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Date: October 18, 2022
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I don't know the answer to this, but my guess is fellow 'alpha' douchebags. Ask yourself this, though. When you're right and he's wrong how do you let him know? Do you yell, call him names, etc? Of course not, you're a decent human, and I want a decent human partner for you, you deserve it.
And, yes, you do. Know how I know? Your comments here show a willingness to listen and take on new information. Even if you're not perfect, you came here wanting to be better, whereas your boyfriend seems to think his shitty behaviour doesn't need to improve and blames other people for it. Naaaaaaah. Get out please.
You should be.
hey! current fourth year med student here – been in your shoes, its tough. for what its worth, there ARE people (your partner maybe being one of them) who will understand your time commitments and love you anyway as long as you put in what you can. Ive been in several relationships where we did our best and they were still great! That being said, you’re right that this is the reality of going into medicine. Those people are out there, but there’s less of them and the time commitment ramps up even more in med school and then residency. It sounds like you love the field and thats awesome!! Even with that, Its good to reflect if its for you from time to time. Happy to chat more, feel free to DM me!
I am sorry to hear about the situation you are in. It sounds like your husband is emotionally abusive towards you, and that this is causing you a great deal of distress. Emotional abuse can be just as harmful as physical abuse, and it is important that you take steps to protect yourself and your children.
It is never okay for someone to treat you with disrespect or to make you feel scared or humiliated. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, and to be able to spend time with your family and friends without fear of your husband's reaction.
If you feel like you are in immediate danger, it is important that you contact the police right away. They can help you to get to a safe place, and provide you with support and resources.
If you are not in immediate danger, but are still feeling scared and overwhelmed, there are several things you can do to help yourself. First, it is important that you reach out to someone for support. This could be a close friend or family member, a therapist, or a support group for people who have experienced emotional abuse. Having someone to talk to and confide in can make a huge difference, and can help you to feel less alone and more supported.
In addition to seeking support, it is also important that you take steps to protect yourself from further abuse. This may mean setting boundaries with your husband and making it clear that you will not tolerate being treated disrespectfully. It may also mean finding ways to spend time with your family and friends without your husband present, if possible.
Finally, it is important that you take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. This may mean making time for activities that you enjoy, such as spending time with friends, engaging in hobbies, or exercising. It may also mean seeking out professional help, such as therapy, to help you cope with the emotional effects of the abuse.
Overall, it is important that you take steps to protect yourself and your children from your husband's emotional abuse. This may mean seeking out support and resources, setting boundaries, and prioritizing your own well-being. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and to be able to live your life free from fear and abuse.
Nobody needs anyone in their life who thinks they are NOT “attractive nor interesting.” Nobody! Imagine she wrote this and it was about you. Right? Let her go. Someone else will love having a dependable and loving woman they know they can lean on. She doesn't need your half-assed, pitiful attempt at a relationship.
How did you find out he was doing this?
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So, he actively does things to prove he doesn’t want the best for you, but says he does. And you believe him? Every heard the saying “actions speak louder than words”?
He’s showing you who he is, why don’t you believe him?
It doesn't have to be the truth for the kids to believe it! If their mother starts telling lies to her children about their dad's new wife they are going to be inclined to believe it. Such as “after they're married *OP won't want you around.” Or something. Making inferences is enough for the kids to have doubt and feel uncertain especially with their parents new partners .
He can wear condoms. You’re not obligated to stay on birth control. The entire burden of pregnancy prevention should not be on you since A) YOU’RE MARRIED and B) You both don’t want a pregnancy. You guys are supposed to be a TEAM.
Stop catering to him. ESPECIALLY since he’s hinting at not being with you in the long run. He wants to keep his options open, he can bear the consequences of that—condoms.
She can't promise you exclusivity? It's over.
Don't let her waste your time like that.
If you want some closure, then text her that. “Hey, I realized I didn't want to wait for someone who couldn't even promise exclusivity or a timeline. As far as I see it you broke up with me by saying those things and were just to afraid to say so for whatever reason. Good luck to you.”
Then block and move on.
IMO, it's not open unless you like being stringed along.
Sounds entirely like she broke up with you already. Btw .
You might love him, but he doesn't love you. He'd say anything about you if it suited him. Think about the girl who was honest with you about him, who looked out for you when he lied about you. She knew he was trash and she knew she'd rather tell you the truth than get back with this total fucking clown. He sold you out to her to try to stay with her and she was loyal to you. Not him. Think about that. This guy is only about himself. This woman is more on your side than he is.
Drop him like the turd he is. Meet someone who values you.
Not much you can do anyway
How long will you be LDR for
You end your awful and abusive relationship. Seems obvious..
What is a progressive muslim
I just thought that since she put her email ok my phone it would be ok to put mine on her's.
Dont listen to this. She lied, yes you found out the wrong way but ultimately, she can not be trusted.
Your husband is a rapist!!!!! he raped your sister. A woman so drunk she cannot stand up by herself cannot consent to sex!!!
People can speculate all day long about whether you’re a side chick or whatever, but the bottom line is that he puts VERY little effort into this relationship or into making you feel like he cares. He doesn’t want to change his life to fit you in it, and he doesn’t want to include you. It seems like he either doesn’t or can’t care about you, so why would you want to be with this guy?
He didn't just “realize”after he stopped. He knew, you were crying and begging, he raped you anyway. That's the very unfortunate truth, which is that you were in fact raped by someone you thought you could trust. Yes, you should leave.
In the most gentle and loving way, I think you should delete the account and speak to a therapist. If you can't move on from his behavior after three years to the point that you are still obsessing over ways to be in contact with him and dissect his thought patterns, you need support to start the healing process.
You're not crazy, but you are picking at your wounds instead of trying to heal them. That's not good for you. A therapist can help you work through the hurt so you can leave this guy and what he did in the past.
He’s done it once and he’ll do it again. Let her know so she can make an informed decision about her relationship.
My tip is: don't, unless you are 120% convinced this is what everyone involved wants (i.e. you're from a culture where this is a thing). If you're not, just ask her directly, otherwise you're in for the very uncomfortable “I'm not my dad's property you have to buy out” conversation with your gf.
Despite what many people say, don't deprive yourself of something you really can't live without. If you're the kind of person who wants regular sex in their life it's really not something to be ashamed about.
If a dead bedroom is something you fear down your life, then I'd advise against marrying this person. But ultimately it's up to you to decide if it's what you can live without. My parents live with a dead bedroom and they're perfectly content and happy with it!
True, and that's exactly what I wanted him to understand. I told him that I can't spend my life with someone who doesn't want to hear my problems when I need to talk about it. We can't be a team that way and I think in a relationship you need to be there for one another. I told him, you know, if you have a terrible life and we spend our lives together, will I not be allowed to talk about my problems because you have bigger ones? It doesn't make any sense.
I didn't get a response for what I said in my text, so I can't fix things with someone who doesn't want to discuss anything with me.
Well, you should probably know this information. If he was, how would you feel ?
Conventionally, exes dont work well as friends with one another because they were physically intimate with each other. I personally wouldnt like if my husband was still talking to his ex.
Idk about you, but I dont think its fair to your partner to string him along when you clearly have feelings for someone you used to screw.
this is a messy one, because obviously we all have preferences, but the question becomes where does that preference come from…
And “unique” reads a lot (in this post) like a modernized version of “exotic” – which would be very “othering” to the women you date – it's not them you are seeing but rather their difference from you/some internalized norm.
Does this make you a racist scumbag? No.
Does this come from racist ideas of what is “normal” and what is “unique” – it sort of reads like it does.
Now don't get me wrong, black women and Asian women are beautiful, as they are women, and all women are beautiful, it's just whether your preference is truly based on them as individuals, or the fact that they are a different/other that is the root of your friends concern… Take a little time, sit with the discomfort that this answer will kick up, and think about where things come from… This isn't a bad thing, it's an opportunity to think about your own biases, and possibly widen your dating pool, or at the very least be able to better understand what your preferences are, and if they really are not about that “exotic” quality, you can explain things to your friend better, and heal that confusion.
ENM- a dying relationship's death rattle
I apologize for the misuse of punctuation I was just typing that out to get it out But how do I confront her about the lie ?
Thank you for responding. I do want to be in my sons life. I know my wife would not take me back even if I didn’t. She is very adamant I be in my sons life, and due to my sons mothers circumstances I will be taking custody which she fully supports. It just feels like my life has fallen apart and I lose out on so much with my other kids.
why won’t you dump this guy that you don’t like?
serious q.
dude’s been yanking your chain.
Oh, possibly! Although he did make it sound like he was really into me and wanted me to give him a chance. I suppose he wouldn’t have missed his horse winning to still meet me if he wasn’t.