Yea but it's not like her son made the video himself to send OP. His ex did. Thats manipulative . He can be missing OP and she can be manipulative all at the same time
I dated someone like this for a few years when I was your age. I felt like his mother. Except his mother was an enabler. Then one week he went on a vacation with his family and I was so happy when he was gone. It clicked that I had to get out of this relationship. You should be someone’s partner, not their mother. He is a man child. If you’ve tried to discuss this with him and he isn’t trying to fix it or fixing it for a few days and then going back to the same habits, I’d get the hell out of there.
It’s all good. What I meant by that was that your bf’s behavior is suspect as to whether or not he actually respects you. Something is going on because he is not caring about you the way he should be, and I worry that he and the rest of the group could be in on not wanting you around. He could be cheating, never say never, but I don’t get those vibes. I get the vibes that he’s pushing you off to the side, and I worry if it’s intentional.
Your sister is right. She shouldn’t have done it BUT…. I mean if he thought it was his buddies. It would have gone in a different direction. Like him sending a ridiculous picture in return as a gotcha. Not just play along. THAT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE.
They probably will think that, too, but if it's people you don't talk to, who cares? Why would new people look at her social pages? If they become more than, and stumble across her page, you can explain being exes at that point. You can't control what she does, they are her memories to with as she pleases. I would just not be friends or follow her socials.
That's pretty much what I'm wondering… the algorithm still shows me the stuff she likes, and it's a lot of stuff I introduced her too. So I'm also worried that it is just me still having feelings for her… uggg
Yeah. Op is supporting a cheater.
Yea but it's not like her son made the video himself to send OP. His ex did. Thats manipulative . He can be missing OP and she can be manipulative all at the same time
Seems like she is projecting.
I dated someone like this for a few years when I was your age. I felt like his mother. Except his mother was an enabler. Then one week he went on a vacation with his family and I was so happy when he was gone. It clicked that I had to get out of this relationship. You should be someone’s partner, not their mother. He is a man child. If you’ve tried to discuss this with him and he isn’t trying to fix it or fixing it for a few days and then going back to the same habits, I’d get the hell out of there.
It’s all good. What I meant by that was that your bf’s behavior is suspect as to whether or not he actually respects you. Something is going on because he is not caring about you the way he should be, and I worry that he and the rest of the group could be in on not wanting you around. He could be cheating, never say never, but I don’t get those vibes. I get the vibes that he’s pushing you off to the side, and I worry if it’s intentional.
Your sister is right. She shouldn’t have done it BUT…. I mean if he thought it was his buddies. It would have gone in a different direction. Like him sending a ridiculous picture in return as a gotcha. Not just play along. THAT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE.
Yeah this is just another heroic young man cuts off toxic mother story but with a 'twist' of villain pov. Villain pov almost never sounds real
Lol and you know he won’t be splitting the extra rental income with you either.. So this is even worse for your income divide.
They probably will think that, too, but if it's people you don't talk to, who cares? Why would new people look at her social pages? If they become more than, and stumble across her page, you can explain being exes at that point. You can't control what she does, they are her memories to with as she pleases. I would just not be friends or follow her socials.
That's pretty much what I'm wondering… the algorithm still shows me the stuff she likes, and it's a lot of stuff I introduced her too. So I'm also worried that it is just me still having feelings for her… uggg