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If someone is in recovery things like this will push him over the edge. You don't abandon your partner you hold their hand and walk with him back to the path. That's what it means to support someone. She caught it before it happened and she can help prevent the worse case scenario.
I’m so sorry. I don’t have much advice to offer that differs from what’s already been said. I just wish you the best and hope you find a way out of this for the safety of yourself and your son
You two are simply incompatible. He's made it clear if you want another dog, you need to leave so if you really want another dog that's what you need to do for both of your sakes.
I really hope it helps! Very ND household here and sometimes we just drop all semblance of flowery communication and sort of state our needs–it doesn't always work but it does often as not and it seems to get even better the more we do it 🙂
No urgency on the timeline sometimes it just gives it another grip space for rationalization. One example, my husband has OCD triggers surrounding laundry and was getting particular about hangers for a while. I really didn't have the mental headspace to take on another new routine, so I said something like this:
“Honey, I hear that you want me to move each empty hanger to the left side of the closet as I create it, but I am currently trying to build routines that help me stop getting distracted when I'm getting dressed and to not use a timer to remember my morning meds and I'm not even halfway there. I don't have the capacity to work on something else right now. I can agree to move all of the empty hangers over all at once every Friday if that will help.”
Even though his OCD can make him feel like hanger placement should be a top priority, it's much easier for him to cope when I can tell him that I do care, but I've got my own stuff going on.
if she’s spent her entire teen and adult years using you as a crutch for her self-esteem she will never develop the strength to be self-sufficient. i don’t see this as something that will ever improve without significant mental health work on her end. and she has to be the one that wants to do it.
In regards to your 3rd paragraph. 'Youre so big' is really the person saying, 'you feel so big'. Which you can be objectively average but to them, it's a lot. Like when you put a finger in your mouth, it feels bigger than it actually is because your mouth isn't used to having a finger in it. It's the same thing for sex.
They're (probably) not trying to say that you're big compared to other guys because that's very weird, but just that it feels big to them.
If someone is in recovery things like this will push him over the edge. You don't abandon your partner you hold their hand and walk with him back to the path. That's what it means to support someone. She caught it before it happened and she can help prevent the worse case scenario.
…are they ugly?!
Move to a civilized country in Europe where it's not normal to mutilate people and be made fun of if you're not cut.
I’m so sorry. I don’t have much advice to offer that differs from what’s already been said. I just wish you the best and hope you find a way out of this for the safety of yourself and your son
You two are simply incompatible. He's made it clear if you want another dog, you need to leave so if you really want another dog that's what you need to do for both of your sakes.
I really hope it helps! Very ND household here and sometimes we just drop all semblance of flowery communication and sort of state our needs–it doesn't always work but it does often as not and it seems to get even better the more we do it 🙂
No urgency on the timeline sometimes it just gives it another grip space for rationalization. One example, my husband has OCD triggers surrounding laundry and was getting particular about hangers for a while. I really didn't have the mental headspace to take on another new routine, so I said something like this:
“Honey, I hear that you want me to move each empty hanger to the left side of the closet as I create it, but I am currently trying to build routines that help me stop getting distracted when I'm getting dressed and to not use a timer to remember my morning meds and I'm not even halfway there. I don't have the capacity to work on something else right now. I can agree to move all of the empty hangers over all at once every Friday if that will help.”
Even though his OCD can make him feel like hanger placement should be a top priority, it's much easier for him to cope when I can tell him that I do care, but I've got my own stuff going on.
Best of luck OP!
Yeah doesn’t add up. 74 days ago she was going through a break up with boyfriend if 8 months ago cheated on her and her new Roomate is 27
if she’s spent her entire teen and adult years using you as a crutch for her self-esteem she will never develop the strength to be self-sufficient. i don’t see this as something that will ever improve without significant mental health work on her end. and she has to be the one that wants to do it.
In regards to your 3rd paragraph. 'Youre so big' is really the person saying, 'you feel so big'. Which you can be objectively average but to them, it's a lot. Like when you put a finger in your mouth, it feels bigger than it actually is because your mouth isn't used to having a finger in it. It's the same thing for sex.
They're (probably) not trying to say that you're big compared to other guys because that's very weird, but just that it feels big to them.