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Fr, nice girl and everything but super insecure. I dont bother thinking abt if she’s messaging other dudes cause i trust but i guess she doesnt feel the same. She even tells me about every dude that hits on her nd dudes that buy her drinks like that shit is gonna entertain me but i cant even talk about celebrities being hot without her making a case??
we've had discussions about her sexuality before because she is not straight… so I guess no one here is open to adult conversations where you support each other regardless of outcome, okay. Cool.
That sucks. Is he aware of the fact that you choose different outfits for different types of parties, or is he five?
My ex was like that. I tried to respectfully convey that if I needed to adjust my choices in clothing, that he should let me know. Eventually, I just accepted that he would never understand my perspective on it. Partly because he was deliberately obtuse about it (he wore a SWEATER to my cousin’s very over-the-top wedding!) but also partly because…he just didn’t care about my comfort.
It didn’t matter to him that I wanted to dress appropriately. He didn’t care that I had thoughts about what was appropriate. He would insist that the event was casual, and then I would feel idiotic in jeans and heels, or completely overdressed when he wouldn’t say anything about not needing to dress up.
Hopefully, it’ll go better for you.
Have you tried being proactive and not waiting for him to offer the information? Like at the first mention of an event, do you ask if it’s formal? That at least gives you the most amount of time to suss it out.
bro he called one of his female bsf his “soulmate” ofc his gf wouldn’t want him to contact her anymore…
Needed that encouragement thank you
… he sleeping tablets is the same situation as a “drunk man's words is a sober man's thoughts”.
Not necessarily. Some of those sleeping pills make you have hallucinations. My grandma once took one that made her have hallucinations and weird dreams, and had to switch to another one.
However, he is still creepy during the day, so it's not a one time thing that happened after he was on sleeping meds.
He’s too old for you. Full stop.
My partner had so many talks I think this is why she decided now to manipulate her other sons. We are now stopping all the payments. We really thought it was for stuff like medicine, food uniforme etc. but their sons said she’s getting a lot from her husband and complained she never makes any food for them or buy a uniform for the little one, that he always uses it full of holes in his trousers and shoes. Etc so she is keeping it all to herself . We are waiting for Monday and he will have a definitive convo with her about what happened, the money and the neglect of a 9 year old boy. But I feel she will blame me for manipulating my man and will want to talk specifically with me and I kind of want to stay out of it and my man do all the talking .
It's not ideal, right?
Your connection is new. You can either accept or dispose.
This is what my thought process would be if I was in your position.
Well, I can't change her choices. I cannot expect her to stop seeing someone for the sake of my company. Me, knowing myself and insecurities, would be aware of this being a risky situation to be in. Still hangs around people she's slept with and tried to date, what roles have these other friends played in her life? Those thoughts would get the better of me and restrict my side of the development. I would also know, hey… I met others before you, I will meet others after you… I am capable of finding someone where none of this will be a factor.
And this is coming from someone who has a GF with close male friends. If I am insecure, I am insecure for a dam good reason. I rather not combat it, rather just find someone who makes it easier on my side.
100% this. Each person in a relationship needs to be their own person as well. It is not healthy to tie your entire identity to someone else. I love playing video games, and my wife loves getting nachos and margaritas with her friends, and watching reality shows that I don't like. We love our together time too, but you need something else to focus your energy on sometimes.
Of course you were right to break up. This guy is bad news. He started dating an 18 y/o when he was 35, which is gross. He’s married and he’s a father. You’ll just be wasting your time with him.
OP, I’ve read your comments asking for how to set healthy boundaries.
You have already done that and he ignored them and disrespected you over and over again.
If you had a best friend who’s SO treated her this way, what would you advise her to do?
You deserve a healthy and stable relationship. You won’t get that with this guy.
The pregnancy is your decision to keep or terminate.
But you really don’t want someone as manipulative and cruel as your current SO to have any place in your life.
Yea according to mayoclinic pregnancy can still occur around 90% of the time. It can be reversed for 20+ years after the initial vasectomy. Stanford health even says 95% and 30+ years. Planned parenthood says the lower side at about 60% with the assumption it has been many years before getting it reversed.
Ideally you'd have figured this out before she turned 30.
What was his boss arrested for
He's an immature 21 year old who, at worst, said what he said to try and spare your feelings. He could be on Tinder for a relationship or just to hook up and stay single.
Only he knows if it was a lie and you shouldn't care. He didn't want to date anymore and that's his issue.
He also needed a lot of reassurance that I really liked him.
That means he's not mature enough for a relationship. You can do better.