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Going to be honest you won’t be able to right now he is probably trying to distance himself and get rid of any feelings he has had of you. By the sounds of it he likes you but also he has a different viewpoint on intimacy so you morals are completely different and are now clashing. Don’t really think you can fix this. It’s comes down to can he just ignore what you do or he might have to end the friendship to keep his sanity
You broke up over a lack of sex, but then got back together and didn't address the sex problem at all.
I understand you want intimacy and to not feel like you're just being used for a release, but you also haven't had sex in 4 months. So, while it's not ideal for him to come over, sleep with you and leave right away, I have to imagine that type of scenario would be a one-off and not his regular pattern of just getting his release and then ditching you.
Do you know what they call two people who get along great, but aren't on the same page sexually? Friends. That's what you should be with this guy.
There are plenty of couples who don't have much sex, but that dynamic only works if both people are on the same page. That does not appear to be the case here.
If you don’t understand what you did wrong, don’t apologize, simply say you don’t understand what you did wrong but you want to understand and ask to talk about it more. An apology means you’ll do better next time, but you can’t do better next time if you don’t understand what you did wrong.
Dude, kick ass on taking that first step which is almost like a cliff dive. I hope you and your wife get all the years plus more from this. Good luck! Keep on keeping on!
She sounds mentally unstable and would love type love story movie plot line where girl falls in love with best friend boyfriend and after many obstacles he chooses her and she and him live happily ever after. And she doesn’t see much past that.
She’s not well. And needs a boyfriend. And it’s really sad.
I have met these girls before, and I have seen the behavior and honestly it’s always the girl had a crush on the guy long before (you guys started dating or some type of reason) And pursues him to change his mind. They get super wrapped up in it.
It’s weird.
Just weird. And sad. And it takes a really long time for them to figure out their lives and especially their loved lives.
Sounds like you're going through a tough time with your long-distance relationship. It sucks that you made all these sacrifices for him and now he's not sure about marrying you. That's some tough shit to deal with. Honestly, it's up to you whether you want to wait around for him to figure out his shit or move on and find someone who's more sure about their feelings for you.
No I ended my pregnancy at 23wks bc is my RIGHT,. & why surrender my remaining life time to unhappiness with someone who's shady af, about whether it was a boy or a girl… if your that unwilling to care. I can match the energy as well
I've strongly considered that option. It might be my only route as I will drive myself bonkers worrying about this. Otherwise I will become super suspicious and checking where she is constantly etc.
Your husband is an AH and he needs to step up and realise that he is a father and a husband. He needs to support you, and help with his child. You should be resting whilst he does the heavy lifting. My husband took holidays when our daughter was born, because his work didn’t offer parental leave. But if he had been offered it he would have taken the maximum time he could, so he could bond and help me out.
His uncle died on alcoholism, his grandma committed suicide because of her son saying some harsh stuff to her, his other uncle died of cancer suddenly, his sisters father died of pneumonia.
Going to be honest you won’t be able to right now he is probably trying to distance himself and get rid of any feelings he has had of you. By the sounds of it he likes you but also he has a different viewpoint on intimacy so you morals are completely different and are now clashing. Don’t really think you can fix this. It’s comes down to can he just ignore what you do or he might have to end the friendship to keep his sanity
Next time you hear him say something like “I really want to watch Avatar” then listen to it and make a secret plan to buy tickets and surprise him.
“Hey doing anything on the 14th? No? Perfect I got a surprise for us!”
You broke up over a lack of sex, but then got back together and didn't address the sex problem at all.
I understand you want intimacy and to not feel like you're just being used for a release, but you also haven't had sex in 4 months. So, while it's not ideal for him to come over, sleep with you and leave right away, I have to imagine that type of scenario would be a one-off and not his regular pattern of just getting his release and then ditching you.
Do you know what they call two people who get along great, but aren't on the same page sexually? Friends. That's what you should be with this guy.
There are plenty of couples who don't have much sex, but that dynamic only works if both people are on the same page. That does not appear to be the case here.
Thanks for it will keep this in mind ?
If you don’t understand what you did wrong, don’t apologize, simply say you don’t understand what you did wrong but you want to understand and ask to talk about it more. An apology means you’ll do better next time, but you can’t do better next time if you don’t understand what you did wrong.
It is exactly this simple, OP.
the partner should be frightened and doubtful considering op violated him despite non consent
Dude, kick ass on taking that first step which is almost like a cliff dive. I hope you and your wife get all the years plus more from this. Good luck! Keep on keeping on!
She sounds mentally unstable and would love type love story movie plot line where girl falls in love with best friend boyfriend and after many obstacles he chooses her and she and him live happily ever after. And she doesn’t see much past that.
She’s not well. And needs a boyfriend. And it’s really sad.
I have met these girls before, and I have seen the behavior and honestly it’s always the girl had a crush on the guy long before (you guys started dating or some type of reason) And pursues him to change his mind. They get super wrapped up in it.
It’s weird.
Just weird. And sad. And it takes a really long time for them to figure out their lives and especially their loved lives.
Sounds like you're going through a tough time with your long-distance relationship. It sucks that you made all these sacrifices for him and now he's not sure about marrying you. That's some tough shit to deal with. Honestly, it's up to you whether you want to wait around for him to figure out his shit or move on and find someone who's more sure about their feelings for you.
>Honestly, we annoy the hell out of each other.
That's not what friends do.
>He blocked me back after this. I’ve also been blocked on Instagram for over a year now.
Block him and keep him block. Your relationship with him is extremely toxic.
I think the acid would make it less likely to confuse the two
No I ended my pregnancy at 23wks bc is my RIGHT,. & why surrender my remaining life time to unhappiness with someone who's shady af, about whether it was a boy or a girl… if your that unwilling to care. I can match the energy as well
This exactly! ?
I've strongly considered that option. It might be my only route as I will drive myself bonkers worrying about this. Otherwise I will become super suspicious and checking where she is constantly etc.
Your husband is an AH and he needs to step up and realise that he is a father and a husband. He needs to support you, and help with his child. You should be resting whilst he does the heavy lifting. My husband took holidays when our daughter was born, because his work didn’t offer parental leave. But if he had been offered it he would have taken the maximum time he could, so he could bond and help me out.
His uncle died on alcoholism, his grandma committed suicide because of her son saying some harsh stuff to her, his other uncle died of cancer suddenly, his sisters father died of pneumonia.
His uncles were super young.
ps she said what an answer did you expect? wtf??ofcourse i expect to see you and date you.
Recently took ou photography and she signed something giving him ownership?! That's super sketchy to me.
Seems a reasonable request to me