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Date: December 16, 2022
Well he has the right to have his preferences, even of he word them poorly or you think they are bullshi. Not much to do here but to move on
This is harshly worded but the truth op
well ordinarily i would suggest an in-person chat yet there's some things in your post that hint towards emotional abuse so she isnt entitled to that. Then you're left with either a phone call or a message. If you want to be “kind”, say something like “This relationship just isnt what im looking for anymore. I dont think we're compatible. I value the time we had together but its over. I wish you nothing but the best and im sorry if this is hurtful.”. You can let her rant for a few minutes if you want but dont argue with her. Just say stuff like “Im sorry. My mind if made up” and then say goodbye and hang up. Considering how insecure she behaves, I would preemptively go ahead and block her on all the things.
After the breakup, spend time with loved one. Feel your feels but dont reach out to her! Focus on yourself. Try to improve your self esteem. Practice self affirmations.
Sometimes…you just see a physically beautiful person, and the brain responds to that. Feeling that attraction doesn't mean he's going to act on that.
Um It depends on where you live. My wife and I are not joint on either of our properties. I own one- as does she. Both bought in the marriage.
I mean they are better than him but Id still set the bar higher than people who just awkwardly listen while someone says stuff like that.
OP, I certainly feel your pain. My wife and I are 8 years apart in age. We had our first daughter when when the wife was 26 and I was 34. I would have been happy with just one, and when I turned 39 I brought up the idea of getting a vasectomy. We had a miscarriage a year before, and I didn't want to take another chance of that happening. But, my wife broke down and said that she wanted to try for another child. I didn't feel pressured, just needed to hear the pain in her voice to agree with her. Lo and behold 10 months later we welcomed our second daughter. Now at my age of 56, the youngest is almost 17 and I don't regret the decision at all. Did we have to change our finances around, and take shorter vacations, of course. But it was well worth the decision. There isn't a day that I regret having her or the sacrifices we made along the way. Will it bother me if she is still living with us until she is 25, and I am 65, maybe but time will tell. My only sincere advice to you is go see a therapist together and make the right decision, parenthood as you well know is always about making concessions.
Why the heck would he be entitled to a ring that was never his??? It’s YOUR family heirloom. You let him propose with it but that doesn’t make it his.
Block them all & move on.
Do not give him your mom's ring! What a bunch of crazy people! Press all the charges available and get a restraining order on Austin.
I don’t know, for her to tell you to not worry over your cat so much, to then telling you to “snap out” of grieving literally a day after, to then saying she believes you abandoned your cat is too deliberate imo. It seems like she’s using this situation (and hers) to hurt you. Every bit of information you tell her, she twists against you.
And for her supposed therapist to be confirming whatever she’s already been thinking of you, when she’s treating and talking to you like this, is not a good sign. She must’ve been telling this therapist a very different set of events. Or could even just be saying her therapist told her to to justify her actions. Regardless, this is not a person you should want to keep around.
“Hurt people hurt people” exists for people like your “friend,” but it does not mean a free pass to be cruel, especially to people going through just as much as you. You deserve a peaceful time to grieve and let your emotions pass, as well as a friend you can actually trust to confide in for moments like this. My condolences, OP.
I knew it! There was too many for it to be a coincidence
Yes, you’re being irrational and overly insecure and this is a good way to kill a relationship. She’s doing nothing wrong. Tell her to have a good time and you’ll call her later.
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I can't believe a man my age is acting like a 16 years old socially inept teen. That's probably why he's going after someone your age
You deserve so much better. Don't waste your time on this trash
Thank you for the advice and not being condescending. I appreciate it and will trust her
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Thank you, I really appreciate your advice! I don't like conflicts so it's not easy for me to bring up difficult conversations and I didn't know how to do that without being too confrontational. This helped me frame my approach.
For most of us it would be.. that takes lotsa $!!
He (HE) should have spoken up, rather than confirming it was okay and committing to the bit until the end.
So he isn’t manipulating and controlling her, he just has the opportunity to. That’s not immoral.
You’re making assumptions about why he isn’t with a woman closer to his age.
It’s morally right if they’re attracted to each other – that’s all that matters.
Unless the condom broke you're likely to be fine, but again pregnancy test before you panic.
Reversals aren’t guaranteed.
you do not do that, as that only leads to a lifetime of filth with ultimatums that get listened to for about 2 months before the filth returns.
Is he worried about what you might tell an outside therapist about him, or about your relationship?
Does he have a reason to be?
I thought the same thing.
You should really read the situation I’m not asking him to choose. You’ve added nothing to this post.
First of all, you’re not attracted to the friend because she’s Korean? But are to the white sister? That part of the post was…something.
That said, do not do this. This woman is barely an adult and you’ve known her since she was a minor. This is unnecessarily messy and you need to leave it alone. Also, the friend is going to find out and I’m also guessing the sister will tell her.
When I bring it up he says it should be a surprise and won’t tell me anything.
Life isn't a disney-movie. The average couple sits down regularly and talks about timelines and expectations, first roughly, and over time more and more in-detail. Even if you agree “we want to be engaged within the next year”, the proposal itself will still be a surprise.
When we talk about kids he always jokes about it being between 2-8 years. I definitely would like to start trying before 8 years because my mom struggled to get pregnant with me.
Does he actually realise how long it can take to conceive (e.g. 1 year on average for healthy couples)? How frequent miscarriages are? Has he talked to his doctor about his personal fertility? He sounds a bit ignorant tbh.
Thanks for the help! I'm sure you're right
??♀️ this has got to be fake. Men cannot be this selfish and stupid
The adults on here understand that she (possibly) went thru his phone w/o his permission and that IS an overstep. HOWEVER, we also understand that he participated in risky behavior….i.e. going to a strangers house, swapping bodily fluids with a stranger with STIs being at an all time high, and falling asleep at said stranger's house. But he's in his feelings about her calling him AND like some of you in comments, doesn't get the irony of his post. His priorities are in the wrong place.
Um how the heck would nexplanon that he suggests allow for spontaneous romantic baby making sexy? Derp.
Frankly making a baby shouldn't be spontaneous anyway. And getting N IUD removed is way easier than getting one put in.
Flush him!
Lol. This is super lame. Intercultural differences shouldn’t be something we fight over and that families can’t seem to get over. My partner and I are from very different generations and backgrounds, she’s second generation and I’m 13th generation. We’re both Americans. Get over yourself.
What are you going to do when your daughter is old enough to do some basic math? She’s not going to be a teenager when she figures out mommy was born 1979/80 and daddy was born in 2000/01. Will you tell her you’re a child predator or will you try to spin it like like you narrowly avoided prison time to bone your son’s only friend?
As for getting authorities involved, I’m sorry everyone but I’m not emotional strong enough to put myself through more humiliation.
OP: How are you going to feel about the NEXT WOMAN he does this to knowing that you had the opportunity to press charges and give him real consequences…but didn't?
Please reconsider and let your parents help support you in bringing criminal charges against this guy. He's abusive and now is the time to nip it in the bud!
It’s not your job to “change” or “fix” her. You are not her therapist.
She has a responsibility to seek professional help. If she doesn’t, that’s a sign that she has no desire to change.
It does sound as if she is emotionally manipulating you. She throws a pity party about her inability (unwillingness) to change, and you respond by reassuring her that she doesn’t really need to because you’ll do it for her. So now you’ve become an enabler.
This is a really unhealthy relationship.
I’ve told him multiple times the same thing-he doesn’t respect me or my feelings. He just says that isn’t true. I still feel like he doesn’t respect me and it does show. He accepts gifts from other women which bothers me, but he says it’s only an issue for me when it involves another woman. Of course it does. To me, that’s disrespectful. He just somehow always flips it and idk I guess I just sometimes or more recently have been feeling like I’m not doing my part in the relationship. I’m not perfect and I know I’m not perfect.
Yikes. Her income will never be guaranteed if she decides on ever having kids. Whoever/ whom ever she marries will most likely be responsible for paying that loan.
Given how you have doubts, simply be more careful.
Use two forma of protection if you have sex… and make sure you date someone who doesn't want kids now, someone who is on the same page about abortion.
It's nearly unbelievable your father hasn't beaten the fuck out of the man who beat both his daughters. What's wrong with him?
“At least my degree carries value”! Holy shit OP!
Yeah, I guess.
I understand OP breaking up with her, but I feel bad for her too. This is life-ruining stuff.
When I left my abusive relationship, I lost every friend I had overnight except for one.
It was still the best decision I ever made for my life.
If they’re not on your side of the situation, they’re not your friends
The paternity test is not even an issue.
THIS however, is the actual issue.
Your husband sounds terrible. He’s negatively talking about you to a coworker you’ve told him you aren’t a fan of. He chose her, even if it’s just platonic.
He’s got to step up, and I want to be hopeful that he will. Yes, he may work night shifts, but he’s an adult and he should be able to handle his own chores. My husband has a hard time with cleaning up and pitching in too. What works for us was assigning specific chores to him and building it into a routine. He takes out the trash every day on his way to work, he does laundry over the weekend (I handle laundry during the week), he loads dishwasher every Sunday, etc. Just trying to give you some idea that worked for us. Start small with 3 chores and get him to do a deep clean with you one day to get you guys caught up.
Do I think he’ll stop? I do not. Why? Because all he’s done is show you over and over that he doesn’t respect your boundaries.
You then say something that really stands out and I really want to give you advice on that; “his actions weren’t the best, but I’ve met a lot of guys who were worse.”
Don’t make dating or relationship decisions based on what’s “better.” Better doesn’t mean good. So you don’t know any good guys yet. Keep at it. Don’t settle for the sake of settling. That’s how you end up in an unhealthy relationship.
Sits poorly with you? He’s a 350 pound man. He needs ALL the concern on his weight he can get and THEN SOME. why are we trying to pretend 350 pounds is a liveable weight? He’s obese. He will die soon if he doesn’t get it together. When was the last time you saw a 350 pound man at the age of 60??????
How are you this obtuse at your big age? You will stay single until you grow up.
This Hass to be a troll story and just can’t be real. Because you are a bad person you absolutely know what’s going on with her boyfriend who is depressed and can barely function and you pretend to be his friend will not even try and help him out after what 10 years he’s been around 10 years and you’ve been around 15 you’re a bad person nobody would be that cruel to somebody your lives cruel to him as you say, she is to him and to you, this is a toxic freaking mess. It’s got to be a troll story it can’t be real.
You and she deserve to be friends you’re to the same kind of people. So you think it’s OK cause she said once he was a narcissist acted like it was his fault. I don’t even know what to say. It’s so disgusting. The whole thing is. Tell the guy let them breathe and get the hell away from there from both of you.
It doesn't make any sense to me. You might give it more time, to see if things improve. If they don't, though, then she's not the one.
You should probably speak to a therapist about this. Yes you reading incest pornography and thinking of your brother while masturbating is making the problem worse and further cementing the sexual attraction.
The “go get him back” thought process is what’s fucking me up the most. I’m not this type of woman, and I’ll never be this type of woman- I know it’s purely circumstantial and most likely rooted in loneliness over missing him as my partner. I hate that I feel this way and it makes me so fucking sick.
Ready and willing to do something immoral and dangerous.
You probably want to have a good long think about what that means in the long run.