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Date: October 5, 2022
Talk to him. The worse he can say is that he doesn't return the feelings. It sounds like he does return your feelings, but the only way you'll know for sure is to talk to him about it.
You snooped and then asked her about her fantasies. She tried to talk about other people and fantasies, but you asked point blank about her exes. She could’ve lied, but she didn’t. Stop holding her past against her. You either accept that she has a past, or you don’t. And right now, you don’t really accept it. She isn’t cheating, she has fantasies in her head. That is not uncommon for women, as pleasure can require mental and physical stimulation. Maybe you could ask what move you could do that she really likes? What fantasies could you do together?
I know you feel hurt, but you are responsible for managing your feelings. And you need to work on that, and not make her responsible for how YOU feel about her past. Maybe therapy?
And maybe you’ll find out that you aren’t compatible, because you can’t get over her past. But figure out your feelings, don’t use this as an escude to blame her for everything.
Well an invitation is not forcing anyone to take vacation days or pay airfare. Especially since it's been made clear this is not the actual wedding. No one expects anyone to attend both, but she'd sure like to extend the invitation.
And not only does my mom want it, I want it. A lot of my friends and family cannot afford to travel to my wedding. Plus it would just get too big wirh my parents' friends who really want to celebrate with them.
Also know, he's marrying someone who basically lives a life where I get on a plane at the drop of a hat. It's no surprise that I celebrate holidays and such all over the country.
I hear you, 100%. That why I came to Reddit because I know something is not right. I guess knowing what I know about people, when they are suffering they take it out on the people closest to them. For my husband, I know he’s having a tough time with everything and if we can get him through this he could become the man he used to be. I’m not ready to give up on him yet…it may be foolish on part, but I believe the man I married is still in there…
I also doubt that anybody would consent to a polygraph test in which they would potentially have to admit to a crime.
I made the mistake of doing that and fuckin hell, I regretted it before a week has passed! That level of uselessness and incompetence was infuriating, that's just shitty parenting done by his folks. Nobody wants to have to basically babysit an adult and teach them how to do the most basic things that they should know already at the age OP is at, like household chores and shopping for groceries. Someone who hasn't had to lift a finger won't even think to do some of the things that is necessary to keep the house clean and will only do unnecessary stuff that adds to the load because they're used to their mommy picking up after them. Makes me wonder what he intends to bring to the relationship by moving in with her when he won't even make more than the minimum of effort to do anything for himself without someone holding his hand or just doing it for him. I'd be seriously worried about weaponized incompetence in the future or just permanent 'blindness' to everything that has to be done. The girlfriend is definitely the smart one, hopefully she'll stick to her decision and not make the mistake of bending and making the mistake I made.
Thanks! Yeah i think you're right it might be more enjoyable than I initially thought, especially given it's my first concert. And you're also right that I've been too focussed on the money aspect when in reality he's such a keeper to just want to experience it with me and to want me to get to do this stuff as well. I'm definitely more leaning towards saying yes now, ofc depending on specifics we can talk about once he's back.