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His comments were incredibly rude but you started this. Your pizza was smaller and GF. Those are facts. Stating that you were still hungry- again a fact that wasn’t a question so he didn’t say anything. Then you got angry that he didn’t offer some of his pizza- because he knows you are GF).
So what was your endgame? You are an adult. You could have ordered more food or got something on the way home or at home.
Sounds really petty to be in tears over something you started
Your boyfriend needs therapy. Like, ASAP. He clearly has emotional and mental problems from the trauma he's endured and the fact it has been unaddressed until this point has only allowed it to fester and increase in its infecting his daily life.
He’s supposed to be an IT and constantly accuses me of such weird shit with technology, shit I don’t even know about. Like he thinks I have private snapchat accounts and has accused me of selling feet pics before because I mentioned some meme about feet pics it somehow convinced him in his mind I’ve done it before. Insanity
I tried she won't hear me out like she told me today she was done. But at the same time not even a few weeks ago the thought of me leaving made her break down crying ?
I think that's what i'll have to do. I don't think i'll tell her the whole truth though as I think it would destroy her. I'll definitely give her space if that's what she wants, but part of me wonders if she'll want space.
It's not unusual for students in demanding programs to give short shrift to their basic needs. If she's otherwise healthy she should be able to handle a few years of burning the candle at both ends without causing any permanent damage. So maybe the best way to be supportive is to encourage her in her studies and not nag her about her schedule. Chances are she's already got parents to do that for her 😉
I can't speak for other men but I've dated a biwoman and did feel less threatened by women. Not sure why. I think I kind of expect biwomen to ultimately decide on a guy?
Try to flip it. What if another girl from your friend group had confessed to you. Someone you had never really noticed. Someone who you didn’t think of that way. So you asked for time to thing. And you realized you needed to know of your feelings for Kate could ever turn into something. So you asked her out. But she rejected you.
So you went back to that other girl and said ok, let’s go on a date. And you started dating. And over time and getting to know her better and more intimately, you learned who she really was and you fell in love. You got married and were in a very happy marriage for years.
What do you think about this scenario? Do you wish Kate had accepted you back then? Is this woman you are now married to your second choice? Are you filled with regret? Wondering what could be?
Or are you so glad that life led you to your current wife that you are so happy with. Even though you did not notice her at first. Even though she was not your “first choice”
Sometimes (almost always) we don’t end up with our “first choice”. Doesn’t mean we would go back and do it differently if we could. Only means we werent smart enough to know everything right off the bat. But we were lucky enough to make out well anyway.
I'm 32 and recently a 19 year old tried hitting me up, he's literally closer to my eldest kids age than mine and it just made me feel gross even considering giving him the chance he asked for.
From personal experience, DO NOT get dragged into this. You are NOT responsible or owe this person anything. He is reflecting and lashing out. You are neither the cause or consequence of his self-inflicted actions. He the only one in control of his own life, words and actions. What he does, he does willingly influenced only by the factors he allowed influence him.
You have to get immediate distance, violence towards YOU isn't improbable. You call and contact all his relevant family, inform his friends of his attempt and call help lines to guide you through all the other steps, tell them exactly what and how he told you. Call the cavalry, get your family to pick you up. You need someone with you. Leave. He's going to deny, resist, blame shift, switch naratives and make grandiose scenes and gestures. Stay Away, Stay Safe and leave him to the professionals for help.
Is she by chance ADHD? That's not the answer to everything but if she got treatment it may help, not alot but it may explain her behavior. The thing is she has to want it. She doesn't feel threatened you will leave. Sometimes people dont know what they have until its gone.. i think you need to sort this out before even trying for another child. I am ADHD, had a little simular story. We ended up divorced but now we live across the street from each other co-parenting my daughter.
His comments were incredibly rude but you started this. Your pizza was smaller and GF. Those are facts. Stating that you were still hungry- again a fact that wasn’t a question so he didn’t say anything. Then you got angry that he didn’t offer some of his pizza- because he knows you are GF).
So what was your endgame? You are an adult. You could have ordered more food or got something on the way home or at home.
Sounds really petty to be in tears over something you started
Woah. He told you he wants to have sex with another woman and he's still your bf??? Why?
Your boyfriend needs therapy. Like, ASAP. He clearly has emotional and mental problems from the trauma he's endured and the fact it has been unaddressed until this point has only allowed it to fester and increase in its infecting his daily life.
He’s supposed to be an IT and constantly accuses me of such weird shit with technology, shit I don’t even know about. Like he thinks I have private snapchat accounts and has accused me of selling feet pics before because I mentioned some meme about feet pics it somehow convinced him in his mind I’ve done it before. Insanity
Wtf if I had a sister that behaved like that, she'd be toast, sister/best friends of any worth don't pull the sort of shit she did
I tried she won't hear me out like she told me today she was done. But at the same time not even a few weeks ago the thought of me leaving made her break down crying ?
I think that's what i'll have to do. I don't think i'll tell her the whole truth though as I think it would destroy her. I'll definitely give her space if that's what she wants, but part of me wonders if she'll want space.
it's my first relationship ever so it's all new, even dealing with a partner leaving for a while
It's not unusual for students in demanding programs to give short shrift to their basic needs. If she's otherwise healthy she should be able to handle a few years of burning the candle at both ends without causing any permanent damage. So maybe the best way to be supportive is to encourage her in her studies and not nag her about her schedule. Chances are she's already got parents to do that for her 😉
I can't speak for other men but I've dated a biwoman and did feel less threatened by women. Not sure why. I think I kind of expect biwomen to ultimately decide on a guy?
Try to flip it. What if another girl from your friend group had confessed to you. Someone you had never really noticed. Someone who you didn’t think of that way. So you asked for time to thing. And you realized you needed to know of your feelings for Kate could ever turn into something. So you asked her out. But she rejected you.
So you went back to that other girl and said ok, let’s go on a date. And you started dating. And over time and getting to know her better and more intimately, you learned who she really was and you fell in love. You got married and were in a very happy marriage for years.
What do you think about this scenario? Do you wish Kate had accepted you back then? Is this woman you are now married to your second choice? Are you filled with regret? Wondering what could be?
Or are you so glad that life led you to your current wife that you are so happy with. Even though you did not notice her at first. Even though she was not your “first choice”
Sometimes (almost always) we don’t end up with our “first choice”. Doesn’t mean we would go back and do it differently if we could. Only means we werent smart enough to know everything right off the bat. But we were lucky enough to make out well anyway.
Even thought i decide to be friend, this will be awkward for a bit of time isnt it? So i guess i have no choice
I'm 32 and recently a 19 year old tried hitting me up, he's literally closer to my eldest kids age than mine and it just made me feel gross even considering giving him the chance he asked for.
From personal experience, DO NOT get dragged into this. You are NOT responsible or owe this person anything. He is reflecting and lashing out. You are neither the cause or consequence of his self-inflicted actions. He the only one in control of his own life, words and actions. What he does, he does willingly influenced only by the factors he allowed influence him.
You have to get immediate distance, violence towards YOU isn't improbable. You call and contact all his relevant family, inform his friends of his attempt and call help lines to guide you through all the other steps, tell them exactly what and how he told you. Call the cavalry, get your family to pick you up. You need someone with you. Leave. He's going to deny, resist, blame shift, switch naratives and make grandiose scenes and gestures. Stay Away, Stay Safe and leave him to the professionals for help.
Is she by chance ADHD? That's not the answer to everything but if she got treatment it may help, not alot but it may explain her behavior. The thing is she has to want it. She doesn't feel threatened you will leave. Sometimes people dont know what they have until its gone.. i think you need to sort this out before even trying for another child. I am ADHD, had a little simular story. We ended up divorced but now we live across the street from each other co-parenting my daughter.
Unconditional love doesn't really exist. In reality if you mess up there are usually lasting consequences. It won't ever go back.