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He is being abusive. Bad news or not this is not ok behaviour. He was also acting macho and not wanting you to tell him or show him how to do something. It’s abusive and emotionally immature. Find someone who is better to you.
You can. But it isn’t easy. It takes years and lots of researching.
I think we just stop at 20f and 34m.
Maybe boyfriend does not want to live in a shit hole with an unstable girlfriend with PTSD and temper issues, and be expected to clean up after her and her horder mother.
Sounds like he’s working at an exit plan to get a place of his own and establish himself and then be in a better position to reevaluate the relationship if there is any left
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With the structure of the thread I misinterpreted aspects of what u agreed with/were arguing with my bad, the top comment in this thread was downvoted super hard for saying those same basic things so there clearly are people disagreeing bc that comment never said it shouldn’t be allowed under any circumstance, and I said the father could have worries regarding that I never said it’s a guaranteed thing that will cause harm but when you’re considering how to raise kids it’s not an unreasonable thought to cross the mind of “how does this action effect my kids long term in various ways”, and ultimately yes a decision that has your two kids naked in front of a naked person who isn’t their parent should be discussed between both parents, which several replies and comments have refuted saying that bc she’s the grandmother and the mom gave permission and in some places it’s a cultural norm that OP just shouldn’t give a shit
oh please do explain
You shouldn't have taken him back to begin with if you weren't satisfied with the terms of the relationship. It doesn't sound like you wanted a polyamorous relationship to begin with.
That woman didn't destroy your relationship. You and your boyfriend destroyed your relationship. It's not her fault she doesn't like you. She doesn't OWE you attraction. It's either natural, or it's not.
You took your boyfriend back and agreed to a polyamorous relationship. You weren't forced. He clearly wants to be with her more than he wants to be with you. That whole “questioning alone made the decision clear” is just a cop out for the fact that he is choosing her… which is a dickhead move on his part. He needs to own his choice… not act like you posing the question forced him.
I’m not responding negatively I’m literally just clarifying the situation to someone. I already did take so much of the advice. Chill out. ?
Maybe ask her out and meet her first.
How exactly are you defining “not being present emotionally.” Are you insisting on daily updates as to all her deepest moods and emotions? Constantly discussing The Relationship? Is she actually shutting down and not talking at all, or not wanting to specifically talk about her emotions?
Some people want to go over everything with a fine toothed comb. Others want to quietly analyze in their own mind. It sounds kind of like she was being overwhelmed with how much you wanted to discuss things. People have different styles, that's fine, but it sounds like you're really focused on forcing her into your way of being. Even the term “breaking down walls” means stripping away layers of protection for her. You can't force someone to be vulnerable. If you want her to be more open in general, she still needs a chance to retreat when she feels the need, or she'll be even LESS comfortable opening up