Don't drag it out any longer. I did and it wasn't worth it. If your marriage is any thing like mine was, there was already an army of red flags and it just continued to grow. Nothing was ever good enough. I could spend an entire day gutting the house and meticulously putting it back together, all clean, purged of clutter, but if there were crumbs on the kitchen counter then he'd accuse me of being lazy and doing nothing all day. There was always a fault with me somewhere and of course, he was oh so perfect. There were never affirmations or compliments that didn't come with strings or barbs. Honestly, it was exhausting just to exist some days. End it and move on, life is too short to fix what's broken and please those who cannot be pleased. Get therapy for yourself, find yourself and walk a new path.
Yeah I put up with something like that for years and left.
Yeah I put up with something like that for years and left.
Don't drag it out any longer. I did and it wasn't worth it. If your marriage is any thing like mine was, there was already an army of red flags and it just continued to grow. Nothing was ever good enough. I could spend an entire day gutting the house and meticulously putting it back together, all clean, purged of clutter, but if there were crumbs on the kitchen counter then he'd accuse me of being lazy and doing nothing all day. There was always a fault with me somewhere and of course, he was oh so perfect. There were never affirmations or compliments that didn't come with strings or barbs. Honestly, it was exhausting just to exist some days. End it and move on, life is too short to fix what's broken and please those who cannot be pleased. Get therapy for yourself, find yourself and walk a new path.
Not my boyfriend, and i dont see a problem with it as long as its not serious yet.