until you deal with your issues.
Stop making excuses. You might be having a kid. Grow the hell up and take responsibility for your behavior and your relationship.
You both suck. She cheated you cheated and nothing changed. Honestly you two deserve each other if only to keep you out of the dating pool
I mean ldr can be hard. They can make you feel so alone when you have someone you feel so close to and can't touch them, hold them, be with them at all. Some people say it makes them feel more lonely than just not being with anyone.
He should have confessed before she moved but he might not do it again. I think a few things need answered. Was he just sleeping around with randoms or was it the same woman? How soon after her moving in did he tell her? Did she catch him first?
Imma be real, this is usually one of the themes that crop up with age gap relationships. It either involves the older person being predatory and manipulative, or the younger person seeking out money. Like…every time.
That isn't guilt that is fear. Fear that you will hurt someone that means something to you. That is normal and if you are honest and empathetic. It is ok and you need to accept they will be hurt. Just never think throwing the truth as a spear to inflict pain is the same. Breaking up is something as simple as, “This isn't working I really tried and I know have too. I just think it is best we go our separate ways” don't look for blame and don't accept it either. Far to often we let our fear of the hurt we'll cause become anger so we can find justification and avoid the pain.
That’s the best I can probably do
I was in an abusive relationship (only really realized afterwards) & my ex used to do this kinda stuff.
I highly recommend you to leave that relationship it does not sound healthy to me.
I hope this doesn’t get buried.
I used to be addicted to porn. It took me MANY years to face the reality of this condition and it’s affects on how I viewed interpersonal sexual relationships. Pornography rewires the brain. It changes what turns us on, and the ability to hit that dopamine button is a like a rat electrifying itself to get the cheese.
When I abstained, I did it not just because my partner had issues with it, on the contrary, she eventually accepted it, “guys watch porn”. It wasn’t until a few years ago that I decided to change a lot of things in my life, which I still struggle with, namely my irritating pessimism.
Now ask yourself the harm in stopping it? What exactly do you have to lose? A couple frustrating nights, but a reconnection yo your S/O?
Just try it for a month. I promise you if you go into it with an open mind and heart, you’ll benefit.
Are you seriously insinuating that POC can’t handle meeting other men? Give me a break that is so offensive
Mourn the lack of the supportive, loving parents you deserved, and stop trying to make it work with someone who has no interest in doing better. Check out r/raisedbynarcissists for more specific resources and advice on how to maintain relationship boundaries with parents with cluster B personality disorders.
He’s gonna catch on soon to the fact you’re playing games to get his attention. You can’t play mind games and emotionally drain a man and expect him to stick around, especially so early on. As you said, that is toxic. I saw you wrote you cannot afford therapy. You are not ready to be in a relationship.
Also, don’t date guys you like more than they like you. If you already know that then it’s doomed. Men like to chase and women like to be chased. It’s a two way street but you either get it or you don’t.
Men like to know a woman wants them to herself, but don’t like overly jealous women. You choose your battles and have to understand there’s a difference between healthy jealousy and insecurity. Once it hits insecurity a man will think you’re overbearing and run for the hills.
Take time and work on yourself. You seem self-aware but unable to stop this out of pocket behavior. This leads me back to the fact you’re not ready for a real relationship. It’s not fair to trap what is likely a nice man into something in which you verbally accuse him and play petty mind games with him. If he respects himself he will leave. If he’s insecure himself, he will stay and let you walk all over him. Be the better person and either get your act together or move on. Heal and try to give it another chance or find a new partner when you’re more mature. It sounds like it’s already ending…so thank gosh for that.
You have to get over these things yourself and grow up a bit. We have all been hurt in life. Doesn’t give us an excuse to run all over people.
Good luck to you. I mean it. But if you want a successful long term relationship, I’d start journaling and reading some self-help books. Don’t date again until you’re through this.
My bf got add/adhd. He falls asleep if we aren't doing anything or when he's bored. There were times that we visited someone and they were talking. But he wasn't joining them. Results? Falling asleep. Very weird. I was thinking of it might be relating to adhd. Since he needs to do stuff allll the time. But you say it's not normal? Maybe I should look into this more?
I was like, “oh, cool. She likes the way he smells because he is aromatic. I get it. I like the way my bf smells, too.”
Downvote me of you want bit I just have to say…barely any sex but going to a bunch of parties without you
More pressure to wear in front of the person she loves and not in a room full of strangers??
Man, I wouldn't be suprised if your being cheated on at least on some level, sit her down and say your needs aren't being met and you're considering if this relationship is right for you,
But I'd personally do some dogging into her faithfulness
Your gf and best friend have a crush on each other, may be cheating emotionally. If you break up she will go straight to him for support and probably end up dating.
Have private conversations with each of them separately. Talk about boundaries and expectations.
Try not to invite them to your house together or have best friend tag along tell him you want date time with your gf.
This guy is not your friend if he thinks this behaviour is acceptable. Your gf has let herself become too close to your best friend which she should have acknowledged and put up boundaries with your best friend after that.
Mentally prepare for the worst which is break up and after month or so your best friend and ex become official couple.
That he was not the one using those emoji's and can't control what she sends. We have a local saying that goes: whasing your hands into innocent which means that ofcourse you're aware of the impact and desicions you make
Are you assuming he went soft because of diabetes?
Yeah my husband said he can guarantee she'll be asking me to help plan and give her ideas/contacts from ours as I planned and organised our entire wedding. There's no way I'd be doing that, absolutely not.
You are with a 33yo alcoholic with massive issues. This is none of your fault and you did nothing wrong. As a matter of fact, most people have a past and a few things that they’re not proud of. But you know what? That’s okay. Because whatever you did and went through in the past made you who you are today. Good and bad things. He is just a very sexist and insecure prick who cannot get over the fact that you had sexual partners in the past. What did he expect a virgin at his age? He should go pound sand and get sober.
Honestly he will not get over it. He needs rehab and therapy. He doesn’t respect you and never will. From experience I can say this will only get worse with time as he’s already abusing you and will keep bringing it up whenever his ego is slightly hurt. Dump the dead weight.
He said he cannot respect you because you don’t respect yourself? Well it’s time to respect yourself and not allow anyone to treat you like that anymore.
Oh and also. I would be super petty and tell him the MOC you slept with was miles better and bigger than him as you walk out.
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I don’t know your financial situation but I’m going to Altair a stab at an alternative theory to the work ethic one.
Living off an inheritance could be considered a poor financial move.. ask me how I know… he could be worried that in 12 – 24 months when you don’t have this abundance of cash that you won’t have the get up n go to go get a job.
That being said if you’re sitting on like 10 mil it’s probably not an issue…
maybe consider alternative forms of work? Turn a hobby into a business? Buy some investors and make your full time job a case of managing them? Some of my wife’s friends sell scrapbooking shit from home and make decent cash doing it, if that’s your thing of course…
Final thought, what does your financial situation look like in 5 years? If you get married and consolidate your accounts then does he still need to work? If not then do you ever need to work? If the answer is “in 5-10 years I’ll probably need to work” then my advice might echo his to a point. The job world is a hard place for a woman in her 30’s with no resume and no job skills, maybe pick up a couple of days a week or something just to keep you employable?
It doesn't matter. Move on
This lie is so white it lives in Sweden , I think you are fine to continue the relationship.
Yeah I'm selective with jobs cus why would I apply to a job that needs me to come Monday-Friday from 8am to 4pm when I have uni? I'm not giving up my education for the sake of moving out. I can only apply to jobs that state that I can negotiate my hours, cus my uni schedule is so silly. I'm not saying you don't know about being an adult, I literally said “all info you have on me” cus you're acting as if you were a family friend that knows all the family drama and shit
!remindme 1 week
please tell your husband and let him make the decision. He deserves someone who can truly love him. You are not that person.
He is planning it.
He
Is
Planning
It
He is planning to be away from your family for 5 days.
Its insane and i have no helpful advice, but if it were me i would be returning the favor ASAP.
For your ex boyfriend's sake, leave him alone. You don't deserve him.
Lol, good question!
I'm very much an ectomorph man as well and since I turned 25 If I eat only junk, don't workout I can get breasts and a belly while my arms stay skinny, so when I say there is no shame in not finding him attractive I say it with an understanding on his feelings.
Open up that you don't like his body, it's not ok for him to get out of shape when he has a SO because you did not pick him as he is now.
Just have a calm, straight to the point (we do not get hints) discussion with ways on how he can improve, ask for a time frame as well.
Dump him because he is ignorant and accusatory.
Probably the reason why he is dating someone 10 years younger than him.
He is trying to make you doubt yourself.
That sounds difficult. Those feelings are very valid and a very normal part of being a young adult. I’m so glad that you’ve had such a positive life with your family, it sounds like you’re truly loved by and love your family. That is a beautiful thing. I’m impressed by your love and your loyalty, but also at your maturity in knowing that we all move on to different phases in our lives. You sound like a very mature, self aware, and smart young person. It’s great that you are expressing these emotions in a healthy way by seeking support here (and hopefully talking about these feelings with your family and your therapist if you have one). Your life will develop from here and so will your parents’. They will have freedoms they didn’t have with kids in the house, and trust me, many people end up enjoying that phase of their lives. Everything will work out happily. All the best to you and your family.
Thank you so much for the support. I want to cry tears of joy at work right now!
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
You’re not ready for a serious relationship.
but how? like do I tell her that I’m the mistress? or do I say I know he’s cheating by anonymously?
If you do feel as terrible as you say, you will block any form of contact with him. Send him a message or something telling him this was all a mistake, that you fully regret it and that you don't want anything to do with him. I'd go as far as talking to HR to tell them you don't want to work with him anymore. Then tell his wife, she deserves to know. Own to your mistakes and let him deal with the consequences of his. And you learn your lesson and never get involved with a married /committed person again.
But most imortantly apologise for being a huge asshole to her. What a dickhead.
Thank you for the advice.. I have a lot to think on. I think I will delete my post as ultimately I need to make this decision for myself and should have a few conversations with my bf before I even make this decision. Thanks again 🙂
so i should just let everyone do it to me? and never stand up for myself
Not all men are like this. The men in my life would never behave like this or associate themselves with people who behave this way.
Yeah, it definitely has been ramping up. It's unfortunate too that she works in a psychiatric unit; she can do a freakishly good impression of a psychotic schizophrenic. I've heard before from others in the field that thought patterns and language patterns can be diffused into helpers. I wonder if working in this field also keeps her from getting help herself.
That's gotta suck majorly. It sounds like you and your bf have a pretty solid relationship based on honesty and trust, but it looks like that trust may have been broken. It's tough when people don't follow through on their promises. It sounds like you're trying to be considerate of his friend who sent the video, and that's admirable, but it's important to remember that your feelings and well-being are important too.
It's understandable that you feel shocked, lied to, and betrayed. It's important that you communicate your feelings and address the situation with your bf. It might be helpful to approach the conversation with a clear and specific explanation of how you feel and why. You can also ask him to explain his side of the story, but it's important that he understand that his actions have hurt you.
It's also important to remember that drinking doesn't define who a person is. People make mistakes and sometimes slip up, but it's how they handle those mistakes that really matters.
In the end, if this is a dealbreaker for you, then it's important to have an open and honest conversation with your bf about how you feel and what you need. If this isn't something you can move past, then it may be time to re-evaluate the relationship. But, If you do decide to continue the relationship, make sure to establish some clear boundaries and have an open communication about what you expect from him. Good luck
I agree. I should’ve left and never contacted him again.
This one just went full “Jerry Springer Show.”
This is probably the most useful comment I’ve seen ?. Thank you for your experience! I’m glad you like planning stuff for your marriage now ? I hope everything is going well.
I am trying, today I said I’m going to have a “me” day. But I turned the car around and picked him up. I couldn’t help it and I have a really hard time letting him to do things too. Tbh that may be my problem.
Men like this act nicely at first until they get too comfortable with you. She's only 23 so it makes perfect sense. She doesn't know much.
Her fiancée is one creepy mf for dating an 18 year old at 23. Girl is projecting so hard.
End the friendship. Not worth adding the drama
Meeting NF is more important than the relationship. Discussion over and so is your relationship. She's clearly not seeing any wrongdoing with her lying and disregarding your boundaries, this relationship won't work as she's all in to keep that NF in her life.
Turn that break into break up and move on, you'll find someone better
I don't feel like I really understand what's going on here. She might indeed be using you, or you might just be excessively needy. Maybe it's both. If counseling hasn't helped, it may be time to call it quits.
Everytime i back off, she comes back trying to pull me back. She knows i like her so she plays this game. I would block her but I don’t wanna make things awkward between our mutual friends. I have a groupchat and one of my friend is a mental health professional. We talk daily and she knows about this. She was one of my friends that told me i was being used. She said based on what that girl does and says, she has issues feeling loved, like she cant be loved(her dad left her, an ex cheated on her) So she goes around getting validated by men(especially taken ones) to feel like she is loved. But its toxic. She said she knows its toxic but said shes working on it and trying to get better. Went to see a therapist too. And i fully support that. Im happy shes trying to get better. But dont bring me into it anymore.
Basically me cooking for her, sending her gifts, talking to her helping her, training her, made her feel loved, and boosted her ego up so much so shes seeking that feeling again even tho she’s already back with her ex.
So sorry, OP. I think you should leave her because it will only get worse from here. She's your best friend but it sounds like he is hers :/
Mental illness is not a free pass for cheating, I don't have BPD but I do have depression/anxiety/PTSD and just the thought of being with somebody other than my husband is just nauseating to me. She has no respect for your marriage if she admitted she loves him and is not trying to do everything she can to cut contact with him and wants to keep him in her life. Your wife is a JOKE, you deserve so much better.
@op. No. Come on now… No. Your wife doesn't have a sister you can sleep with? A family member is the only scenario I think could go worse than sleeping with a close, freshly divorced friend…
Why would he need to clean up after himself when he has a perfectly good maid living with him now? /s
You need to set up boundaries now, especially if you see this relationship progressing to living together permanently. What's going to happen if you have a kid together? Spoiler alert, you already have a kid, and it's him.
She has found herself in a scary situation and should go to court to get alimony and child support from the father of the children. It does not make her a predatory monster.
None of this is ok.
Talk to your doctor and hospital and explain your concerns about possible kidnapping of the baby.
See what precautions can be made. I'm not sure how things can be done in your country, but in mine if a couple has separated, and even if they haven't. The mother can set who is allowed at birth and who is allowed to visit.
We can tell the hospital that someone isn't allowed, and they won't admit them entrance. They can also be made aware of a kidnapping threat and will take all necessary measures to ensure the safety of the baby.
You might want to report it to local police and see what they can do or recommend
Have you ever considered that you are simply attracted to a reverential attitude in someone? In my experience, super religious people have one personality—reverential and to a ceremonial degree. Religious fanaticism leads to denial of self and opinions; all religious fanatics have a very primitive and simple understanding of morality: punish the bad; revere the good. Good and bad is defined in black and white terms by their religious leader (e.g., priest, pastor, etc.).
Try dating someone who is reverential but not religious. I have a strong hunch you’d feel the same for a partner who tends to concede, please, and be a caretaker as you do for your religious fanatic of a gf.
You can move on and learn from this experience. She owes you nothing and has every right to leave you after this. Sorry bud but you done messed up
This is very helpful, thank you.
Firstly, it’s really weird that you were happy for a stranger to rest on you. Second, it was even weirder for you to tell your gf to be quiet about it.
You work full time and go to school full time. Yet, she's working less than part time and prancing around town doing who knows what. Tell her to get a full time job, pay her portion of the bills 50%, and she'll have less time to get in trouble in the streets.
It could be a slight, it could not be. My approach to things like this and weddings etc is that it's up to the people involved and you don't know the decision making process behind it. Whatever happens this baby is going to be your niece or nephew so take the presents over after the shower and try not to worry about it.
Break up with him now before things go any further. You 2 are basically incompatible. I know you might find his outgoing character interesting and fun, but in the long term, you'll just be frustrated and angry with him.
Trust me, me and my wife had the same dynamic when we were dating and I wish I can turn the clock back and not make the same decisions I did back then. We are complete opposites and I thought I can make it work, but as it turns out, I can't ?. Some people might be lucky a d and make things work, but that's a minority and the chances of you 2 ending up on the same page will likely be a disaster in the long term.
My 2 cents…
yeah, i don't think i could move past that either. don't be too hard on yourself
Two questions to consider…
1) What would it take for you to be convinced nothing is wrong, he’s really just sitting quietly in a bar with his friends? Is it possible? Like, going with him didn’t convince you, looking through his phone didn’t convince you. If he really isn’t cheating again, how could he even prove this to you?
2) Do you think couples counseling could be helpful? It sounds like you never tried after the first time he cheated. Maybe it help you better be able to express your sense of betrayal and your continuing fears. Maybe he could better understand and thus be more willing and able to reassure you. Maybe this would help resolve whatever led him to cheat in the first place, and resolving that would satisfy you.
It doesn’t really sound half and half, it sounds like 90/10 with the 90 being him being a previous cheater who has a very fatalistic view of all cheaters (and all women) except himself that he uses to control you when you’ve never cheated.
No. I'd be saying that's his boundary.
Stating your boundaries is not controlling. Expecting others to live by them is. Lying and hiding so people think you share the same values is weak and pathetic.
Common values are more important than common interests.
You are now imagining responses to get angry at people over and claiming injustice. That is toxic as fuck.
I don’t think it’s fair on the second point. Everyone’s going down hard on OP for dating a man when he was clear from the beginning, but the same is true for her boyfriend. He chose to date a girl with the dog. He doesn’t get to force her to give up her dog. She didn’t have to move in. She told him she wouldn’t move in if it meant giving up her dog. But clearly he wanted her to move in. No one forced him. If he didn’t want to live with a dog he shouldn’t have started a serious relationship with a person who already had a dog. It goes both ways
Since after this long it's quite obvious that she isn't willing to try, I think you know what the answer is…and that's an even harder conversation.
Truly, it sounds like she just doesn't care.
You say, “I can’t believe she would do this to me” when you SHOULD be saying “I can’t believe HE did this to HER.”
You know from the condition your sister was in that she was too drunk to consent to sex. You also know that your husband was sufficiently sober to leave of his own accord.
You know exactly what happened here, even though you’d prefer not to admit it. Divorce your husband. Support your sister.
You are controlling. It’s none of your business to control if she’s getting drunk or not. She isn’t your property. You don’t get to pick her up from anywhere however you please.
Nope, you're not wrong and he's rather inconsiderate if you ask me. How about a little self respect on his part and a lot or respect for you? That doesn't seem too much to ask between a husband and a wife. He doesn't shower, tell him to use a dirty sock. Seems fair.
She herself clarified that it was not a no. One of the reasons was reluctant is that she had to go very far but in the end she stayed.
Just tell her you didn’t get married to be celebrate the rest of your life. and one way or another your going to get it, often,, “so what do you want to do”
It worked a miracle for me.
Divorce. He is trying to guilt trip you and make you the bad guy. Look for a lawyer about custody for your kid and be prepared to leave him. It is better to be alone than to be suffocated and living with a man who told you he hates you.
He is lying and manipulating you still.
£7 or £10 depends on the size
What you need to do is to dump him and move on. This is hardly a relationship where your supposed significant other doesn't want to take you out on dates unless you deserve it. What the F does that even mean? Stop wasting your time with this guy who doesn't treat you right but treats you less than him. You deserve better.
This should not come as a surprise to you. He literally told you in the beginning that he was not good at commitment. You made the choice to be with him. You could try talking to him about it, but it sounds like he is pretty clear on what he wants.
Dance with both. Figure it out with them. If there's no comprise then there's no dance.
She was never your friend. She was a vile excuse for one. If you feel the need for closure, send her a text…
You literally abandoned me when I really need you. You have done nothing but showed me you never cared about me, you thought it funny when I got pranked—even knowing how my mom died—which shows how sadistic you are. You couldn’t even be bothered to help my cancer-stricken father out. My wedding was with people who actually mattered. Not for some pathetic excuse of a ‘friend’ who wouldn’t stop stabbing me in the back. Or something along those lines.
But is she really worth all that energy? No. She’s completely worthless. Don’t even acknowledge her. Block her and move on. If she tries to speak to you just keep ignoring her and moving forward.
She owns her own home but they stay with me almost every night. We have tried to correct her but she doesn't listen. The girl has no concept of personal space when it comes to animals. I have chickens and she was squeezing one of the chicks I had to pry it out of her hands.
I can't believe he accused you of violating his privacy when he was violating yours by making you let him watch you use the toilet.
You throw her out because she thinks men are weak when they cry. That’s screwed up.
Yep, my dad was never abusive but he was an alcoholic and smoked a few packs a day (having done so since he was ~13-14) when he met my mother. After dating a while and eventually talking about marriage, my mother gave him an ultimatum: she loved him and wanted to be with him for the rest of their lives but would not be willing to raise a family with him if he still smoked and drank. The lovestruck bastard quit right then and has been sober ever since. They celebrate their 30th anniversary later this year so I am pretty sure he made the right decision.
Can't imagine what the post for “Pizza and Run a Train on Her Day with Your Besties Day” is gonna look like if he's this bent over missing “Steak and BJ Day”…
This guy sounds like he's going to tell you that you don't need to use condoms if the girl is on top… And you're going to believe him because “oh yeah! Gravity, duhhh”
Insecure and immature but she’s 18.
I don’t even know where to begin here.
There’s no such thing as “stealing” in a serious relationship. You’re a partnership. And this childish outlook of ownership shows you guys don’t even like each other anymore.
No truly, intimate deep meaningful relationship survives an open relationship experience. It’s not meant to those are supposed to be sexual experiences and you lost her the minute. You ask her to do it. I hope you learn from this and never do it again because they all in badly like this keep your D…k where it belongs in your relationships, and you’ll have less of a problem in the future.
Does that include free shipping?
He said he said it in the heat of the moment and didn't mean it. Anyway thanks so much. He just left today.
Agreed. And thank you. He left today.
Maybe. Shoot your shot if she's your crush!
My bf told me sob stories about being cheated on in his past relationships but failed to mention he was also cheating on them. Just bc she says she’s against cheating doesn’t mean she is. If she really was against it she would communicate with you better and not stay out until 1 am with another guy.
I can see how they got there.
And that both are struggeling. He from becoming a boss from working on his own.
Her with all of a sudden another woman being in his life and not knowing how to deal with.
Discovering there are things he chose to keep from her. She seems to have had a pretty acurate picture of his workday/ worklife.
And now finds out it's not acurate anymore. And that he now does things like regular lunch meetings with a coworker who happens to be that other new woman she wasn't aware of. ?
Obviously not. Duh.
Does your wife work?
I’m proud of you for telling her AND for speaking about it publicly here. You are brave, and I admire you.
Awful lot of Lannister posts lately
This needs to be higher.
Let her cool down and then try to discuss rationally. When she's in a better state, and if she's a rational person, she should be able to understand that this is just a misunderstanding.
There's no way you would have known that phone wasn't hers. There's no logical way that you would find a phone in your bathroom and think, “Well, that must be someone else's” why would she have someone else's phone in the house?
People get shit wrong all the time, we're human beings. Misunderstandings happen, rational adults move past them and don't let is fester.
He is not healthy enough to be in a relationship with you. His addiction has put a strange power imbalance in place. He will never be able to have a relationship with a equal power displacement with you until he’s clean long term
I recommend looking into anonymous groups that focus on family and loved ones of those with addictions
Heck yea it does! I had a fling with a pauper artist dude, it was supposed to be a fling, after my divorce. Well guess what, I never speak to my ex husband and 18 years later I still have to speak to the dude bc I got pregnant.