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He can’t make up his mind about living together but for sure wants kids? Nope dump him! It’s a way of controlling you without you being able to control him. 18+ years you will be obligated to deal with him. Without commitment he can leave whenever and still have power over you cuz of the child/ren. He’s probably in the mindset of if she has kids with me no one else will ever want her and I can always have her in my back pocket. Cut ties he’ll probably say he’ll move in when you do but tell him no anyway.
I don’t know if it’s labor law or family law. I need to start somewhere
Can you afford the house on your own? How much is in your shared bank accounts? Can you withdraw half before he takes all of it? Can you stop contributing to the joint accounts?
You need to talk to a lawyer. Can you afford to buy him out of the house? Can he force a sale? Can you get roommates?
Protect yourself before you confront him. The last thing you want to do is stop him from leaving, you just want to make sure when his lying, cheating butt is out of your life, you are still going to be okay.
It’s time to let him go. He is not the one for you.
For over a decade he has shown you who he really is, a liar and a cheat, and how he is going to treat you, with a lack of respect.
It’s time to find someone else who will show you love, respect, desirability, and above all else will only have eyes for you.
I agree and like I said I think some questions were good. I’ve definitely learned a lesson here and how I would never take her for granted again and how wrong I was in ending things. I didn’t realize how good I had it. And if she thinks the best thing to do is never see me again, I will respect her wishes.
Honestly, when you told him point black “you're hurting me” and he kept repeating the behavior..I'd be done. I'm honestly not going to guess if this could go down the domestic violence road, but it's bizarre at the very least for a grown man to act like this and say..
“Oh dude no way with the hit I just landed you’d be out cold,” or “There ain’t no way you could still move after that,” etc.
..and alarming that he hasn't stopped after you've expressed physical pain. I wouldn't accept this behavior anymore, period.
She’s never not been able to pay me back eventually she does I’m not hurting financially over 300 dollars. I just need advice on what to say to her because she’s does well for a while and then backtracks.
All I can say is, I’m glad I don’t get my period anymore. I haven’t missed it, not once No take continuous birth control, so I skip the sugar pills and go straight into the next pack. Your girlfriend is gaslighting you by making her own attitude your fault. Read about gaslighting. Some women are really off their rocker when they get their period. For years, I had my coworker’s period on MY calendar, so I knew when to avoid her. This is different. Your girlfriend can be “normal” around everyone else. She is treating you badly because she thinks she can get away with it. Teach her differently. Respect yourself more.
Look, if she doesn't want to talk about it, then you can't force her to.
I agree with some of the comments here recommending that you find another forum to talk about it in with other people going through the same thing instead. It might be even more productive for you and help you find new tips and tricks that will help you achieve your goal faster and more efficiently.
r/loseit is one that I've heard about through the Luke Narwhal videos on YouTube. Full of supportive people who'll cheer you on and celebrate your achievements and milestones with you.
Then, when your wife is ready to discuss it, you'll be there, ready to listen to her and hopefully not resentful towards her inability to do the same for you when you needed it. Yes, it would be great if she could support you now, but no one is perfect and it sounds like she's dealing with her own thing at the moment. Just be there for her when she's ready. When the time comes, she'll probably regret not being able to be there for you when you needed her, but marriage is hard and I hope yours will overcome this and you'll forgive her.
He's invited me over for dinner with his SO wanting to be there with us.
First, babies cannot be donors. To be a donor you have to be 18 years or older. Your parents wouldn't be able to use bone marrow from a baby. They potentially could use the umbilical cord for stem cells but I doubt they did that 12 years ago. So I don't think you'll find anything in medical records.
Second, who is this going to help? Nobody.
Jake is an AH being angry at a baby. That's his problem and he is an adult.
Ryan is going to be shattered if he was just born to potentially help Jake.
OP and Jake need to stay the hell away from Ryan. Replacement baby. What an incredibly fucked up thing to tell a kid. I don’t care if you believe it or not it just fucking cruel. All Ryan needs to know is his older sibling are hateful and mean and apparently resentful of not being the baby anymore. I can’t believe OP is 24. I just assumed this level of poor judgement had to be from a teenager, but nope. Seriously disturbed behavior.
Definitely do not stay with someone simply because they are mentally unstable. Break up with her gently, and then if she has no friends to for you to call, call the police to do a wellness check. If she threatens to kill herself call the police immediately and tell them that. If she is a danger to herself it is not wrong.
Or maybe he went camping without service.
I know, but idk why I'm like this, I just think very low on myself :/
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dump her and block her, if she cries thats not your problem, shes trying to manipulate the situation so she gets pity, stop fucking giving it to her. Dump her
That's clear abuse with a possible side of mental illness.
On your laminated list of five celebrities, do all five look the same/exactly like your partner?
He's trying to find a way out without looking like the “bad” guy for breaking up with you, because he isn't ready to be a dad. So he's pushing you away.
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I briefly dated a guy who was exactly like this. Was sweet and charming, gave me all the signals, but he ultimately told me he is not ready for a relationship, which he had never had before. I was devastated and felt played.
But I came to realize it's him. He needs to grow and fix his own stuff first. I can't be with a person who is not fully there with me and probably has some not-so-charming traits as well that would bite me in the back of we were in a relationship. Believe him when he says he is not ready.
On the flirting: Flirting is easy, relationships are hard. It doesn't surprise me he's so flirtatious – that's all he has the energy for since he is not ready for anything deeper than this. Some people also use flirting as a defense mechanism. They flirt to make people like them. He probably really likes you and doesn't want to see you hurt or upset, but he's just not into a relationship right now.
Take it as it is and move on from him. If his flirting makes you uncomfortable, you can tell him he's making you uncomfortable and that you're not interested in flirting. You can also minimize contact.
Don't take it too personally! You're a great person, but he probably has a lot on his plate that you may don't even want to deal with in a relationship.
Lots of info unrelated to this. I like to focus on why we are together now and why I want a future with her. Regardless of the reasons I’ve broke up with her in the past.
My family means more to me than anything. And that includes the love of my life!! WHICH I’d wish was attracted to me the way I’m attracted to her.
Good way to avoid this in future is to stop dating women young enough for you to have fathered them. No 42yo woman is with a 62yo man for love.
My favorite comedy is Magical Shopping Arcade Abenobashi
Recently ended a 3 year relationship over this. Starting dating at 16 and now 19 and i’m college wanting to experiment. Boyfriend was strongly against me doing weed and drinking. Thinks everyone who does it is “stupid”
I get that the kid is 19 but… what a child, hopefully he grows up from that stage because unfortunately a lot of ‘em don’t.
Wow, so physical abuse is about the victim? Your basic argument is that he was asking for it?
Great advice. The little bit about the “toxic” relationship in the past was unnecessary here and designed to elicit a specific response from us. Nothing about this fight sounds toxic – it sounds like the same kind of fight a lot of couples have.
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This is the way.
Hey OP, This doesn’t sound like a healthy sex positive relationship. I get that you’re insecure about it. But your partner shouldn’t say things to you like “I’ll cut them”.
Now, you can ask him what he means. But I think it’s irrelevant. You shouldn’t be having sex and thus putting yourself in a vulnerable position with someone that you don’t feel like you can safely tell things to. This person is not the person for you. The sooner you accept that and move on to the person that is, the better.
And Op, please stop sending nudes to guys. It never ends well. Just don’t do it.
He said he has feelings for you. Regardless of whether you’ve communicated exclusivity, if he can fuck another woman while having feelings for you, it’s not the sign of a good partner.
Thanks for your input, you are right I’ve never had a proper female friend before so this is all new to me.
we’re both committed to each other, but i just don’t understand how he doesn’t get it?
Is this a post about her or about you ?
I really don’t mean this to sound superficial or shallow.
ORLY?
If she comes back
That's sad but I guess now you know for sure she is gay.
Go to the HOSPITAL. Tell them the truth and get your son drug tested and examined. File a police report against your husband. If you don't do this the. Yes, CPS may take your child. Do not return to the house with your kids. File for divorce tomorrow. Get a therapist for you.
This protects you and your kid. Don't second guess this. I can tell you from experience I wish I had not second guessed things. Just do this for yourself, your children, and your futures.
BTW this might not have been the first time. Drug screenings can tell them. Your husband is a child abuser, full stop. Get out now.
i know. I see this all the time.
i think the bloke likes having 2 women silently “fight” for him. and the female friend has designs on him, 99% of the time.
If she's unwilling, then it's definitely time to get out. Maybe tell her you're not happy but you don't want to leave and you're willing to try to save the relationship. If she's not willing after you tell her that, I think you have your answer. She sounds really depressed and someone going through that doesn't know how to respond to things in a healthy manner, i used to be a lot like her. Despite that, you can't let yourself fall into depression as well which it already sounds like is happening…. Doesn't mean you guys can't get back together later if that's what you want, but right now, this doesn't sound healthy for either of you.
hmm boundaries, thanks! who are you to be so wise in the ways of the world xD
Ima be real. If you expect a cheap (ish, I'm assuming) keychain to protect someone, you don't have very realistic expectations about self defense/protection.
A decent pocket knife or a can of mace will go above and beyond what is needed. Can just buy a seperate whistle and hook it onto either of those if noise is wanted too.
Totally agree with that. If you know how to avoid drama before it even occurs, it will get you very far in a relationship. I wouldn’t expect my partner to be ok with it if I had a new attractive male friend either!
Why does her wearing jeans make you so uncomfortable?
Haha, if all you want are free gift ideas, then just say, “what are some low cost gift ideas?”. Done. We don't need this huge back story about how you have no money. Of course you are going to be judged by the internet because you come off as clearly not having your sh*t together. You are a financial hot mess.
I am potentially concerned with this behavior, but I don't think for the same reasons as OP.
He's not technically doing anything illegal, but this behavior can absolutely end up harming women in the workplace. If he is promoted to a position of power and isn't comfortable building relationships with his female colleagues and subordinates, they can be shut out of important conversations, mentorship opportunities, and promotions. He may only be avoiding socialization but work relationships do not develop in a vacuum – being biased towards men (for whatever reason – anxiety, religious beliefs, straight up sexism) when it comes to socializing can be actually, significantly detrimental to women in very real professional ways. Men have been striking business deals on the golf course, over lunch and at happy hour forever. When women are left out of those situations, it sets us back professionally.
I'd be annoyed by the current behavior and keep a close eye on it, but probably wouldn't bring it to HR unless he is supervising women and it's clear he is chummier with his male underlings.
Did…did he not know girls shit?
He should report you for harassing him ?
Look, YOU gave CLEAR examples of flirting and now you’re backtracking. I get it, you don’t want to see it. It hurts. You are learning about boundaries in a relationship. Talk to her about how you feel when she acts this way. If she dismisses you, then she’s not serious about a relationship. It’s pretty common at that age. Not that many boys and girls want to be in a serious relationship.
Gaslighting 101 lol
These are all really superficial things that you’re listing. More like you’re looking for a reason to blow things up than a description of a dead relationship.
He doesn’t text you good morning & he didn’t bring you a trinket from his last business trips? So now it’s over? Really?
Did you ever have a meaningful relationship or was it always completely superficial?
Lol fair point
Don't let love blind you. You know what's the most possible and likely reason but don't want to face it. Sorry
This is leaving out a lot of details. Maybe find out why she feels that way and see if there's a way to work through them while both of you are happy.
Dude I won’t have sex with my partner if i don’t shower first because I need to feel clean af lmao I cannot fathom this way of thinking
Dude I won’t have sex with my partner if i don’t shower first because I need to feel clean af lmao I cannot fathom this way of thinking
a de facto gossip club where innocent people's personal lives are affected.
Exactly what it seems like from your description. Cyber bullying and defamation. I'd make very sure “Danielle” knows she's very fortunate to not be facing criminal charges.
Dude I won’t have sex with my partner if i don’t shower first because I need to feel clean af lmao I cannot fathom this way of thinking
If you don't have time ti spend with her than you don't need to be dating anyone.
This is why 27 year olds shouldn’t, BUT DO, date 19 year olds. And vice-versa.
Yeah classic case of your damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
Brutal honesty with her might be the only path forward. Something along the lines of I saw your fetish thing on your computer, you’ve been hiding your phone, you gave a guy who was hitting on you your number… can you please explain.
Lucy needs to dry her eyes and be glad you dodged your possessive, controlling ass.
Girl do you hear yourself? Like if your best friend was telling this exact story to you, what would you say to her?
Literally every post does
get your money back first before dumping her. don’t let her know until after you get the money back.
My 2 cents is don’t do it- most relationships get messy and end after a time, and this is a friendship you’ve had since highschool. Those are MUCH more rare than finding someone to hook up with, so don’t risk it
Just go NC or LC with your sister. I presume you have gone NC with your ex and have blocked him everywhere possible. You can't control your sister if she does not see the damage by her remaining friends with your ex, does to your relationship with her.
Don't allow your ex to further poison your relationship with your sister as he apparently is trying to do. He will keep trying to maintain a relationship with your sister to hurt you indirectly like he is doing now.
Just move on and heal from the toxic relationship you had with him.
Cut all contact, and if you have mutual friends, tell them why first. I’m positive he’s the type that will try to look like the victim and try to make you look like the crazy one.
How often does she mention his name? I’d feel awkward and aware of that if I were here, I’d make sure my partner knows I have no more interest. I’d probably not be as close of a friend with them anymore too, unless I wanted them on the back burner.
I know its not her or your fault that your friend groups are tied, but its a dynamic and a risk. If you want to deal with that long term, then go for it. But I hope you at least talk with her, and let her know how you feel, and see if she can help make you less worried about the situation.
Even if shes been loyal since you got together. She created this scenario but having sex with friend of hers in a relationship. Then getting in a relationship with the best friend of said friend. Did you know about this when you got together?This dynamic isn’t random by the way, its happening because hers and his actions. So I think it makes sense for her to deal with the repercussions.
Personally if I were her and I did that. I’d date someone outside the friend group to avoid this situation. People are jealous creatures, and sometimes they have reason to be. She must know you have these feelings
Communication is key
Communicate that you find the level of contact with her Ex makes you feel insecure in the relationship.
Don’t try to give an ultimatum because that might not go well for you.
Is there literally anything redeeming about her? This “friendship” just sounds exhausting. I think maybe it's time to cut her off. If not, I think your boyfriend needs to be the one to put his foot down here and tell her how uncomfortable she is making him, how her attention and affection is too much, her coming over when he explicitly says no violates his boundaries and is disrespectful. He can be kind but he needs to be firm. It has to come from him, not you. If it comes from you, you will be framed as jealous and insecure. The object of her affection needs to shut her down.
Don’t beat yourself up. I was in your shoes once. 8 years of marriage and 2 kids is what he threw away. I didn’t want to live anymore after that. But that was 3 years ago and I’m happier now than I’ve ever been. I promise time does heal these wounds. Sorry you’re dealing with this.
I told him that I'm not comfortable buying a house before we get married, but now he's expressed buying a house before we're married in 2-3 years and that he would buy a house on his own in 2-3 years even if we weren't married by then.
Basically, since I expressed that I wouldn't buy a house unless we were married and that because there's a potential that we wouldn't be married by that time that he would by the house on his own.
Don’t understand how some women are dumb like this.
I don't think that is correct, defacto couples in Australia have similar rights. This might be different in other parts of the world.
I don't think that is correct, defacto couples in Australia have similar rights. This might be different in other parts of the world.
I don't think that is correct, defacto couples in Australia have similar rights. This might be different in other parts of the world.
You and your fiancée need to be VERY clear and united with BIL, SIL, MIL and FIL that wearing anything that is not part of the dress code will not be tolerated. Doing so will not be funny and it would be extremely disrespectful. If any of them break the dress code then will be refused entry because you will not tolerate the disrespect and mockery of your special day. If they need help getting an outfit that is appropriate you would be willing to help facilitate that.
I just want to say, give your own therapist a few more visits. It may not be what you want to hear, but what you need to hear.
((HUGS)) You are making the positive move to get the help you need, and that will help you in the long run, it doesn't happen overnight. Hang in there!
I’ll try and find the right time to sit her down, she’s still giving me the silent treatment and has her headsets on as I speak
Too much porn
honestly i wouldn’t be surprised if he agrees to not wear it, only to be let in and do something much more embarrassing.
I really do love her. I'm not that smart either. I'm average. just sharing my feelings.
I really do love her. I'm not that smart either. I'm average. just sharing my feelings.
I really do love her. I'm not that smart either. I'm average. just sharing my feelings.
So… Your wife is the bully then?
The general consensus is that two people with highly different sex drives won't fit very well together. And yes for a lot of people the sex is a very important part of a relationship.
But I don't know what to suggest what you should do. If your sex drive is low in general you should be open about it from the beginning – some people are ok with it, some are not. If it's not a general thing but something you experience only with specific people maybe find someone that gets you in the mood.
Also, that might sound silly, but there are sexual therapists out there for a reason. Maybe you could consult one of them and see if there is anything healthy you can do to get your sex drive going.
But in general: There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to find the right partner.
he acknowledged that foreplay is truly supposed to be longer
Okay.. so you and he have made progress.
And his comment: “he would not enter me until I was fully ready because “he knows I take time to get wet and that okay”
That sounds good, too.
What exactly is the problem here? Your own overthinking? No shade there – I've got the same problem, and identifying it when it pops up helps.
The general consensus is that two people with highly different sex drives won't fit very well together. And yes for a lot of people the sex is a very important part of a relationship.
But I don't know what to suggest what you should do. If your sex drive is low in general you should be open about it from the beginning – some people are ok with it, some are not. If it's not a general thing but something you experience only with specific people maybe find someone that gets you in the mood.
Also, that might sound silly, but there are sexual therapists out there for a reason. Maybe you could consult one of them and see if there is anything healthy you can do to get your sex drive going.
But in general: There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to find the right partner.
Definitely sounds suspicious, but instead of thinking of him cheating, understand how he's making you feel: neglected and unloved.
You're very young. Spend your time with someone who wants you and figure out what you need to feel happy. Don't put your eggs in one basket, but be selective and know what you're about.
I'm going to guess she didn't have a good father figure.
Just get a lawyer and discuss options. He's not going to change.
“For months now, he will say that he wants oral and I'll say that I'd like to have sex. He'll make the agreement that if I give it to him now, then we'll do it later in the day.”
“No, if you're not in the mood now then we can both wait until later. Our sex life is decidedly one sided and you consistently break your promises of “later”. You always get what you want while I get nothing at all. That no longer works for me.”
Girl, what are you doing? Dump his ass. No question. You're dating an almost 50 year old bum. Get into therapy and explore why you were drawn to this relationship in the first place. I implore you to please work on your self-esteem because you deserve so much more.
I wish i had an award to give u. Please take my poor medal ?
All of this. Jesus my husband has depression and I'm bipolar. Sometimes i can't get out of bed..
Bt I've never made my issues my husbands. I get not being able to clean right away when ur not okay bt for rotten food and beer cans and dirty dishes to be piled up for daaaaaaays and him expecting her to do something about it or just stfu and stop nagging him is ridiculous.
I've never shushed him, hes never silenced me for saying something I'm unhappy with and lord id never want my partner to feel like a caregiver!
A relationship is give and take not fucking take and take and take some more.
It’s like getting mad at you that you broke a bone
If you lost your virginity just as voluntarily as most people break their bones, I'm sorry for you
So first you only have her word that her ex was okay with her joining the spicier side of reddit.
Then there’s the fact that her relationship ended months after she said she had feelings for you, so even if her ex was okay with it, she should have ended the relationship as soon as she got feelings for you (or anyone else) – this is cheating even if the rest of it wasn’t.
She doesn’t seem to care about anything but her own carnal pleasure, and as you say she is in another country and you will never know if she is already cheating on you or not.
And you already have trust issues, they don’t happen without reason, even if it’s subconsciously, you have noticed something isn’t 100% right.
I've been in this situation, and lost that battle. My oldest (now 19 years old) doesn't have my last name.
Focus on building a healthy (non-toxic) relationship with your child.
Thanks, she bought a condo. So you think I should get a separate place?
Perfect reddit advice :”oh you're being slowly isolated by a toxic person from your past? Have you tried isolating yourself instead?” this is peak horrible advice
Bro, leave. She’s way too immature and doesn’t really have feelings for you and you’ve got hella anxiety and trust issues. Tbh neither of you should be in a relationship much less with eachother
If she ain’t loyal during the talking stage then she ain’t the one. If she was upfront about it then that’s a different story but why be with someone that didn’t take you as serious during the “dating stage”
Dude. A vasectomy is an outpatient procedure. A tubal ligation is an invasive surgery!
Not only is he a misogynist, according to op’s other posts, he’s an emotionally and verbally abusive alcoholic who does 0% of the parenting.
It’s time for op to face reality and protect her daughter.
Explain.
Your first mistake was falling in “love” with this creep
Yeah…my partner and I don’t really use our real names unless someone is “in trouble”. And by that I mean responding to a ridiculous comment with an eye roll and a name.
Else it’s mostly, “hey babe, can you come here and help me?” “Hey my love, have a great day” and so forth.
That's like saying; “he only slept with her once.”
Your boi is a creep. He basically sexually assaulted a stranger.
She's for sure lying about that part
Not only videos you check to delete won't show up in recent, she would just have deleted it
my parents made me do stuff and it doesn't really feel like i was prepared for adulthood either
How scary.
It’s clear he was not mentally well. This reminds me of a guy I met TWICE who then started texting me all these commands (“stop smoking weed! It’s bad for you!”) and when I told him to F off it got into (“you know me! I am a good man! I’m protecting you!”) territory. Turns out he had a literal complex where he thought he was Jesus resurrected and was having an episode. Thankfully he had no idea where I lived as we only met at a couple cafes.
While you can’t live in fear, I do hope that you beef up your home security system a little bit more. I don’t want to alarm anyone but it is still possible he could show up again. But also that he won’t! Either way, best to be safe!
Best to you and your boo!
“She'll always be known as the girl who didn't go to Paris.”
GO ON THE TRIP.
If my partner spat in my face purposefully I'd tell them to get the fck out of my house and take their crap with them. We'd be done instantly.
This sounds like she's tired of you making her do things you should be doing for yourself. The straw that broke the camels back. On its own no big deal but amassed with a history of laziness and or incompetence totally understandable
Seems pretty simple, own up and tell them its yours. It seems your sister knows about your sexuality and has kept that secret for you despite you letting her take the fall and be punished for your actions. Your sister is a much better person than you.
I have a real problem with her when she drinks alcohol. Alcohol and her do not mix well. I never feel embarrassed of her at all until she is drunk and becomes a very loud and obnoxious person towards me.
I don’t think our views are too far apart to be honest.
I think in my head I’ve made her actions involving alcohol almost a dealbreaker to me and it’s made me resent her because of her intoxicated actions.
As a sober person she is everything I want in a partner but sober being the keyword. I don’t know if I should be willing to give up on a long term relationship which brings me so much joy just because of drunk actions.
I guess now I’m viewing drunk her as a different personality and telling myself maybe I can convince her to lay off alcohol in social settings
I have a real problem with her when she drinks alcohol. Alcohol and her do not mix well. I never feel embarrassed of her at all until she is drunk and becomes a very loud and obnoxious person towards me.
I don’t think our views are too far apart to be honest.
I think in my head I’ve made her actions involving alcohol almost a dealbreaker to me and it’s made me resent her because of her intoxicated actions.
As a sober person she is everything I want in a partner but sober being the keyword. I don’t know if I should be willing to give up on a long term relationship which brings me so much joy just because of drunk actions.
I guess now I’m viewing drunk her as a different personality and telling myself maybe I can convince her to lay off alcohol in social settings
I have a real problem with her when she drinks alcohol. Alcohol and her do not mix well. I never feel embarrassed of her at all until she is drunk and becomes a very loud and obnoxious person towards me.
I don’t think our views are too far apart to be honest.
I think in my head I’ve made her actions involving alcohol almost a dealbreaker to me and it’s made me resent her because of her intoxicated actions.
As a sober person she is everything I want in a partner but sober being the keyword. I don’t know if I should be willing to give up on a long term relationship which brings me so much joy just because of drunk actions.
I guess now I’m viewing drunk her as a different personality and telling myself maybe I can convince her to lay off alcohol in social settings
Don’t put your cup down at his house.
I will say this however: I defended her the first time because some of the comments he made he was genuinely wrong on. I can’t go into specifics but he would tell me about situations where he was being an AH to her and she didn’t accept that, and would insult her for speaking to him or speaking up about it. A lot of the behaviors were things I could see being an issue between us too, and didn’t want him to think that I would be okay if he behaved the same way with me. They weren’t huge things, but boundaries for me and we have spoken about this and he has been open to feedback. He did tell me that defending her made him uncomfortable, which is when I realized that maybe it wasn’t the best decision on my part.
But that's the thing there is love in the relationship like I feel loved by him and him by me. I just need him to look deep down to see why he's not ready and to help him open up more to me.
??♀️ sis what!!!!! Cook vegetarian PERIOD. If he wants meat he can figure that out fir himself.
P.S. if you keep treating him like an incompetent child he will keep acting like one. GL
I feel like it’s a rare find honestly! Hope everything works out well for you two 🙂
Okay. I was making a joke. The boy thinks that a hangnail is ambulance worthy. Thus why i said a very common prescription pain killer.