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Date: November 3, 2022
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Maybe it's too much porn then. That can happen. They stop being able to get off without the death grip of their fist and the porn.
Also you've been together so long and you're so young! Maybe take a break and see what else is out there.
I would only do this if you have 6 months worth of savings. So many other fish in sea.
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We could bump into each other in the hallway and she’d get pregnant. But since our last one we have now both been fixed ✂️? Now before everyone unloads on me for bringing up sex after her body has been through so much, let me tell you that I completely understand and respect everything she has gone through. She is an incredible woman and mother and I couldn’t ask for a better person to be with!
Again, I want to emphasize that in no way shape or form am I angry with her for being exhausted at the end of the day. Im just looking for a little advice on how to navigate my needs for love and attention while respecting her situation.
We both want to make sure we have a strong relationship, and she understands the importance of having a healthy sex life. But as i stated earlier, due to pregnancies and the exhaustion that comes with taking care of our kids, there’s just not much desire on her end. Not to mention she was already a little timid when it came to bedroom activities and needed a little help getting relaxed and in the mood before all this.
My problem isn’t that we don’t have a ton of crazy sex all the time any more. I understand that comes with being a parent. My problem is that sex now feels like something she just lets me do to her. Like in her mind, as long as I’m getting my physical needs met, we’re good. But for me sex isn’t very fulfilling when I feel like I’m running circles around her to get her ready, and once there she kinda just pulls me on top so I can finish. There’s no passion or interest at all. She tells me that if I want to have a healthy sex life, this is currently as good as it gets. But I feel like I’m basically just using her body to pleasure myself and its not sitting right with me.
So here’s my question, should I just be grateful for what she’s giving and make the best of it? Or is it fair that I want her to do a little more? If anyone could give me a broader perspective that would help too. Thanks!
Edit 1: man, in a society where folks claim to want men to open up emotionally and talk about their feelings, this comment section is why most men won’t. I do appreciate those who did come here with helpful advice though ??
Edit 2: just gonna quickly answer some of the reoccurring questions and comments:
1) I’m not asking how I can force her to give me wild crazy sex every night. I’m asking for perspective on a situation where we BOTH want a healthy sex life, and I want to make that happen while also being understanding for what she’s going through
2) I didn’t think I needed to share all the things I did for her to gain sympathy. I also am surprised how many just assume I do nothing around the house and with the kids. So here you go. – she currently has 4 gift cards to the spa accumulating to about $900. A two hour massage, 2 “ultimate packages” which is 4 hours where she gets a massage, facial, pedicure, and manicure. And the last one I can’t recall exactly at the moment – I have tickets to her favorite band coming into our town scheduled for next week – I had her book a 7 day cruise to the Bahamas in November late last week. – last week I new she didn’t sleep well, so I messaged her at about 10 am telling her I was coming home and she had to go into her room with an eye mask and ear plugs and take a nap while I watched the kids. – I am normally the one to fold and put away all the laundry for all 6 of us. – we share all responsibilities every evening of cleaning the house. I tend to wipe down tables, take out the garbage, sweep the floor, and unload the dishwasher. I also mostly brush the kids teeth and put the middle two to bed while she feeds the baby and reads the oldest stories.
Hopefully this satisfies all the concerns about me being helpful
3) our week to week date night is lacking admittedly. My work is extremely demanding right now, so between that and daily chores, there hasn’t been a lot of date nights unfortunately
Why the sarcasm? OP hasn’t mentioned any issues, he just doesn’t want a dog.
Would you want your best friend to know if they had been cheated on?
Yeah.
Yeah but it not your higher self thats choosing its the part of yourself where the depth of decision making is “is a kiss gonna feel good right now” pretty sure many of us would kiss a whole host of people we would never touch otherwise on this metric alone
You need to get ahead of her with the narrative because people rightfully or wrongfully tend to believe the first story they get.
Since you are so into asking her questions, ask her specifically what kinds of things get her off? Ask her how you can improve your game. Read some books on how to be better in bed. GET BETTER. Just because the other dude had a big dick it doesn't mean that is what actually got her off. He could have been a master with using it. learn to use your cock, your hands, your mouth, and best of all – your intimate connection.
If she tells you that huge cocks are what get her off, well, you probably wouldn't be with her for very long anyway.
But they can still do AI or IVF.
I would not go out of my way to contact him, what I would do though is IF he ever contacts you just tell him that you're glad he broke up with you especially after finding out his secret, you can either continue to tell him or let him guess as to what you're talking about, I'd let him guess because it would drive him crazy trying to figure out what it is you that you know about him.