“Once I’ve admit to that … what little trust is left is gone.”
It’s already gone friend. Whether she admits it or not, there is no trust left.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
My advice. Tell her you know. Go no contact for a whole so you can both get your own shit together. Then perhaps come together and talk and decide what direction your new relationship takes. Make sure to define the scope and limits of that relationship, and be firm in maintaining your boundaries.
Yes, exactly. That's what made it more upsetting. I have since spoken to him and accepted his apology. He has also transferred the additional costs he incurred to the joint account so I'll leave it at that for now.
“Once I’ve admit to that … what little trust is left is gone.”
It’s already gone friend. Whether she admits it or not, there is no trust left.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
My advice. Tell her you know. Go no contact for a whole so you can both get your own shit together. Then perhaps come together and talk and decide what direction your new relationship takes. Make sure to define the scope and limits of that relationship, and be firm in maintaining your boundaries.
Yes, exactly. That's what made it more upsetting. I have since spoken to him and accepted his apology. He has also transferred the additional costs he incurred to the joint account so I'll leave it at that for now.
Yes I think I don’t need to invite trouble into my life. Unnecessary. I don’t even think other men would accept it unless they’re really desperate.
Like the Iranian yogurt, the body pillow is not the problem here
Fingers crossed that you get a new boyfriend
As hard as it is, you have zero say in this Matter