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It sounds like you aren’t over your ex or you suspect that he isn’t over you. Out of respect for your relationship, you should either be open about dating your boyfriend or stop talking to your ex.
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Whatever else he may be, he is certainly not a friend.
The fact that she went out with other dudes and you didn't go out with anyone says everything to me. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. She proved it too. 8billion people on Earth and you're stuck up on this one. She's just keeping you hooked emotionally. She doesn't want you to go out and replace her cuz according to psychology, women hate being replaced. We're hardwired through evolution, a woman wants a mate who will protect her from danger. She feels threatened to let go because then she will have nobody for her protection. She might be doing it unconsciously too, but essentially she's using you for her own benefits.
I suggest you move on. Please. For your sake. You can get many women. Don't be stuck up and be used like this. Value yourself.
So your insecure about your size then.
My partner knows I think he’s big so when I say “hi little friend” it’s not because it’s small & it’s just that he is the big one and his p is the smaller than him in his entirety therefore small one.
You need help about your tiny penis
Maybe your wife knows that you’re still in love with your ex , and that’s why she doesn’t want you ??♀️
America is built on stolen land then built up by slaves and immigrants.
OP, avoid “gamey relationships.”
You really don’t want to be running behind your girlfriend “trying to fix her.”
You can’t fix people. You can only tell them what you think is wrong and they will either agree or not.
If you’re okay with this behavior, so be it. If not, be direct with her and tell her you’re not.
If she prefers to cuddle with “gay men” that she’s kissed before, I’d suggest you be on your way.
Updateme!
Well the timeline's been like this
The first date we went to eat and we both went to the wrong place, laughed it off. By the time it ended she said she had a good time and we said we'd try to go to a place nearby. The second date we went to a mall, spent a good amount of time there, hugged, and she invited me to a festival. The third date was the magical one, held hands, she planned everything to a T, right time and parking space, tickets. We sat in her car and talked for an hour or so, she confided stuff in me and vice versa. The fourth date we went to a dinner and show that she suggested, but I had asked her for the suggestion. The fifth date I proposed, but we ended up going to a diner she suggested instead. She still wants to go on a 6th which is the location I suggested.
She suggested 4 of these, and I only proposed the 2nd one. But I'm usually the one going “hey let's go out/where would you like to go.”
When we have a solid plan she seems interested but I wouldn't say she's always gone out of her way, at least not the way I would. It's not like I get a text saying “hey we should hang” every week. She just quietly suggests something when I ask if she's free.
Right, No guy goes out and purchases a bra to plant in his own room and I don’t know of any women who would lend their bra to be planted for a test. If there is test it’s a test of OPs intelligence level and how easily she can be manipulated.
She can try to “forbid” all she wants. Since she's not your mother, she can't stop you.
I love that this is the top comment.
Throw the pills out and keep doing it until she keeps them in the bathroom. Job done.
Me and my wife have had a great relationship, I have loved her more than anything else in the world and I could feel the same from her too, we have 2 daughters who are 16 and 14 and of course I love them too. My wife is someone who always cared and we never had any stupid fights or anything like that.
There is an unfortunate disconnect throughout this post that is worrisome when it comes to reconciliation. There is little doubt what you are going to do but I hope you show yourself some respect here. Totally blind sided with no explanation, not to mention 0 respect or care for your feelings by her just walking away. Evidently this upsets your fellow redditors off more than you. You mention you are scared she does it again. You need to be mad she did this to you. Demand answers and a plan of action. Rug sweeping the entire issue will come back to haunt you down the line. For sure.
Tough situation, but the fact that she had the courage to tell you and not string you along while she's cheating is something to appreciate. I think you should give it 6mo. It'll take a few months to adjust by your self. Good luck to you and your ex.
I definitely think they should not be having sex until they have a deep conversation about what they want.
Sounds like he is changing his mind on the kids issue, a fundamental change like that needs to examined now.
my boyfriend is very lovely and romantic
Nope. Not a chance in hell he is of these things.
He's a guy with huge anger issues who tries to manipulate you with threats of self harm.
Stop trying to defend him and get yourself safe before he “accidentally” punches you.
I don't view it as a competition thing. For me, intimacy is intimacy, lots of people do indeed have needs for different sexes and consequently need to be with both on different occasions, but many others do not. I am one of those people, I view the act of being intimate itself as the important thing regardless of what bits are there and go where. A kiss is a kiss, for example. I can kiss, you can kiss, any gender can kiss. And it's still an intimate moment you share with someone else.
Sounds like your friend had a plan to antagonize you, her response just seems too exaggerated/dramatic tbh. Either she's projecting because she's insecure about the age gap in her relationship, she's projecting because she has something to hide, or she was just looking for an out of the friendship for whatever reason.
And if it was the case that she was insecure about her own age gap then she had no right to call you something as heinous as a p*do. Other commenters are right to say that you should be the one ghosting her. No matter what her problem is she needs to learn the weight that her words carry. I wonder how many other bridges she's burned saying things like that.
And for her
OP thinks guy's hot, not her type
But for friend guy's hot and a 10/10 for her
WTF is wrong with her?!
I had the same thought
There are all sorts of things that can lead to this. My wife's extreme weight gain was also at the same time as a loss of sex drive, but it also surrounded an entire personality change for her. Like, I was dating a completely new person two years later. 20 years later, I still don't know what caused it, although I have my suspicions. I also lived through years of her telling me she was working on it and it would be better, if only I did this and that, or once so-and-so was behind her. No matter what I did, or how settled things were, she never came back.
It's possible there is something lurking behind the scenes. Trauma I possible. Or it could be that she's realizing that she's 25 and engaged. I married my wife when she was 23 (I was 30). We should not have gotten married. It caused her to give up everything she wanted to do in her life, and I don't think she ever got over it.
It's up to you, honestly. It'll all come out eventually or fizzle out on its own. I personally don't care about burning bridges, I call out inappropriate actions when I see them. Even something as passive aggressive as asking him how his girlfriend is doing in front of people in class works for me.
With rhat said, you waited a bit too long to suddenly start feeling guilty about this. So, it's a bit of a pickle.
girl it sounds like your the side chick. if that’s not the case, honey he doesn’t prioritize you. he sees you as a back-up plan and is using you for sex. break up with him and find better.
Yep, that's what i meant!!
Write her a letter, tell her how you feel, thank her, show your appreciation with gift included!!!
Hand written notes are unfortunately almost extinct! They mean a lot.
haha right, as if people never lie.
How am I keeping score by being objective about the split of things?
No fucking wonder he doesn’t like the idea…
My advice would be to get your driver's license (or maybe motorcycle license, if it's easier to get?) and get some type of transportation.
I think you and your boyfriend are perfectly matched. ?
Woah, no!!! I am not against poly relationships, but you are asking for trouble if you agree to this. If my spouse missed his ex THAT much then I would understand his heart is not with me, and I would walk out the door. The best thing you can do for yourself is leave. Don't let yourself be second, and I promise you that you are currently second.
It's not though. The relevant question is first to ask how important it is. Everything else follows from the answer.
Jesus, you're extrapolation a lot from a three sentence description of a one sided interaction. Chill down
little update: we spent a few days away from each other and he apologized for everything and offered to be monogamous again, which i happily agreed to. we‘ll both need time but we want to make it better together
Your girlfriend is probably struggling with PPD. Her body changed, her lifestyle changed, she probably does the majority of childcare and night time feeds.. . Like duh, she's tired AF.
Sir, he's done f*ed up, and he needs damage control advice, he doesn't want to be your first meeting with him to be this Mess. Chill.
Cancel the wedding & go from there. Your in the middle 2 very important, high stress decisions. These decisions are overwhelming enough in the best of circumstances. Best of wishes to all 3 of you.
i am pretty sure it was bc he was dating another person when he started pulling back. i mean, that is what happen when you don’t discuss exclusivity (or in your case, cement it). the guy seem to be insecure and might be bipolar. it would explain why he is clinging on, in case the other relationship does not works out (he has his doubts, etc.). maybe he is one of those love bombing type. hot and heavy early, then die out toward mid and dead toward the end. so i don’t see why the same wouldn’t happen with his new relationship. OR maybe he is simply playing you bc he thinks you are a sure thing.
i personally think you didn’t do anything wrong (other that flirting with FWB thing, that was a mistake). so i wouldn’t waste time thinking about it. the timing is just bad.
my advice, this guy is not being 100% with you. you are better off finding someone else.
This is abuse, plain and simple. Do not ignore this.
Not at all, word it the same way you did on this post and it should be fine. Better safe than sorry. It's not like you are accusing him or something. And STDs can be spread without even the penetration part.
Looks like you're prepared for the consequences.
I simply wouldn’t agree to procreate with a man who thinks so little of me. He truly believes that not only would you cheat on him, but that you’d try to pass off any resulting child as his. I couldn’t even date someone who thought so little of me, let alone have kids with them. He has no respect for you.
His trust and insecurity are his problem. Don’t let them become yours.
So, you were both trying to get pregnant and now only she is trying to get pregnant?
So? Let him cry? He has other women right? He did not care about your miscarriage, what makes you think he cares if you break up with him? It is an act to keep you trapped and then he will start his asshole antics again.
Sorry I don’t understand how you can just dismiss it as, I don’t want to ruin her birthday I’ll talk to her later. Do you enjoy the lack of respect? Tell her that she obviously doesn’t see your relationship the same way you do. You’ll be moving out, and have to think about whether to stay in he relationship with her.
I was listening to an excellent podcast with Daniel Pink yesterday on the Power of Regret (he also has a book by the same name). He says that regret is flip side of your values and life objectives. If you regret something it is because what you did wasn’t in line with your current values and how you want to live your life. We all have regrets, they are only a problem if we don’t learn from them. It sounds like you understand what you regret and why so the final step is to make a plan to change. It sounds like the lesson for you to learn is how much you love your husband and the importance of staying with your therapy and medication to be the kind of partner you want to be. If you focus on the past the shame may lead you to being a worse partner for now or to making bad decisions. The best thing for you and your husband is to learn the lesson from this regret and make sure you don’t create more future regrets.
No you're just selfish to the core, you're just scared to admit you're a gross, selfish and horrible person so disguise not being able to accept the consequences of your actions as not wanting to “hurt them because you love them sooo much”.
You need to take a look at dictionary, because you're clearly don't know the meaning of half the words you're using. Love, Hurt, Accountable and accident is a good start.
Well that's an issue your going to have to solve on your own. Staying with him because of that is going to make you victim of abuse although you already are.
Either he is manipulating you
It could also be this sadly, you should speak with old friends of him or family members to be sure.
I had this problem with an ex gf who claimed she had health issues and could only eat vegan, critizising everything I made and always choosing what we would eat, it went so far that even when I made 100% vegan recipes she would still insist she couldn't eat it, it was either gluten or sugar or too much salt, or somehow animal related.
Until the day I found her stashes of candy and chocolate she was eating behind my back, turns out she noticed she could have the upperhand by having the last word on food.