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That’s nice to hear. I’ve been seeing this girl for a few months. It’s basically been an “almost-relationship” but she told me today she doesn’t think it’s ever gonna work but we can definitely be friends. Me being the emotional softy I am, i’m holding out hope that it will eventually work with time.
Does he have any plans to further his education or does have a job that he can move up in. Is he living hand to mouth? Would this be OK if the position was reversed?
I get you now. The old good guys finish last problem. Doesnt sound like you're doing anything wrong tbh. Stay true to yourself and someone will realise your worth.
I think you’re being a bit too harsh since OP did say this was one of their best relationships. However, I do agree that she did you dirty. If she isn’t willing to be accountable for actions, then I think she really needs to work on herself before being in a relationship. As for you, I know it’s hard, but I don’t think it’s worth it to try to fix things with her considering she doesn’t seem to be trying at all. You deserve better than that
It's probably just a lie he tells himself because he subconsciously needs an excuse to stay, since in reality there are no such reasons.
And as they say, if you tell a lie for long enough, you begin to believe it yourself.
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You should ask the hospital social worker or police to connect you to a local domestic abuse program. They will help in instances like this– it doesn't just have to be physical abuse.
An advocate can help you with safety planning, knowing your rights and other resources.
I find it funny that you can’t remember half the things he’s claiming and the other half you claim he took it the wrong way. People remember things based on emotion. Obviously he felt strong emotions during these times and has been holding onto them. You say you’re relationship has been “perfect” and you’re “so nice”, but that’s not the case if he’s having so many doubts and even now after you canceled the wedding he doesn’t feel regret for it. Maybe there is some truth to what he’s saying. A lot of people can’t see themselves the way other people can and so they don’t know just how rude, mean, standoffish etc they are until told. I’d take a few sessions of therapy to reflect and see if there’s any validity. Cuz I doubt he’ll be cured of his second guessing once he gets back. You need to meet him halfway and see if there’s anything you can fix before you marry.
Good on you for taking the time to right this out for someone. You're a way better person than me.
OP. Listen to this individual.
You are absolutely being controlling. Good intentions or not I’d be so uncomfortable by your actions. If you don’t want to be with someone who drinks then don’t, but you don’t have the right to stalk and kidnap them.
If he keeps pressuring you, it's not consenting, it's relenting. Let him know that if he keeps it up, he's free to choose her and leave.
All these people are telling you to break it off but you don’t seem smart enough to accept that yet. I hope you come around, it’s awful to see people willingly stay in abusive situations.
What exactly did you expect people to say? You betrayed someone who you have been friends with for decades in a way that unforgivable? He doesn’t owe you to not tell anyone what you have done. If other people think badly of you for doing what you did, it’s because you did it to someone you were meant to be so close to so who wouldn’t you do it to? The betrayal of a friend hurts much more than the betrayal of a partner oftentimes. Your comments show that you feel more sorry for yourself that you lost your friend AND the girl you risked your friendship for than you feel bad for your actions. Why would someone want any type of relationship with you knowing this is the kinda shit you do to the people that you love. Even my worst enemy wouldn’t hurt me as must as you hurt someone meant to be your best friend.
Yeah there are two sides to this coin. You shouldn't be telling her who to block on her phone, that is her decision – but she should be blocking someone that is disrespecting your relationship. If she isn't shutting it down and is lapping up the attention, then you need to rethink if you want to stay as her BF.
He’ll no nope no way sorry don’t do it. Your mom is looking for a donation not a loan