Ok so I'm a grubby little gremlin and don't mind others not showering before sex. I like showering after, and I feel like showering twice seems a bit unnecessary. BUT. my partner does like it! And he's politely requested it of me. And I love and respect his preferences and desires. So I shower before we have sex. Like it's not that hard to do something small that means a lot for your partner.
Or Amazon photos—that automatically backs it up too.
Ok so I'm a grubby little gremlin and don't mind others not showering before sex. I like showering after, and I feel like showering twice seems a bit unnecessary. BUT. my partner does like it! And he's politely requested it of me. And I love and respect his preferences and desires. So I shower before we have sex. Like it's not that hard to do something small that means a lot for your partner.
Space. It’s what he needs. He needs to deal with his emotions and he isn’t good at processing them around you.