wow you solved obesity and weight issues u should get a fuckin nobel prize ? omg everyone will be skinny now
like i said, try losing weight on birth control or antipsychotics or thyroid meds or antidepressants, that literally change the hormones that regulate appetite and energy, increase the uptake of glucose, and lower your metabolism. or get an understanding of basic human biology on why older people have a hard time losing weight and an easier time putting it on. how many ppl do you know that are still at their high school weight?
You need some time to be alone for a while. You fell in lust with a much older man and dumped the guy who had been with you for 4 years. Yes, you’re crawling back now and that’s how he’s going to see it. Even if he is still in love with you, you’re going to have to expect he’s going to be angry that you dumped him to screw this other guy. There’s a very good chance he isn’t going to support you anymore if you proposition him and he might tell you to go eff yourself. He’s a human after all.
If you want him back, take 6 months (or more) to yourself to ACTUALLY work through it. Let your bed be empty for a bit. Then broach the subject. Don’t try to hop from man to man and back again.
Yeah we've talked about how she abandoned him and went to Vegas with her friends without telling him and explained everything when she got back, he divorced her
But what is she saying are the things that need to change?
What’s blocking her from wanting to have sex according to her?
It doesn’t help to assume she’s lying. If that’s where you’re coming from, then there’s already no hope in fixing the relationship.
It might be very possible that there’s something going on between you that has nothing to do with your physical appearance, but that’s affecting her ability to feel intimate and close and therefore have sex.
What have your arguments been about aside from sex? Are there other conflicts going on in your relationship?
No I wasn’t arguing that. I was just saying that the attraction comes from that, and then I also have a lot of wisdom because I have more experience than most my age. I’m not arguing I’m just saying that I am more mature and knowledgeable than most my age.
Yes she is. She's also apparently an expert on every topic known to man, including the field I work in. Listening to her give me professional advice makes me want to barf or chuck something at the wall.
Yeah he told me what happened last night which I don't remember everything so I must've blacked out for a bit but I just remember the advances happening and how I felt then next I remember taking an uber home
You say cheap as if sugar babies are cheap. I feel bad for the guy.
wow you solved obesity and weight issues u should get a fuckin nobel prize ? omg everyone will be skinny now
like i said, try losing weight on birth control or antipsychotics or thyroid meds or antidepressants, that literally change the hormones that regulate appetite and energy, increase the uptake of glucose, and lower your metabolism. or get an understanding of basic human biology on why older people have a hard time losing weight and an easier time putting it on. how many ppl do you know that are still at their high school weight?
good luck with the baldness tho
You need some time to be alone for a while. You fell in lust with a much older man and dumped the guy who had been with you for 4 years. Yes, you’re crawling back now and that’s how he’s going to see it. Even if he is still in love with you, you’re going to have to expect he’s going to be angry that you dumped him to screw this other guy. There’s a very good chance he isn’t going to support you anymore if you proposition him and he might tell you to go eff yourself. He’s a human after all.
If you want him back, take 6 months (or more) to yourself to ACTUALLY work through it. Let your bed be empty for a bit. Then broach the subject. Don’t try to hop from man to man and back again.
Yeah we've talked about how she abandoned him and went to Vegas with her friends without telling him and explained everything when she got back, he divorced her
But what is she saying are the things that need to change?
What’s blocking her from wanting to have sex according to her?
It doesn’t help to assume she’s lying. If that’s where you’re coming from, then there’s already no hope in fixing the relationship.
It might be very possible that there’s something going on between you that has nothing to do with your physical appearance, but that’s affecting her ability to feel intimate and close and therefore have sex.
What have your arguments been about aside from sex? Are there other conflicts going on in your relationship?
So you lied because not only is your boyfriend a manipulative ghoster but, also a jealous, insecure prat?
What, does he think that you’re going to go through life never interacting with men?
What about if you ever have a child and your doctor is a guy? Your kids teacher? Neighbours?
This is a huge red flag.
Hey I’m sorry that must have been really hard on you.
No I wasn’t arguing that. I was just saying that the attraction comes from that, and then I also have a lot of wisdom because I have more experience than most my age. I’m not arguing I’m just saying that I am more mature and knowledgeable than most my age.
wait you had it already? or it's scheduled?
Yes she is. She's also apparently an expert on every topic known to man, including the field I work in. Listening to her give me professional advice makes me want to barf or chuck something at the wall.
Who said she changed her mind? The issue isn’t adoption, it’s that she didn’t know her husband only wanted adopted children
Hmmm… I wonder if that's better or worse than the creeps that are waaay too into being with a virgin.
Yeah he told me what happened last night which I don't remember everything so I must've blacked out for a bit but I just remember the advances happening and how I felt then next I remember taking an uber home