Don't tell him, move on with your life, he has a child already, this could ruin alot of things for him. I understand he probably should know, but I don't agree it's a need. Finding out could throw his whole new life in to turmoil. But on the other hand….I also understand the child needs to know who dad is and possibly have some sort of loving relationship. At this point, you've only made it hard for yourself, messaging him when you found out would have been better than what you have now but in the same breath, like you said…there was never gonna be a good time to say “hey, you have a covid baby” but now his life is in full swing and has his own baby…what ever you decide to do, just focus on your babies best interests…your baby is the most precious thing in the world. I have a 22 month old, he's my world…so I can't imagine where to start with a situation like yours…all the best and I hope it all works out for your beautiful baby.
Why would you spend money on it? Also, what if OP is not rich, as well? God, in MA, a room, on average costs $250. Why would you spend that money on a room when your family can stay in the spare bedroom, use spare bathroom.
You are right, that’s exactly what she did. That is not fair to you. You need a woman who will have your back even if it means standing up against the cruel acts of prejudice from her own family, not excuse it and expect you to crawl on your thumbs with gifts and presents in order to pacify one that would do such a disgusting act.
My brother and I were just on the phone earlier discussing this topic. I was complaining about how our sister doesn’t work or anything and leaves shit around. And he just got back from visiting his friend from out of town and said “tbh I get it, I don’t think I can ever live with anyone that’s messy, but I actually just realized our family isn’t as messy as other ppl yk, but bc you and I are such clean freaks we think our family is messy..”
I was like ya ik but why compare to the ppl who live in a dump, Instead of comparing to ppl who are doing better!?
We both agreed that would be a ? dealbreaker for us in the ppl we end up dating.
16 years old absolutely know it's wrong hooking up with ex of best friend. She knew it was wrong to not tell when they got back together. So did he.
I don't know why people here act like people age before 20 have no concept of trust/morals.
Don't tell him, move on with your life, he has a child already, this could ruin alot of things for him. I understand he probably should know, but I don't agree it's a need. Finding out could throw his whole new life in to turmoil. But on the other hand….I also understand the child needs to know who dad is and possibly have some sort of loving relationship. At this point, you've only made it hard for yourself, messaging him when you found out would have been better than what you have now but in the same breath, like you said…there was never gonna be a good time to say “hey, you have a covid baby” but now his life is in full swing and has his own baby…what ever you decide to do, just focus on your babies best interests…your baby is the most precious thing in the world. I have a 22 month old, he's my world…so I can't imagine where to start with a situation like yours…all the best and I hope it all works out for your beautiful baby.
I mean if you love having sex with your boyfriend and say it's amazing then I do not think you are a lesbian.
It's possible that you find women overall more attractive but you love your boyfriend and still want to be with your boyfriend.
I think you need to reflect more on your relationship and how being with him makes you feel
Why would you spend money on it? Also, what if OP is not rich, as well? God, in MA, a room, on average costs $250. Why would you spend that money on a room when your family can stay in the spare bedroom, use spare bathroom.
Mate…. you just got assaulted
End it. Press charges too. Maybe, I dunno if OP has legal grounds.
Also avoid fwb who are 10 years older than you. That's a massive red flag that they're chasing someone that much younger than them
no problem. Good luck!
You do know a vasectomy isn't instant anyway, some people have viable swimmers 9months after the surgery
Spit in his face??? Your bf could’ve done much worse. Spitting is SO disgusting. I would’ve clocked him right in the nose. You’re so oblivious
You are right, that’s exactly what she did. That is not fair to you. You need a woman who will have your back even if it means standing up against the cruel acts of prejudice from her own family, not excuse it and expect you to crawl on your thumbs with gifts and presents in order to pacify one that would do such a disgusting act.
My brother and I were just on the phone earlier discussing this topic. I was complaining about how our sister doesn’t work or anything and leaves shit around. And he just got back from visiting his friend from out of town and said “tbh I get it, I don’t think I can ever live with anyone that’s messy, but I actually just realized our family isn’t as messy as other ppl yk, but bc you and I are such clean freaks we think our family is messy..”
I was like ya ik but why compare to the ppl who live in a dump, Instead of comparing to ppl who are doing better!?
We both agreed that would be a ? dealbreaker for us in the ppl we end up dating.