As a guy I’m all about trying to spice up the bedroom activity with new kinks, but if the partner is not comfortable with certain things, then one should accept it. Your boyfriend shouldn’t be continually pressuring you into doing anal if you have already said no a few times and actually even tried. He straight being selfish in all honesty. Hope everything works out tho, but don’t feel the need to give in!✌?
If you want to work on your marriage, then he has to be the one to put in the work. And it doesn't matter if he's not comfortable with it, or whatever. How does he think he made you feel? And your family feel? And this was your brother. Like, the least likely person in the world that you would have any inappropriate relationship with. What about any other men in your life that aren't even related to you?
He has to put in the work – to YOUR comfort and security. If you feel therapy is one of the steps, then that's one of the steps. Whatever else you feel he needs to do to work on this and overcome it – name it and if he wants to save the marriage, then that's what has to be done.
But, if you don't think the marriage can be saved, then do not feel one bit bad about walking away.
So your father has the same toxic mindedness across the board and tries to use his height to intimidate.. yeah, he sounds like a great person – exactly how the bible wants its followers to be.
I think you should break up with your bf, clearly you'll never put him first in your relationship and you've already said that you need your father's support more (control isn't support btw).
She didn’t want to go back if you rest the OP fully.
Made me crack up hah. Im practicly her sugar daddy
She is just emotionally abusing you
Congrats! That must have been a big relief that the IUI worked before having to do the rough work of IVF
She sounds like she is trying to trap you.
everyone here is in their feelings
From the man claiming “it’s okay if it’s impossible, I just want a paternity test so I can FEEL secure”
You’re literally “in your feelings” about something that is physically impossible
Honestly, i would just break up BUT if you still have the energy to keep trying, go to couples counseling.
This sounds like absolute chaos and you’re choosing to marry into it?
As a guy I’m all about trying to spice up the bedroom activity with new kinks, but if the partner is not comfortable with certain things, then one should accept it. Your boyfriend shouldn’t be continually pressuring you into doing anal if you have already said no a few times and actually even tried. He straight being selfish in all honesty. Hope everything works out tho, but don’t feel the need to give in!✌?
This would make me leave someone.
If you want to work on your marriage, then he has to be the one to put in the work. And it doesn't matter if he's not comfortable with it, or whatever. How does he think he made you feel? And your family feel? And this was your brother. Like, the least likely person in the world that you would have any inappropriate relationship with. What about any other men in your life that aren't even related to you?
He has to put in the work – to YOUR comfort and security. If you feel therapy is one of the steps, then that's one of the steps. Whatever else you feel he needs to do to work on this and overcome it – name it and if he wants to save the marriage, then that's what has to be done.
But, if you don't think the marriage can be saved, then do not feel one bit bad about walking away.
12 hours is nothing, he's probably just busy
So your father has the same toxic mindedness across the board and tries to use his height to intimidate.. yeah, he sounds like a great person – exactly how the bible wants its followers to be.
I think you should break up with your bf, clearly you'll never put him first in your relationship and you've already said that you need your father's support more (control isn't support btw).