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With the situation it honestly makes no sense to even tell him
Maybe he's feeling abused and neglected also.
Ill give you a few possibilities;
He is lying (most likely). He followed her for a bit of thirst on his newsfeed. He did follow her years ago, she temporarily deactivated her account and now uses it again, hence, reactivating it and it appearing in his following- you can check this by seeing if there is a gap in her post history. It was a scam page offering freebies originally. I have often followed a “mem” page and two weeks later it is some fetish/NSFW page advertising OF pages etc.
Ill be honest, giving his history, he added her for a look at her suggestive pictures and potentially for a bit of “me” time. If you look through this sub long enough, you will see this happens quite often. Like you said, you do not forget who you add, even with 100 followers.
As for the suggested following, it is weird. I get friend suggestions for friends of the people I talk to most and then there are some seriously random ones from people half way across the globe and no mutuals.
His excuse is bs. How did he not know everyone was bringing their partners until it was too late to invite you? This seems super sketchy, ngl
He’s being toxic. He doesn’t want to fix things if he can’t grow up and face the consequences. Move on don’t look back
No it wouldn't. You are taking far too much responsibility for someone else's actions. Tell her back the hell up and move on.
If you really aren't cheating, and she's accusing you of cheating, she's probably cheating.
I understand you’re frustration in this situation as it’s out of you control but at the same time you’re not very comfortable by it. Now I’d understand if they’re a few hours away if understand him staying over. But if he’s 5 minutes away there’s no need for him to be there. He can arrive the second they wake up. But also understanding this is a first for them too and he wants to make it easier on his children. So I would say a conversation needs to be had about trust and respect between the two of you.
Either you rent a place for three months.m or spend the same amount of money on a nanny. First time having a baby is a very challenging time and as a Chinese , I understand how it will be when you live with your Chinese parents ??I decided to have a nanny but let my parents help sometimes. Plz do remember : spending crazy money in the new born baby is unavoidable
It really just depends on how anal you are, honestly. You could also maybe compromise by having a space that the partner is free to keep how they please and that you don't have to see or worry about. But I feel if you do only expect that routine reasonable chores be done I think you'll be okay.
This ⬆️ OP, she lied to you about who she was because she knew you’d break up with her. She played the long game to get you to fall in love with a fake version of her so she could bait-and-switch you later. That’s straight-up manipulation and emotional abuse.
You deserve better. The person you “love” doesn’t exist. She’s proven herself to be a racist homophobe. If you wouldn’t date her now, don’t date her anymore. You deserve better.
Why are so many commenters baiting OP with nonsense?
EVERYONE cries over football. Emotion is what makes it the beautiful game. It's normal, part of the sport, and he's one of millions who cry during the World Cup.
OP, don't respond to anyone who says otherwise, they're just trying to get a rise out of you. Your brother sucks. Tell him to read up on toxic masculinity.
I hope you defended your bf then and there, if not you owe him an apology.
She wants to act like this is the Wild West of the internet, then she should expect some Wild West back.
Maybe it is at a dead end, but I let go of him then I won’t have anyone at all
The first night we had sex, the first thing he wanted to talk about was his experience with his ex. He told me he let his guard down and let me in and wanted to share things with me. I didn’t want that. I don’t want to talk about my past with him. Because it will cause problems. As it has in my past relationships. I am a bigger girl, he’s used to skinny girls. I’m dark headed, he had an attraction to blondes. Before we started dating, he was good friends with my brother and would pick around about me and my sisters being big. And would call us big ones. So that’s where the insecurities started. With my weight and him talking about his ex.
Ever heard the phrase…. I can stay away but I can't promise they will …. you cast a gauntlet…
First off what's she look like ?….
The thing is i didn't bring it back up. I thought the convos was over and i was trying to smooth things over with the date. He brought it up after saying some hurtful things and told me I'm not agreeable, which took us down the hole. I wasn't trying to fight when i initially brought it up, just wanted him to understand that from my pov it seemed unfair. And i took my part where i was wrong for waking him up late and apologised that same time.
Block him. This smells a whole lot like he got involved with someone else. Don't even give him the satisfaction of hearing from you.
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You mentioned buying a house with him and dude has a poor credit score already and doesn’t care about it? Girl pack your sheeet and don’t look back. He’s a leech, just like his mommy.
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It’s definitely worth making them aware of the origins of the ring. It will likely change a lot of peoples stance on it, as well as making his mother look very stupid.
Anyone who would reject you for that reason is nor worth dating.
Your sister is a terrible human being in her current version. She needs to understand that if at the end of the prank nobody is laughing except her, then it was not a prank.
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It’s both, not either/or. The feeling of being desired and the actual pleasure are both critically important. I would stay with my wife even without it at this point, I love her deeply regardless. But it would be extremely difficult and I would have a very hard time with it.
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I agree I was thinking the same thing! I naturally would do this for any of my friends etc so might as well be myself like what do I have to lose
Good. And good luck. Find somebody that wants to share his friends and his life.
Your still a young guy
Honestly, this is how women became sexually abused without knowing they are in relationships. If you sign want to hear the truth, why did you post here?
One of my closest friends met her husband when he was 22 and she was 30. They were both students and became friends first which then evolved into a relationship. She didn't actively seek out a man that much younger and they had to have some serious discussions about having kids etc. They are still together 12 years later and have two young children. They have a lovely relationship but the age difference is not something they could just ignore. I don't think most women around 30 who wants a serious relationship would choose to date a 22-year-old.
Should have got the abortion
Mama feels more normal than mommy
did you read the edits? it was very important that we reached the correct information, that's the only reason i said anything
Who is payimg for HIS food then??!! Buy for yourself, eat before he gets home and when he asks where supper is say you ran out of money and there's nothing to buy food with. Then pack a bag and leave his sorry ass. Go with family or a friend and get help.
If he trusts you, then what's his problem with it? The simple fact that you're gone for hours (does he not have things of his own he can do for a few hours when you're gone…?) Does he consider it immature? (Also, it's not a stupid thing. I don't go to your style of shows, but going to live music/live shows is really important to me even at my advanced age & I would be very hard-pressed to give that up for anyone.)
Honestly peoples bodies change with age, fitness and health. 20lbs is nothing really, what happens if you decide to have kids?
I personally wouldn’t, he has standards that you need to continually meet, I mean having standards if fine but 20lbs is the difference between what he considers acceptable and not. You should be working out for you, not him.
I'm 32 and a parent and I still feel like a kid trying to get my shit together. I'm not sure that feeling goes away with age.
So what? If you’re trying to argue that he’s categorically too old for her, don’t be imprecise.
You’ve been dating a month so she should prioritize her career and you should chill trust her or move on
Just curious, but who is the father is her child? Is it A, B, or is there a C? She sounds all over the place. And your friends are correct because she is definitely dangling you on a string for her own ego. Are you hanging around hoping when she gets tired of A, she’ll come back to you? If she’s getting married just so a relative can attend the wedding before they die, that is the worst reason in the world and this marriage won’t last. So not wanting to watch this train wreck makes sense. But she doesn’t really care about you if she knows how you feel and “insists” you attend her wedding as her friend. She’s not your friend. You need to cut the string she is dangling you from and move on. She is a player with no regard for other people’s feelings, and your life will be better without her. So just tell her no. She can’t drag you there. The only way to get over it is to finally grow a backbone and stand up to her. Quit being her backup boy, waiting for any crumb of attention she gives you. She’s A’s problem now and he is going to find out soon enough what a mess he’s gotten into. Be glad you aren’t the groom. You don’t know how lucky you are.
Kick her out now this will only get worse
I think remaining your focus on the girlfriend is part of the ocd
Having a massive psychotic break is huge and it's gonna take a lot of time to heal and focus on yourself before you're gonna be capable of being a partner to anybody else
The work ahead is to have a relationship with yourself
This is not just about being in therapy this might be an Is intensive out patient program. Are you working? Are you able to take care of yourself ?
This needs to be your focus now
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. Let’s look at it logically.
You knew there was something something wrong with your relationship and your spouse has always been distant and non communicative. It’s not like it was there and then it stopped so it’s nothing new the only thing that has changed is that you have insight into his feelings from his posts.
The question for you now is what next? Now you know how he feels what do you want to do? Continue to live live this way? Start counseling and see if the relationship can be rescued? Move on with your life?
One thing I truly believe is that parents model marriage for their children. Is this the model of marriage you want your kids to take into the world as they look for their own partners? Successful coparenting might be just as good for your kids as living with parents who are at a minimum indifferent to each other.
Once you’ve ranked your desired outcomes I definitely think you should have a conversation with him. I can’t see how you can jump straight to divorce without clearing the air. Tell him you’ve read his posts and see where his head is at.
Good luck
Do some research on BPD and relationships and stay the fuck away from people with BPD
we love mental health positivity here on reddit don't we folks
Tell her. Even if it seems that it would make things more difficult. Don't leave anything unsaid what you would like to tell.
Does she want an abortion?
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. Fool you thrice and your ask for advice?
Stop having sex with this fuckboy
this subreddit is nothing but lies and fetishists
Stop responding to him – classic manipulation. He'll grow out of it.
Come on, you are wasting your time with this guy. He just wanna jump you and looks like a creep as well.
I second this.
Clearly he's not your ideal partner moving forward and you're still young to go back into the dating pool. He's not the only man on earth young lady. Stop wasting your time with this guy and just move on. That's the best solution for you and him.
So I see, your misogynist pig finally dropped his mask and now you get to meet the man behind the mask.
Fuck.
So sorry to hear about this. You have done the best thing you can in this situation.
Think about it this way, had you not told her, she would most likely still be mad at you & it still would have put a wedge between you. I honestly think the letter suggestion is a great idea. She is most likely just processing this. You are doing all the right things by checking in with the reassuring texts & giving her space. Don't beat yourself up. I think any other caring person that loves their child regardless of how they came into your life would agree. Internet hugs for you to be strong
Swap the genders in this scenario and then think about it.
He is trying to control you with fear. Domestic violence hotlines are well versed in helping women deal with this exact situation. He wants you to think he has all the power, but he doesn’t. There are people that can help.
My ex-gf started slapping me when I tried to put my arm around her one night, then couldn't figure out why I never touched her in bed again until she asked me to.
You pretty much touched on the financial aspect, but is she also saying you're emotionally abusive in addition to financially abusive? If so, does she give examples?
I can't yet since I'm still studying :/
It is because of the scales . Having to deal with a job not as good as yours and a town you may or may not vaguely dislike (we have no indication of that by the way ) is so miniscule in comparison to what OP is going through that it is ultimately completely insignificant .
Sure, first glance he it was diabetes related. I do have a hunch that he my have self inflicted on insulin. He did suffer through depression and anxiety ect. But I am not 100% sure tbh. We will know.more in a little while
i probably should’ve said we’ve known each other for two years, and i’ve been wanting to date for quite some time now
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Upon, rereading, You're correct.
He hasn't tested my siblings since he said he doesn't want to know. He just said he needed to be away from my mom.
Ouch. The fact that it was just her and dad instead of the whole family makes me suspect that Dad knew for a while. Ouch.
Dude….she is showing you who she is. Beleive it.
“I agree. I really do think we'll end up with each other again. Because I haven't felt what I've felt with you with anyone else. I just think right now it's not our time. But I do believe our time will come. I'm not gonna lose you forever. I promise that”
So, are you just planning on being his backup plan forever? If he loved you, he'd be with you already.
He's not though, is he? I don't know how to say this nicely, but he's not really interested in anything serious with you. He might enjoy having vacations with you and chatting occasionally, but when push came to shove, he started dating other people. You had it right when you said fwb. He's not your boyfriend and doesn't actually want to be. But if his other options dry up, he'll settle with his “good ol'pal” until something he likes better comes along again.
Be happy for her, as a good friend should, and have patience. Eventually she'll decide who she wants, and will take herself off the market.
It's not your partners business. If he just gifted you a pile of cash would you consider it if your partner said he didn't want you to take it? Your dad is offering you an investment for the future, a safe space that's just yours if things don't work out, and seriously if this is a problem for him then you need to look at your long term compatability.
Be dramatic then! Who cares. They don’t care about you, that’s apparent. I agree with throwing yourself a baby shower with your friends and bfs family. No invite to mom or sis. ENJOY yourself and your baby with people who appreciate you.
This is what you call sweet, ready for commitment and basically overall husband material? Damn, all my life I did something wrong… /s
? fun times.
This idea, 100% approved. The world needs to know that she's a skank
It’s a fantasy, dude. If you can’t separate the two, then that’s on you.