Many women don't climax during penetrative sex. Let him do what you do during masturbation. Guide him what kind of touch you enjoy. Most women need clitoral stimulation, so he can do this with hands, mouth or toys. It's not hard.
They will probably take the child away from OP too if she doesn’t have her ducks in a row. I’d absolutely get a lawyer TODAY and follow the next steps to getting the child tested for drugs and get any evidence possible against the dad. File for emergency custody. Do whatever to get that asshole put in jail/ out of the picture.
Engaging in sexual activity in front of a child IS child sexual abuse. I’m reading more of your comments and my heart is breaking for you and your son, and I am so in awe of your strength. You are kicking ass! I wish my own mother had been strong enough to protect me like this!
When I was in my first year of university, I started dating a guy who was 4 years older than me.
He had already played in a band (sufficiently successful for our region), had jobs and finished his studies.
And we lived an hour away from each other. As a result, he could not find time for me and we saw each other mainly at concerts where he performed.
Even then, I did not annoy him, I just decided that it was not for me and stepped aside.
There was no drama, we remained very good friends. It’s just that instead of demanding the impossible from him, I reflected that right now is not what I want.
I mean, do you think sex should be a chore for OP's wife? Sex is supposed to be fun and feel good. It should be something she wants to do instead of something she just does because she feels obligated. Who knows, maybe OP himself also changed after the ring was on her finger and that's causing resentment.
You are definitely wasting your time if it's been affecting your mental health badly.
She isn't interested in you, that much is clear. You only live once… so speed up love for yourself and cut off the people that aren't there to choose you.
Many women don't climax during penetrative sex. Let him do what you do during masturbation. Guide him what kind of touch you enjoy. Most women need clitoral stimulation, so he can do this with hands, mouth or toys. It's not hard.
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I would care if a “friend” acted this way. Or I wouldn’t since I have self respect and wouldn’t keep these people in my life
They will probably take the child away from OP too if she doesn’t have her ducks in a row. I’d absolutely get a lawyer TODAY and follow the next steps to getting the child tested for drugs and get any evidence possible against the dad. File for emergency custody. Do whatever to get that asshole put in jail/ out of the picture.
Engaging in sexual activity in front of a child IS child sexual abuse. I’m reading more of your comments and my heart is breaking for you and your son, and I am so in awe of your strength. You are kicking ass! I wish my own mother had been strong enough to protect me like this!
You want my permission to end it so you find a woman you'll be more compatible with?
You can't fix this. He can't stay faithful and you can't trust him. This is an entirely hollow partnership
Thank you for the update! What a crazy and scary story. I’m glad you weren’t cheated on.
When I was in my first year of university, I started dating a guy who was 4 years older than me.
He had already played in a band (sufficiently successful for our region), had jobs and finished his studies.
And we lived an hour away from each other. As a result, he could not find time for me and we saw each other mainly at concerts where he performed.
Even then, I did not annoy him, I just decided that it was not for me and stepped aside.
There was no drama, we remained very good friends. It’s just that instead of demanding the impossible from him, I reflected that right now is not what I want.
I mean, do you think sex should be a chore for OP's wife? Sex is supposed to be fun and feel good. It should be something she wants to do instead of something she just does because she feels obligated. Who knows, maybe OP himself also changed after the ring was on her finger and that's causing resentment.
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Yeah, I was thinking the sheer amount of red flags on the first date was enough to not have a second one
That's my take as well. Elsewhere on Reddit I was downvoted like mad suggesting such a thing.
Okay, right?
You are definitely wasting your time if it's been affecting your mental health badly.
She isn't interested in you, that much is clear. You only live once… so speed up love for yourself and cut off the people that aren't there to choose you.
That goes for friends all the same.