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Date: October 6, 2022
(Some) Men are hypocrite af
I’m sure he’s going to “not allow” her to wear the shorts in public
I mean he comes from a family of yellers, so he yells easily. I don't come from a family of people who yell, I don't like to be yelled at especially aggressively/unsure if it's playful, it wobbles me brain, makes me want to hide. I've told him this multiple times. I just wish he would apologize when it does happen, but I think his family is used to yelling and moving on so he just acts like nothing happens and I never know how to kind of approach it so he understands it's impacting me more when he does that.
Call the authorities and report he is abusing the children. Press charges.
Sounds like it’s time to break up with the entitled selfish gf.
You’re right, so far he hasn’t helped us build a life where we are.
We did talk about it and he says he contributes by running to the store for me on occasion, doing some cooking and dishes. And that he can move back into the trailer so I don’t feel taken advantage of.
Whenever I bring up the further down the road stuff like where to get a season pass to snowboard or what the spring Alaska plan is he says we fight ooo often so he doesn’t want to make plans with me that far into the future bc it’s too risky.
I think we bicker and they turn into fights bc he runs away and shuts down instead of talking or asking for space. He sort of just disappears for a few days over small stuff.
Abort! Do not have this baby out of guilt because the father and his family and friends already know about it. You clearly do not want to be a mother right now, and that is fine! This dude sounds like a total ass. Don't ruin your life, you are so young and have the whole world in front of you. Abort the pregnancy, leave the relationship, and focus on yourself.
he went to the baby shower too. his sisters aren't the problem.
I do ask him and all he says is, youre boring i want to play by myself. Which i dont mind if he plays with others. I dont see why he makes it a big problem for me to be included in the xbox party so i can still talk?.. I am his partner after-all but in game coms with random people are way more important
chin up OP! you are not overreacting at all. as a lifelong weeb, this has always been a sticking point with partners. folks who are willing to have conversations about why this character can be fun, but the way they’re written or depicted is offensive or degrading, are the only type of folks i’d even consider dating. anime is something i enjoy and would like to share with others — but i can only do that if they also acknowledge that the depictions are flawed.
i’ll often stop watching an anime if on the first ep there’s a pervert character or an upskirt shot lol. there’s plenty of anime out there, good ones that don’t bother with that crap at all…
Thats a huge number of red flags in my oppinion. I think your right to be concerned.
The best thing you can do for your friend is keep her close. Give her someone to talk to be there for her l that way if something happens, she has an ally.
Some people don't realise it, but separation is one of the first things that happens in nasty relationships.
Tell her your concerns, but if she cant see it, don't press the issue, you'll drive her away if you do.
Good luck
The dead bedroom was “caused” by wifes mental breakdown and constant pain forcing her to Be heavily medicated most of The Time,and her failing to communicate just how much pain did being intimate caused her for several days after it.(I learned this only after few years ago.) Physical problems becan affecting her mental health even More to Wich she refused to seek help. I made The problem way worse being at work a lot of The evenings and she started to feel alone with her problems,and majority of The chores around The House fell for her. No defence for me I am quilty to pretty much the usual reasons a dead bedroom happens, but I am not alone to “blame”. Anyway, looking at The dead bedroom as a Time one person refused to have sex with another is quite oversimplified way to Look at it…she did not just decide to withold sex,her libido was driven to The ground by problems on both of our ends. Wich caused her to just not want intimacy on that level.
I have always used porn,and we used to watch it together also, but The lack of intimacy and her growing insecurities made me use porn alone and behind her Back,Wich led to addiction-behavior. I am sure there is another way to see how it went down,but this is my view and how I began dealing with The problem when I started seeing The terapist that actually started to work for me.
Chlamydia is treatable. Not a life long disease.
Yeah I probably would have kicked my husband in the balls if he'd tried that. But I had a woman doctor stitching me and I only had a slight tear so he would have definitely gotten punched in the balls had he tried that. With our first he didn't get near me for at least 3 months if not four. he was so freaked out watching me give birth, which actually went very well. it was a mental thing with him seeing me like that in pain and now a mother. Your husband needs to stop thinking about himself and his orgasms and think about his wife and his baby and their well-being. Both you and the baby should come before him having sex.
You don't. I mean, not if you have a decent bone in your body. People have pasts, and everyone you are ever with at your age will have one. Just get over yourself. Obviously the person was horrible that would send you that. If it bothers you that much, get therapy.
Also, who the fuck opens an attachment from an unknow source?
You can't change her.
How do you think this has affected your romantic relationships?
It's in one of her comments. I just feel bad for her that she has to do all the work. And then maybe he shows up after she paid for the rooms. If I were her I would personally be inclined to bail and go look for my self worth.
Ask her if she’d like to invite the group or if she’d like to go just the two of you.
Don’t guess if you’re worried about it.
Please focus on your education and on yourself. You are being used and taken advantage of.
He'll feel broke and homeless after being forced to sell the house. If he has a kid or two with her he'll be broke for 18 years.
you must go. the whole trip is based on you being there. it would be mean not too.
it is the occasion to talk with her of your feelings. put the blame on you. things may change afterward. for good or bad. but she will be warned.
don't be a AH. she is not the problem.
This just sounds like youth and trying to hard, not to mention a toxic environment to what try and take it further, what are you two even trying to accomplish
Break up please. She is disgusting for even dating someone your age
Yeah that's a bad bad idea. Agree with the rest though
Exactly what I was thinking
Ok thanks for helping me out I will see if I can use some of those options I will also stop with the porn I think it is doing more harm than good
Do you really think he wasn’t in on that? That he didn’t call and get them to plant such a good story of him saying he won’t go with out you in TEXT message?
You look like a normal baby. What on earth is she expecting to pop out? A miniature Leonardo DiCaprio? Or whoever people these days consider hot..
Can she look for another job if the source of the anxiety is her job? I agree with comments before, don't have a child until mental health is in order, I'm not sure if she would even be able to stay on her meds while pregnant/breastfeeding or even if they would work as the hormones do a number on you during pregnancy.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Reading your OP and follow up comments, I have to wonder a bit if you don’t kind of hint around about things and then get upset when he doesn’t pick up on it vs directly asking for what you want.
In the example of your grandmother, when he was visiting, did you specifically say “I would really like you at the wake. I need your support.” ?
Many younger people have not experienced much death and are either uncomfortable with the whole thing or simply don’t know what is expected.
I don’t know about his work, but at mine, we only get one day of bereavement leave for our own immediate family. So if I were in his shoes and came to you, I could work from home and be there to be supportive but I couldn’t take the time off without penalty. But I would know that I should be at the wake and funeral and would make it work. I would not need to be asked. But I’m also 44 and have buried all of my grandparents and many friends and my partner has had similar losses.
I don’t think I’d make any big decisions right now while you’re grieving and stressed but I think it’s worthwhile to examine your relationship and evaluate the bigger picture to see if this is the right person once things settle down.
Her asking you to sleep on the couch is actually pretty key to my next thoughts. It sounds like she wants to live alone- her frustrations living with you are exploding in odd ways between criticizing your bathroom usage, the implication she sleeps better without you, and this tendency to blame you for things within her sphere of control (you can't MAKE her go to bed). When you discuss it, be prepared to discover the relationship isn't going well from both of your perspectives and she would be happier living by herself.
First mistake was literally buying a home together before marriage…. Why op??? That’s not going to turn out pretty when y’all break up… which you will. Goodluck splitting the asset!
Gym full of men and your “buddy” you send pics to is a young lady. Right. We’re all buying it ?
Buy a fleshlight, cut a fleshlight-sized hole around the middle of the pillow… and well i guess you can see where this is going -)
This is why you don't have sex with people you barely know.
You’re very young, just barely out of college aged individual, I hope you can maintain some perspective that you have a life long enough to do everything you want to do and be with someone that makes you happy. Miss your ex? Join a club, activity, Facebook group, connect with other people because it is essential to you being able to move on
My boyfriend got 1 week off work when I delivered our first (it was a new job and we couldn't get FMLA.) He took our son every afternoon and at night so I could get sleep! That 1 week means a ton to me, because he literally did everything he could in that timeframe to ease my burdens as I healed and jumped into motherhood. He took all weekend night shifts for a year. I breastfed and pumped. Your husband is being a selfish asshole. You are under-reacting, i.m.o.
My guess is your sister or one of the other vacationers did something inappropriate your GF was a witness to and they want to get ahead of the rumor. They’re assuming your GF is too goody-goody to not narc on them.
No I second this. She doesn't like you. You're confusing her work persona with an interest in you. She's there to get her paycheck and just seems “flirty” to you. Sounds more like a woman being polite and nice but you do you I guess.
If she was interested in seeing you outside of work she would have set up a time and place the first time you asked. If she was interested but too busy the first time she would have rescheduled with a date that works.
She doesn't like you, sorry man.
It’s “me focused” because the question is about me, lol. But to answer your question, he is into fishing by himself. I support him by occasionally buying him fishing gear and encouraging him to go fishing when it’s nice outside. Not sure what else I can do there.
What straight man would send another man those texts?
Thank you for your advice. This is the statement that I need. Some of my friends said it was ok, but some said no. But they're my friends, and I think their perspective is biased.
Yeah reddit loves to assume everything is sexism but actually it was probably more due to hygiene. Since historically people didn't have a firm understanding of disease and men tended to work a lot of manual labor in which they'd be covered with harmful chemicals, animal dirt, or pathogens and then not wash for days. Cultural trial and error would have evolved to only the people who were most likely to be clean would be attending births.
They just made out and cuddled but no sex
In a hotel room, alone, after making out? Yeah sure. You know what she did, and you know what you should do.
Let me put it like this, do you want your kids to grow up in an environment of hostility and mistrust? Do you want them to think that marriage is two people who dislike and are angered by each other? Because that's the future you are gifting them if you stay “for them”.
Get in touch with a lawyer, find out what your options are and what the result will be for your contact with your kids. Get the facts, then make decisions. And remember, this is the time you know about, have video evidence of. You have no idea if her fucking this guy is the tip of the iceberg or a single event. Personally I wouldn't believe a word that came out of her mouth again.
You have now gone past the point of denial and you've gone to.. stonewalling? I'm not quite sure you've reached a point of just complete shutdown. It's A coping mechanism and trying to protect yourself from the situation you're in.
Another affair? Why did you stick around after the first? He knows he can keep on cheating and you'll stick around, do you really have such low self-esteem? Free yourself of this mess, choose happiness
You need to figure this out without any other opinions.
Set up your phone to record your consumption of a large meal privately. Drinks included. Friends are not who you should be asking. Don't stare at your phone. Just eat your meal.
Then, watch some videos about eating etiquette. Using utensils and eating. Do you start to lose focus on etiquette part way through the meal? Do you chew with your mouth open, use utensils inappropriately, or are you just fine?
Mealtime etiquette can be a huge thing for many people and to cultures. Others, not so much (some cultures eat entire meals with their hands). You need to figure this out on your own without outside opinions.
I do love this woman I just can’t deal with drink
From what you told us, this isn’t just ‘drinking’. She’s going to the hospital and shit because she doesn’t know when to stop drinking, so you need to keep in mind that you’re very likely dealing with an addict here.
What ‘addict’ means is this isn’t something simple enough that you can just talk her out of. She has to realize it, wants to deal with it, and works hard towards it as quitting fucking sucks on both physical and mental levels. Many alcoholics only quit after they’ve lost everything, and the people who left them definitely loved them…they just couldn’t deal with it anymore.
I got no advice, but just think it’s something to consider.
Say and do nothing.
This is his issues with being less than. Probably from him watching porn with guys with giant dicks.
That's where we are at. Have lived with this person for 4 years and generally no issues
Then quit putting up with bullshit from someone who apparently thinks engineering is a man's job. You'll deal with dipshits like that aplenty in your work, no need to have one at home waiting for you.
Also, just going by his attitude, how is a woman leaning over and playing with a long stick and some balls making him less of a man? Omg, you're better with the long stick and balls, aren't you?
Why is he threatened by you being yourself? He doesn‘t like who you are, why are you with him?
You‘re not „masculine“, you‘re just a strong woman and that intimidates him.
Keep being a strong woman!!
When I was young and stupid. I would drop my friends for the girlfriend. (Did it, and now I have regretted it for over 20 years. You can't fix those mistakes)
Now, I would instantly dump the girlfriend. She has insecurity and jealousy issues that I will not accept.
Punch yourself in the uterus. Cause that’s gonna feel better then if you continue to peruse this disaster of a human being that’s seeking out your attention when he just got married a year ago. First of all, dude isn’t going to leave his wife. You’re better than the girl who he flirts with secretly in order to make himself feel wanted. Cause that’s what is happening. This dude is looking for validation that he is still able to get action even after being taken off the market. Fuck that, you’re better than that, punch him in the pee hole and tell him he has a week to tell his wife about how he has been sneaking behind her back or you’re gonna tell her. That’ll help you get over his ass.
You had a much cooler head than I would have had.