Respectfully man, I think this post is hurting your case and showing us why she ended up going with someone else.
A detailed listing of your traits, her traits, the other guy's, and just how you speak about everyone… you sound very creepy and obsessive. If this is how you sell yourself online after taking time to present your case, probably give off even more awkward vibes IRL.
You're butthurt because you didn't get the relationship/attention you felt you were entitled to. Please recognize this as being very, very unhealthy. You need to take some time to reflect and improve yourself.
This is giving off very strong “nice guy” vibes. You do NOT need to try and “make her regret her decision.” Grow the fuck up and leave her alone. Seriously.
Do you know why you can’t open up to her? maybe she felt that you two have such a connection that you can share anything and she’ll be there for you as you for her. ‘This is a very painful memory for you and she should also understand that she shouldn’t feel entertained (maybe not the right word) by you pain but a willingness to help you.
Yeah, you’re absolotely right. I wish we weren’t so busy all the time. It’s a bit difficult because we live in tourist area and almost no one rents out places to regular people, only tourists. We considered buying a place, but that’s just really expensive at this time with real estate being at its highest atm.
He's abusive and you jumped in WAY too fast. Six months is too soon to live together unless there was a very pressing practical reason and you agreed at the outset that it did not constitute a forever commitment.
You have lost your head because he has loved bombed you and made promises that flattered your ego. REAL love is cautious & gentle. We protect our own and others hearts early on if we are serious. He's just trying to manipulate/control you with promises of love.
Saying I love you is easy when you have no stake in the game, saying is not showing .
Op go over to r/nonmonogamy to get advice since that is about open relationship that group. You’ll get better advice from season couples who are in successful open relationships and can help you figure what to do instead of people who do not understand CNM/Poly relationships.
Maybe you could rent a couple hotel rooms and host a get-together there, if meeting at your family's house is too gross or stressful for you?
Respectfully man, I think this post is hurting your case and showing us why she ended up going with someone else.
A detailed listing of your traits, her traits, the other guy's, and just how you speak about everyone… you sound very creepy and obsessive. If this is how you sell yourself online after taking time to present your case, probably give off even more awkward vibes IRL.
You're butthurt because you didn't get the relationship/attention you felt you were entitled to. Please recognize this as being very, very unhealthy. You need to take some time to reflect and improve yourself.
This is giving off very strong “nice guy” vibes. You do NOT need to try and “make her regret her decision.” Grow the fuck up and leave her alone. Seriously.
You've got some balls on you you prick. God damn.
Do you know why you can’t open up to her? maybe she felt that you two have such a connection that you can share anything and she’ll be there for you as you for her. ‘This is a very painful memory for you and she should also understand that she shouldn’t feel entertained (maybe not the right word) by you pain but a willingness to help you.
Have you talked to her about this?
Yeah, you’re absolotely right. I wish we weren’t so busy all the time. It’s a bit difficult because we live in tourist area and almost no one rents out places to regular people, only tourists. We considered buying a place, but that’s just really expensive at this time with real estate being at its highest atm.
You're right it is, it's actually a serious criminal offence here.
He's abusive and you jumped in WAY too fast. Six months is too soon to live together unless there was a very pressing practical reason and you agreed at the outset that it did not constitute a forever commitment.
You have lost your head because he has loved bombed you and made promises that flattered your ego. REAL love is cautious & gentle. We protect our own and others hearts early on if we are serious. He's just trying to manipulate/control you with promises of love.
Saying I love you is easy when you have no stake in the game, saying is not showing .
Op go over to r/nonmonogamy to get advice since that is about open relationship that group. You’ll get better advice from season couples who are in successful open relationships and can help you figure what to do instead of people who do not understand CNM/Poly relationships.