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And if those aren’t a problem?
So let me get this straight… he cheated on his ex-girlfriend… so now while he’s dating you he tells everyone he’s single… and he doesn’t turn down other girls who are interested in him. This is completely absurd and not normal in any relationship. Why do you think he doesn’t want to tell people he’s in a relationship despite multiple people trying to get with him? To keep his options open.
It’s not that people can’t change, but in this situation “once a cheater, always a cheater” seems applicable. When he cheated on his ex-gf, I’m sure it started with all of these things.
I’m sorry OP, but he doesn’t respect you or your relationship. You deserve so much better than this. How can he say he loves you, but won’t even tell others that he’s dating you? BFFR
I personally haven’t had this experience, so I’m not generalizing my own experience. I’m merely commenting on this post and saying what I think is going on.
I’m not doubting that your scenario exists, in fact I know one case like that as well. I just don’t think that’s what’s going on here.
your wife upset because you went on a date you fool. would you be ok with your wife going on coffee dates with younger men? i think not!
Sounds like you two need a good heart to heart. If you're unhappy then it's really important to communicate. Don't stay together because you have to. Stay because you want to.
Remember, it's you two verses the problem, not each other.
No, she's not saying she doesn't want you to do this at all. I just wonder if it's related to the value I give her that I don't want to take her sometimes
I feel like it's a conversation to have once you move in together and take bigger steps. is that something that's happening soon ?
Don’t go. She likely sent out the RSVP as a shotgun approach, but really doesn’t want you there. Plus she can say she tried and you snubbed her if you don’t show. I say why go if she’s fake? So that you can go there and be miserable. She’s not even family as it’s your bf’s sister, which if he’s the one will be your true SIL. In closing, you can show up, but stay at all times with your bf and discuss pre-party what your wishes are in regards to maintaining your dignity and respect. Have fun!
I am with your wife. My inlaws hurt me a lot. If my fiancé wouldn't be on my side, I would be mad AF too. Grow someballs and stand up for your family against your mommy and daddy. You are 44 ffs.
No in my opinion it’s not normal but people think that it’s a normal thing.
Asking a partner about things in regards to their previous sexual history offers nothing positive in a relationship and the only thing that comes from it is negativity and it opens up insecurities in that person, even if that person doesn’t ever or hasn’t ever been or had any insecurities.
Answer me the question, what value, or what positive affect does knowing something sexually that your partner has previously done? Or how would that improve or benefit your relationship with that person? There isn’t anything and I remain to be given a valid reason for knowing such information.
When you get with a new partner and you don’t know anything about their previous sexual history or sexual experiences the same thing with not knowing their relationship history then you have a totally blank canvas to learn about they person, what they like or don’t like sexually, what is okay and what isn’t and you go through it together.
However knowing a partner’s previous sexual history or experiences and with who and what they have done with others only ever leads to that partner becoming self conscious, losing their self esteem and confidence etc because they start saying to themselves “well my girlfriend said she always climaxed with her previous partners but she doesn’t with me, what am I doing wrong? Don’t I do it right? Doesn’t she find me attractive? Don’t I turn her on?’ It always leads to those types of scenarios where the new partner ends up comparing themselves to their partners previous sexual experiences that they have been told about and they end up destroying themselves.
Just look at the OPs post for proof of what I am saying the OP is comparing the fact that he had been in a relationship with his girlfriend for a significant amount of time and he is saying that she hardly has anal with him and he is comparing it to the amount of times that his girlfriend has had anal with a guy she met on Tinder! He has mentioned Tinder specifically because he obviously feels that is hookup scenario and he is a long term boyfriend and he is thinking how come she did all that anal with him and more and she doesn’t want to with me? He also went detailed and said that he and his girlfriend always use poppers (amyl nitrite) with each other but now he has found out that she has used them with this same Tinder hookup and his own words are that he thought that was one of their firsts together that he thought was personal to them and now he is destroyed that it isn’t- another thing that he is comparing.
Whereas if he didn’t know at all about his girlfriends previous sexual history or experiences then he wouldn’t be in this situation with his mind and brain going a hundred miles an hour and he would actually be happy with how things are, so much so he wouldn’t even be thinking that he isn’t getting enough anal with her and he would be totally happy with the anal experiences he has shared with her.
The ONLY caveat to this in my opinion where it is positive to disclose your previous sexual history with a partner is if you have been subjected to sexual abuse or assault of any kind previously and as a result of the trauma you unfortunately have situations where you are triggered in certain sexual circumstances as a result of your previous assault, it’s important to let your partner know in these circumstances so you don’t harm yourself by being unnecessarily triggered and re-traumatised by something that your partner may do, even then I believe you should limit what you say to those particular triggers
Sounds pretty clearly about not trying to sleep with her if you’d been sleeping with somebody else
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Once a cheater always.
Most of us humans want sex. She needs to keep living there for financial reasons but she has found another way to relieve her NEEDS. Tell her you know and that you're cool with it? She found willing dick. I'm not making light of your trauma but it can't just always be her sacrificing to help you. When does it stop? What about her sexual needs?
You can do it, you’re strong enough to leave, he isn’t worth another day.
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My goodness
Depends on if he’s the type of republican that actively votes for your rights be to taken away, and the safeties of the laws and constitution to be slowly eroded while claiming to protect them. And if so, it depends on if you’re the type of person to stay with someone who is apathetic to those things or not.
I also tried to get close to her without much of success from her side, but I respect it – is my bf friend she doesn’t have an obligation to be mine too.
Right there. She’s not here for you. She’s here for your husband. Otherwise if she’s a true friend, she wouldn’t do it without telling you first.
Guess you’re sort of side chick or a test.
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What she's doing is absolutely not a problem.
I would 100% assume they are not pressuring OP just wanting to know if it will eventually happen. Dating 8 years up has this disadvantage. She probably wants family soon at her age.
Ooo yeah you messed up hun. ?
But it’s nothing that can’t be salvaged with proper communication. Is he aware that this is your first relationship?
She lives with you? Or you live with her?
Yeah, WTF is that all about.
So what you don't have any friends? I'm 10 years older than you and I have one close friend. Friends are not as important as your life. Not everyone has this magical giant group of friends like you see on TV. Snap out of it, he must likely manipulated you into giving up your friends for him.
A budget just means you can't go over a set amount. It didn't mean you tell him how much the gift cost.
No I agree that condoms are the best solution, all I'm simply stating is there is alternatives
The summation was to get an abortion and get on birth control. Why? Because she is too immature to be a single Mom.
Not respecting your partner and thinking about them like that isn’t a mistake y’all love to downplay it 🙂 He was slipping that he wasn’t gonna enjoy sex as much because it will feel lose. Why not be concerned about her recovery? What she went through? Not “you’re gonna feel not as great now that you got so stretched out from birth” she’s aware a lot of men feel like that and think that. A lot even use it as an excuse for cheating or insist a husband stitch after birth and it’s fucked.
Now she’s gonna feel horrible about herself and never get it out of her head. Did this WEEKS after birth. Shouldn’t even be making op stress about sex. It’s only gonna get worse from here most likely. She’s literally staring it’s torturing her in her head. What a moron.
Grief does not have a standard pattern. People can experience grief in wildly different ways. So don't be surprised by words or actions that you don't expect. As has been said before your job is to be available and listen and support. Your job is NOT to fix anything.
Maybe the other SIL is one of her 2 best friends
admittedly, she's not the best I can do…but we're very close emotionally that it'd hurt both of us to break up….she gets really anxious if don't communicate for more than 6 hours
Ok. This was a lot.
This is an ex-boyfriend. Next time a man acts like this you laugh in his face and walk away.
I’m younger than them actually. And I’m not jealous at all. I’m just concerned, I don’t know why that’s so difficult to understand
INFO: are you expected to pay for this wedding, their marriage or (if it comes to it) their divorce?
Your boyfriend is an immature asshole but besides that, what is it that makes you uncomfortable with trying oral?
Your boyfriend is an immature asshole but besides that, what is it that makes you uncomfortable with trying oral?
As someone who were parentified and have also felt I need to help or fix everyone around me. You need to learn to let go of that concept all together, it is not your role nor right. And when it comes to helping, you can only offer support but you can only lead a horse to water and a person can only change for themselves, IF they even want to. So you need to ask yourself if you're willing to be with your partner knowing this.
Your husband is controlling. And should not be dictating who your friends with.
That doesn’t make things much better. Has this girl lived any of her adult life with you in it?
You’re gonna have to end the friendship, if you really want to give it one last go be brutally honest with him. You don’t feel like you want a relationship with anyone right now but you know you don’t ever want a relationship with him, you’ve only ever seen him as a friend and that will never change, if he can’t accept that then it’s best to go your separate ways.
Have you spoke to your mutual friends about this? Maybe ask them how you should handle it
This is not good for your mental health. You need to put yourself first
People are diverse. They have a wide variety of values, strengths, character flaws, etc.
That doesn’t mean you’re alone. There are lots of people in the world, so many of them share your values, too. But projecting those narratives onto everyone prevents you from seeing people as they really are. When you let go of that, you’ll gain a better understanding of the people around you. And probably yourself, too.
No man person who cheats on their family deserves to be around their family. FTFY
No, strangely enough i don't feel guilty. I would be upset if my wife found out and got hurt because i still do love her at some degree and would hate to be the cause of causing her that emotional pain… but as far as my own perspective and finally feeling happiness after years… no it's refreshing.
Hahaha unfortunately, I don’t have any tips, I’ve known my husband for years and us meeting was a beautiful coincidence. Thank you very much for your advice!
Ask for her number and give her your phone to type it in
Admit it for what?? You are going to stay no matter what! Buy yourself some dignity and leave him.
Unofortunately, a lot of single mothers are looking for a provider, not a boyfriend. Giving the rest a bad rep.