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Date: October 27, 2022
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Well, she asked me out. I wouldn't expect her to grab the check, but I thought splitting would be reasonable.
No one in their right mind would shame you for leaving him (I know that you’ll get push back, I believe you, but they’re not living your life, it’s not their place and they’re not thinking about you and your baby). Please don’t let religion hold you in an unhealthy home. Your daughter will grow up thinking that this is how men are suppose to treat women.
He’d badger you if you went to therapy and you have PTSD? oh love, I’m so sorry. My heart shattered for you when I read that. I have PTSD and therapy literally saved my life. My husband supported it 10000000% and we’ve been in couples therapy to help while I heal. Please know you’re worth all that and more.
He’s your life partner. He should want you to be healthy and happy, I don’t read that at all. Please look beyond the listed reasons to stay. None of them are love or happiness.
Reach for more because you deserve it, if not for you then for your daughter. She deserves more too.
just leave her… that idea is so sick
A thrill. He is most likely cheating on someone with you. And I'd bet he has convinced himself it's not cheating because you two have never met IRL.
People really aren't that complicated. This situation is far simpler than you think.
No, he is also eating like a child as well as acting like one
Recently my parents mentioned marriage and I asked him he wanted to get married to me. (My parents don't know about him).
Do you and your bf share the same cultural background? Does anyone know about your relationship?
Have you ever discussed timelines and expectations before, or were you simply enjoying time together without thinking too much about the future?
He is also suggesting taking a one month break to figure things out as he says that he wants to see if he really loves me or he is just used to me. When I've asked him why he is so unsure about being with me forever/getting married, he says that he is not satisfied with the relationship and he'll ruin both our lives in the long term if he is not satisfied
Sounds like he's had doubts for a while, but never actually communicated….
what can I do in case if she refuses to go there, is it fine if I will for example go alone and ask about this situation?
You know what to do, the question is whether or not you have the stones
Sounds to me like it went massage > wank > nut > credit card.
Not massage > wank > credit card > nut.
If that helps.
There’s a reas he’s dating so much younger than he is. Older more experienced women wouldn’t generally put up with his behaviour. OP you’re very young snd don’t have the relationship experience to realize he’s a huge self centred jerk. When something doesn’t go his way, you’re the problem. You say he can be really lovely, but I suspect that’s only when things are going his way.
If he wanted to marry you, he would propose. I’m all for doing what makes you happy and if proposing would make you happy then go ahead, but that doesn’t seem to be the issue here. The issue seems to be that he has changed his mind on marriage and didn’t include you on the conversation.
You guys need to sit down and get to the bottom of what he wants and what you want. If you value marriage and he doesn’t, then this relationship might not be a great fit for you. You should really sit long and hard with yourself about whether you want to get married, why it’s important to you, etc. Once you know if you’re 100% sold on marriage then you can talk to him about what he wants as well. You have valid reasons for wanting to get married but maybe he just no longer wants to get married at all.
Why wait? Go for it.
I guess you are in love with her and you are the only one who can fix her – right?
My dude, it doesn't take that much strength not to fuck someone other than your partner for 4 months. You're acting like this is some epic accomplishment. It's not.
Dude just break up
No, you’re right. Maybe that’s that boundary that I need to establish with her for my own sake. You are right about the new person not being the one to blame – she doesn’t know me, and she doesn’t know that my intentions are good. Though my ex showed her texts of our convos where she was asking my advice and I stood up for the new person when my ex was overthinking something (imho), and they ended up avoiding an argument, and she was like “oh I like her!” So like, you know I’m not about to go behind your back and do something stupid. I’m just trying to hold on to an important person in my life, that’s all.
Ex felt like she was stuck between two fires and felt very overwhelmed. She said she couldn’t manage everyone’s expectations in this situation, so she was hoping for my understanding, because she couldn’t “not consider her partner.” And I totally get that. Except, there’s no guarantee that this will ever change. Because it’s not mine or her actions that impacted her outlook on our friendship. So this is why I like your advice on having a better understanding of what time we’re allocating to this “figuring this out”
What changed in her life? One doesnt just become twice your original size for no reason.