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Have you tried actively telling him what to do? “Listening to me and emotionally supporting me” might seem like the most basic and clear instructions in the world to you, but for someone who generally tackles all the problems with logic and action, it will seem really unclear what you want and why you’d want that. You might well need to just start at the very, very basics and take apart what you need.
There is also the other side – his emotions in the situation. If he is uncomfortable with certain emotions, then having to sit there and let them happen, without being allowed to ‘fix’ the situation, can be super uncomfortable. It can make the other person feel useless and helpless. He wants you to feel happy and the problem to go away AND HOW IS LISTENING TO THE PROBLEM MAKING IT ANY BETTER DAMNIT?!
If he functions heavily on the basis of logic, “The Chimp Paradox” might be a good read for him, to get his head around emotions and logic and how they need to be handled differently. Otherwise tell him that you need your amygdala to calm down, before blood can run back into the prefrontal cortex, so you can fix the problem yourself. His task is the calm the amygdala, not stimulate the blood-starved prefrontal cortex.
They tested us both. Michael had THC, along with several other substances and I tested negative for everything. They're not going to let us leave to a shelter until things get sorted out.
That's the most childish thing ever. Don't do it just so you can feel good about pressuring her into something she already said she doesn't want to do. She doesn't want another woman around. Leave it alone.
You have every right to leave. You would not be a bad person for leaving. You are making a tough choice in a tough situation.
I also wanted to point out that it seems like you’re not thinking about breaking up because of the anorexia, but because your girlfriend is refusing to seek treatment for the anorexia. Those are two very different things.
Have you tried actively telling him what to do? “Listening to me and emotionally supporting me” might seem like the most basic and clear instructions in the world to you, but for someone who generally tackles all the problems with logic and action, it will seem really unclear what you want and why you’d want that. You might well need to just start at the very, very basics and take apart what you need.
There is also the other side – his emotions in the situation. If he is uncomfortable with certain emotions, then having to sit there and let them happen, without being allowed to ‘fix’ the situation, can be super uncomfortable. It can make the other person feel useless and helpless. He wants you to feel happy and the problem to go away AND HOW IS LISTENING TO THE PROBLEM MAKING IT ANY BETTER DAMNIT?!
If he functions heavily on the basis of logic, “The Chimp Paradox” might be a good read for him, to get his head around emotions and logic and how they need to be handled differently. Otherwise tell him that you need your amygdala to calm down, before blood can run back into the prefrontal cortex, so you can fix the problem yourself. His task is the calm the amygdala, not stimulate the blood-starved prefrontal cortex.
I personally would tell her that she is being controlling and you aren’t going to stand for that. That is a ridiculous request.
They tested us both. Michael had THC, along with several other substances and I tested negative for everything. They're not going to let us leave to a shelter until things get sorted out.
What kind of person casually throws out a request for a free pass? “I’d like to fuck someone else”. How did your brain not stop your mouth?
I really don’t think it meant anything. Set a future boundary if it makes you uncomfortable
That's the most childish thing ever. Don't do it just so you can feel good about pressuring her into something she already said she doesn't want to do. She doesn't want another woman around. Leave it alone.
I don’t think she can emotionally handle a kid either
You have every right to leave. You would not be a bad person for leaving. You are making a tough choice in a tough situation.
I also wanted to point out that it seems like you’re not thinking about breaking up because of the anorexia, but because your girlfriend is refusing to seek treatment for the anorexia. Those are two very different things.
It was tho
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