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Your , favourite girl next door, I wanna sit on your face with this peach perfect big ass! [Goal Race]
Date: February 18, 2023
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A TIA is the proper word
Ok, thanks
Yeah but those post were goofy and fun looked like he genuinely wanted to post her
I'm polyamorous. But my view of it is that relationships are commitments, long-term things, and it takes time to develop a relationship to the point where it could become romantic. My partners, and their partners, share this idea. Not all polyamorous people take this approach — some view casual dating with sex as an important part of it — but it shows that not all poly people define it the same way.
It sounds like your husband in more in-line with my approach. You have a successful relationship. But you might still develop friendships with others. Some of those could be romantic, if you let them get that far; but that's a choice you make. If your current (and only) partner is monogamous, you have the choice of sticking to that.
The way my wife and I think about it is this: You already have multiple loving relationships with people: Probably your parents, any children, your spouse, your best friend, maybe some other relatives with whom you are close. The degree of physical intimacy is independent of love. Consider that you might have a hugging relationship with your kids, but your parents — though they love you — just aren't huggy people. Love is not sex.
If you have a loving relationship, you can choose to add physical intimacy to it, in a way that's appropriate. But you don't have to; some people just don't accept it, others would be confused, and so on.
Having multiple sexual relationships doesn't have to be the goal of being polyamorous. It sounds like your husband's approach to it isn't that he needs some minimum number of partners to feel satisfied in some way; he sounds perfectly happy to have just you in his life. That he isn't bringing this up is an excellent sign.
But what's worrying you is that your husband might be sacrificing something for you. I would suggest that this isn't the case. He is choosing to avoid complicating your life, to make you deal with sometimes strong-and-difficult emotions, all for his benefit. He is being considerate of your feelings.
If he brought this up early on, he was trying to avoid surprising you with this (some people are really bad at being so up-front like this). He knows what matters to you, and was willing to accept a life that works for you. He knew what he was getting into, and he could have chosen a different path if he felt he'd miss out on something.
He chose you. He isn't sacrificing anything. While he might feel capable of having a strong relationship with someone else as well, he doesn't feel the need for additional relationships. He is showing you, by his actions (and his lack of bringing this up to you) that you matter to him, and he cares about how you feel.
I'm trying to think if there's a stronger way to convey that you are not holding him back. Your husband isn't lacking anything; he doesn't need the variety of additional partners. He believes he has the capacity for additional partners, but they aren't a requirement.
Let me try one more thing, which I've indirectly said: Love is not a feeling, love is a choice. When you love someone, you choose to behave in a way so that someone feels loved by you. This doesn't mean you put their happiness before yours, or make yourself second class in some fashion; it just means that you convey to them that you respect them, value them, want them to feel safe in the relationship, and so on.
Love is a course of action you take, not an emotion you passively feel.
From what you've said, your husband loves you. He knows how you feel, and he has no problem being with you. He doesn't feel that he's missing anything.
Does this help?
Google GPS data is pretty accurate up to 50ish meters, nowadays it might even be less.
So you’re not gonna like what I say cuz it’s far from the cliche of “he’s with another woman” bs that most have probably said… but honestly? Whatever problems y’all had that caused this split, he may not even really wanna deal with you like that right now. Sure he may keep an open door, act cordial but if it was bad enough to split for how ever long he doesn’t really wanna be bothered, doesn’t want you popping up, might actually be going through his mind if he may want to fully divorce or not and trying to figure out a plan.
Men don’t always keep distance due to cheating, a man will look you in your face every day and be cheating on you. Men do keep distance for simpler things like not wanting to be bothered with a possible source of stress and anguish, not wanting to be in the presence of someone with negative energy. Like it’s not always cheating. I think folk default to that assumption to keep any pressure of maybe they actually did something to cause it off of their own shoulders. We avoid guilt or responsibility by saying its the other person…
But I know I didn’t do anything wrong. Apart from spending a week or so in my room after some sad news. I didn’t make a fuss, I just needed some time and then that’s when things changed.
I didn’t treat my ex bad, it was the opposite. I’m made the post to understand why people might treat me this way without me being the cause through bad behaviour, because I know sincerely that I treat everyone with respect. I know how to respect people
He’s a liar, he’s a creep, and he’s letting a 21 year old fantasize about having a baby with him. No normal, healthy 31 year old grown adult wants anything to do with someone barely out of their teens.
Wow crazy shit.
This.
I worked on a project that went south and myself and another team member were called in to explain what happened.
I spent the night before preparing a time-line of our interactions.
I'm not getting thrown under the bus because someone else doesn't answer my questions.
Firstly, as I mentioned earlier, I was the one who started having issues with intimacy first. We talked about it, even when I was uncomfortable, but I realised and he made it a point too, that this is something that affects the both of us. But when it was something that was also affecting him, rather than talking about it, he just went ahead with a solution that worked for him without telling me.
I’m not insulted because I think he doesn’t find me attractive. I understand how the medication works.
My problem is that there seems to be a double standard at play when I have issues and when he does.
But how was she acting when you mentioned it? Did her body language change? Did she seem surprised that you were thinking of living with her? She may not have wanted to seem controlling, so she said nothing, hoping maybe you notice other ways she was reacting to the idea. Also is it just going to be you and Polly in the house, or are others moving in? I think the fact that she goes to a different college hours away isn’t going to help feel more comfortable . The only thing I think you can do is reassure her that Polly and you are just friends. At some point you maybe have to chose between Polly and the gf. It might get to the point where you have to avoid Polly as much as you can while in the house, to make your gf comfortable with the situation.
it's really a mystery to me how people remain saine
That’s so funny, because I was thinking the same about you. It’s a real mystery to me why some people keep loving someone who doesn’t love them back? As soon as I’m rejected, they’re out of my mind. I only love when I get love back. I don’t get limerence at all. So I can’t really help you except to say, you’re wasting all that energy on someone who doesn’t love you and doesn’t even want to be with you.
Why don’t you push yourself to date rather than fall back on a convenient excuse that you couldn’t possibly date when you’re in love with someone else. You don’t have to be interested in doing it, you just have to do it. Like going to the gym. I think it’s unhealthy for to to decide that you’re staying in this bubble you’ve created for yourself.
Omg you’re only 20, forget him and his baggage and go live your life!! You’ll end up with someone who actually appreciates you! Damn
Then I'd grow a backbone and tell your husband you cannot do this living situation anymore
Ugh, I'm so sorry that you have no support system OP, please don't go back to your ex, your mom hopefully just said that out of frustration for the entire situation..Do you happen to have any friends who need a roommate by any chance? Maybe check around with one of them to see if they do. Good luck OP and don't let the negativity get you down, this is just a trial of strength and I'm sure you'll pass it.
She has a very feeble excuse. What pleases one person does not necessarily please another person. You should be learning what pleases each other, not other people.
She is not doing this for you or your relationship. She wants to do it because she has an eye on someone else.
Break up and find someone with similar boundaries as your own. Trust me, opening this relationship is going to hurt you badly.
Good luck
I think your reasons are valid but so are his and you seem so dismissive of his.
Like…maybe you shouldn’t invite either of your parents to a dinner since they’re both nuts and can’t manage themselves? He doesn’t want to go out to a restaurant. I (44F) think his logic is ridiculous but he is the groom—it’s his special day too. Seems to me there could be a compromise. Like he could bring a change of clothes and you guys go to the restaurant. Or you guys don’t do dinner with your parents together. Or….so many options.
I dunno. I planned my wedding. I would never want to plan one again because it’s a PITA but I did it. My (now ex) husband didn’t really do anything til the day before with setup.
My folks are divorced and I told them both that if they didn’t think they could behave, not to come. I had people organized to be buffers at the reception/meal so they weren’t close to each other.
I'm thinking this is creative writing not only because of the outrageousness but because why would you be jumping to IVF or actual sex with the brother and not just turkey baster style if his sperm and OPs eggs are viable?
Don’t shit where you eat dummy.
Well, now you can find an awesome new guy to date and dump this asshat
Thank you so much! The basics sound good. I can do that without making awkward gestures. Should I ask her if I bring something? Baked goods or a salad or whatever? Or would that be rude since I was invited?
I don't know if locked up was the right wording. Turns out he had money on the side and could have helped me with a car. He also had always something planned when I wanted to meet someone. He basicly ruined upcoming friendships for me. And he insisted to buy groceries after work, so I couldn't even do the big grocery shopping and get a change of scenery. I'm glad he's out of my life