Finding information about things like std history, or any thing that can effect you in any way, should not be a problem. You should be upfront and honest with your worries, and if the other person cannot accept it, bounce.
It is legal. However, it only kept becoming worse and worse. From a white person's perspective, a 15-year-old Asian looks like a child. Hell, I thought my Asian landlady was younger than me when she was old enough to be my mom. So, for him to reciprocate at that time, especially being much older, is creepy to say the least. And I can hardly see much common interests between an 15-year-old and a 22-year-old. He's been grooming you for years and is now going beyond because it's legal. Your family is thinking in husband terms, checking his income. This guy is a paedophile who isn't interested in marrying you and will dump you as soon as you start looking or behaving like an adult.
Take the relationship at your own pace, this is your life. You don't need to live your life for other people, least of all let your life be strictly defined by a religion that you don't wholeheartedly prescribe to. If you really think that this lady could be the one, then I would recommend valuing her, standing by her and doing what is right for you both (and not anyone else).
Not cheating at all and she did a rather nice job of putting her boundaries on the table. She did get pursued, she thought he was just being nice and he bailed as soon as she mentioned you.
i think bidets are great and are more economical (and environmentally-friendly) in the long run. Im not against wipes though and ik some ppl prefer them. I just recommend throwing them in the trash rather than flushing them.
I dunno based on his reactions to comments rightfully calling him up on expecting her to get over it AND saying he’s “not invested enough” to get a postnuptial, and that he cheated because he wanted to divorce and ultimately cheated because he “missed being a bachelor” I really think he thinks he means well, but he doesn’t.
Sounds like he has a severely avoidant attachment or possibly cheated that Saturday night, or both .
The post makes it seem like he’s been very wishy washy and is afraid of commitment. Some people panic when things get real or someone gets too close. The fact he said this happens to him a lot leads me to believe this is a pattern he has because of his fear of closeness
He clearly has insecurities and you probably didn't help when you left him for your ex just to come back. He probably feels like your just with him because he is a safer bet than your ex.
Video game addiction is absolutely a thing. Give him an ultimatum – either he seeks help, or you leave.
Have you said anything about going on a date? Maybe your current expectations are different to his.
Finding information about things like std history, or any thing that can effect you in any way, should not be a problem. You should be upfront and honest with your worries, and if the other person cannot accept it, bounce.
It is legal. However, it only kept becoming worse and worse. From a white person's perspective, a 15-year-old Asian looks like a child. Hell, I thought my Asian landlady was younger than me when she was old enough to be my mom. So, for him to reciprocate at that time, especially being much older, is creepy to say the least. And I can hardly see much common interests between an 15-year-old and a 22-year-old. He's been grooming you for years and is now going beyond because it's legal. Your family is thinking in husband terms, checking his income. This guy is a paedophile who isn't interested in marrying you and will dump you as soon as you start looking or behaving like an adult.
Take the relationship at your own pace, this is your life. You don't need to live your life for other people, least of all let your life be strictly defined by a religion that you don't wholeheartedly prescribe to. If you really think that this lady could be the one, then I would recommend valuing her, standing by her and doing what is right for you both (and not anyone else).
That’s a lot of text to avoid holding black people accountable. Sounds like ‘racism of lower expectations’ to me.
Getting judged for dating an older man wasn’t the advice she was looking for, from what I read. Maybe I misread it.
I emphasize that I don't want to continue the relationship yeah
Granted I guess I wasn't mature about it
I can't block her yet she needs to pick up her stuff. Yeah she had some stuff over we weren't even dating that long
But I guess she can replace it
To be fair she has not contacted me so I guess that might not happen so I guess I should block her you're right
Has he always been this controlling? Moving in together is not going to help… think long and hard before you make that move.
Not cheating at all and she did a rather nice job of putting her boundaries on the table. She did get pursued, she thought he was just being nice and he bailed as soon as she mentioned you.
Nothing to see here.
And don't send any nude with faces
No, he did not cheat. And no, he did not lie, they were broken up.
i think bidets are great and are more economical (and environmentally-friendly) in the long run. Im not against wipes though and ik some ppl prefer them. I just recommend throwing them in the trash rather than flushing them.
I dunno based on his reactions to comments rightfully calling him up on expecting her to get over it AND saying he’s “not invested enough” to get a postnuptial, and that he cheated because he wanted to divorce and ultimately cheated because he “missed being a bachelor” I really think he thinks he means well, but he doesn’t.
Sounds like he has a severely avoidant attachment or possibly cheated that Saturday night, or both .
The post makes it seem like he’s been very wishy washy and is afraid of commitment. Some people panic when things get real or someone gets too close. The fact he said this happens to him a lot leads me to believe this is a pattern he has because of his fear of closeness
I’ll be honest man, I would break up in a heartbeat. There’s no way I could deal with that.
I have a very strong disdain for farts and any smell like that, and I’d be out.
You can break up with anyone for any reason.
He clearly has insecurities and you probably didn't help when you left him for your ex just to come back. He probably feels like your just with him because he is a safer bet than your ex.