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There is always a chance with someone as messed up and toxic – they never let you go that easily.
Advice doesn’t change: don’t do it.
So maybe I expressed myself the wrong way but no matter what the flaws/red flags, I help him as best I can. Like I said, he needs constant reassurance so I did, he needed to take his mind off of things by finding a job so I found him a new one, he needs to move to another country so I searched for the necessary documentation to help him in his endeavors. Whatever happens and whatever my thoughts may tell me, I help him as best as I can and as soon as I can because I love him but also because I know how much we all have our past, our traumas and that it is important to have someone who supports you in these moments. Concerning your question, thinking about it, the first answer that comes to my mind is that I'm used to things going wrong, so why should this time be better? Or maybe I don't have confidence in myself and I don't think I deserve a serious and healthy relationship? I don't know, but when it's what you and the people around you are used to, it's normal to find it weird and that's exactly what worries me because in fact that's the norm, that's how every relationship should be: healthy. So I try to do my best not to project, but I have a hard time. I also feel like I want to make sure I don't lose out or waste my time again (but I also know that each relationship (or even friendship really) is an experience you can learn from so there's no such thing as 'wasting time' (or whatever my uncle said)
Good…then it is on a par with the original post.
If she says it again, you say “Excuse me?” with that one raised eyebrow side look of extreme concern. “
Yes I’m wondering that too. She mentioned that then kind of implies it doesn’t mean anything. OP, what does her being a partner entail?
He is gaslighting the crap out of you. Are you still with this guy?!
Are you able to go on the trip with them? As so many others have voiced: there are so many possibilities of this going poorly and creating insecurities and problems. The optics are bad unless all these guys are gay. Personally I think you should consider trying to joint them on the trip if that’s important. Will give you a chance to meet her best friend.
It's a completely reasonable boundary to ask him to not masturbate while you're over. Fine if he doesn't want to have sex but you can also say no to what's going on.
If he doesn't want to make good on that then he can keep his hentai because you deserve to be comfortable.
After 1.5 years, if he doesn't see it as officially a relationship, it will never be a healthy one. He clearly has a thing for his friend that he can't get over.
yup i would have done the exact same thing as you. Why the fuck does being drunk mean it’s an excuse for cheating? it’s not! you got what u deserved lmao. I’m glad he blocked you ?♀️You can’t be mad at him for not wanting to hear you out. You made out with another man. Imagine how betrayed he feels right now??
So you're having a housing issue, she's having workstress, and your solution is to spend more money during her workday so she has less time to work?
And she's supposed to be grateful?
And you embarrassed her in her office?
Dude. I'm on her side. This isn't a gift – this is you making every single aspect far far worse.
Someone reached out to me through the DMs and asked if I would be okay with doing it with my girlfriend and another girl, and honestly I don’t feel comfortable with myself or others to want to do it with more people, so my answer to that is no. But the person asked me to message her to ask whether my girlfriend would be okay with that if I was okay with her and another guy joining. She replied; “That’s disgusting for you to think that, I have my own problems with jealousy and can’t ever think of you with any other girl and me. I’m not going to talk to you for a while because of this, think about what you’ve said”
I guess it depends on how OP sees his sexual needs.
Does he just need the act itself? Or is it the connection with his partner?
With seeking sex outside of the relationship, is he going to be forming attachments to his partners? Or will it just be doing the deed without feelings, like an appointment?
I've seen people who say that sex without a connection to their partner is meaningless, and would qualify as just “getting laid.”
I think it's an important distinction OP needs to make. If he needs sex just for its own sake or if he desires an intimate connection with his partner. Sex outside of the relationship would only satisfy one of those things; or, it might lead to forming an emotional connection with someone else.
There is a LOT that can go wrong. More than what people can reasonably account for, especially when we're talking about emotions. While she might say she wants to try it out, there's also the real possibility that she's only saying that because she doesn't want to lose OP. Which is how a lot of these open relationships start on here, admittedly, when one partner wants new sexual partners. It's a valid concern based on a lot of posts here.
This is the way it will always be….
Depending on where they are traveling it may be unsafe to wear the ring.
Sure I agree. We don't really know if he is part of every single thing.
I was just trying to convey, that if they haven't done much together or really traveled or (hiked) with each other, I can only speculate that he might feel this way.
Just an observation.
If you were her friend, and you knew how she felt about things, did you think she was really gonna do friends with benefits. It really has no potential. It’s almost one step above escorts. I know there are some that sort of hope. It’ll be some thing else that are in them but usually they’re not. I’m sorry you went through with this leave it alone sometimes time changes how people view things good luck to you.
DO NOT MARRY HIM! As for what to do, lots of good replies here.
Maybe don’t waste your life dating a cheater that makes you feel like you can’t compare to the women he cheated with.
Everything you say screams “I sniffed a line of cocaine”
My ex girlfriend was a coke addict, and she'd act like this during a relapse. It's very easy to get someone to cover for you.
It is now my mission to watch SpongeBob ?
He posts naked pics of you for other men to see to satisfy his kink? Did I fucking read that right?!
I do have a townhouse, and wouldn't lie about that. The other problem is that he doesn't want anything changed in the house, despite his friends also telling him the house needs repairs. There's a lot that I have left out to streamline the issue- he doesn't want to spend money on anything (even complains going to the grocery store to buy necessities), complains about paying for the yard people, complains about spending money to fix the fountain, retaining wall, etc. He doesn't even go on vacations because of the cost! It really seems like he won't pay for anything and sees me as an interloper coming into his and his mom's house, when it seriously needs a ton of repairs
It's something me and my therapist are trying to address right now. You are absolutely right, I do feel love for her. I don't know if I'm IN love but that sensation tends to dissipate over time, at least in my experience. I genuinely care about her and her daughter which is why I have already decided (but not told her) that if we end it, I will give her a substantial amount of money ($50K plus a $30K car I gave her) to stay afloat until she is able to support herself again. I agree with you here.
I seriously recommend reading a book called Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft . Ur is a guide to how domestic abusers think and the signs you are in a relationship with an abuser .It's readily available as an ebook or free download. There are usually free phone services you can access who will offer you free no judgement advice as well
I personally don’t agree with you and think you’re being a bit too harsh here. It’s a dog used to big house and big garden versus an apartment with a balcony for three weeks.
It’s not decision made when one doesn’t feel comfortable being put in the situation where you could be vilified for hampering a holiday.