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BJ
Date: October 22, 2022
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If somebody gets mad at you for something that happened to you against your will, they are absolute pieces of utter garbage. You don't want to be with a person like that.
Yeah. I don't know why his two options are to stay or leave. There's always a 3rd option to do couples therapy.
I keep thinking maybe it’s google… you see we also have a Furbo camera for our animals in the house and I work from home and only leave the house to workout or go shopping so it’s not like he could have ever brought her over
Yeah, I’m getting the possessive wife vibe as well. That doesn’t improve with marriage you know.
I don't even know what I would do if I found out he did cheat, I just want to know the truth. I still think he wouldn't tell me if he did, though, even this many years later.
You have yourself a hobosexual, with luggage.
It’s not the child’s fault. You also don’t have to be the babysitter. If you don’t want to be the childcare, and he isn’t listening-make plans for a long weekend. Don’t be home when she will be there. I’m sure if he needed to switch it around for himself he would do that…how long have you all lived together? Did you all move in together really quickly?
Important rule that I really wish I'd learned sooner:
Whenever you date someone, and all their exes have the same complaint about them?
You're going to end up having that complaint too.
Up to you whether you're able to live with her clinginess or not, but I guarantee you you're not the first person to try to change it. Don't hold your breath.
He wants no one finding out the “real” him, and no witnesses to his wrongdoings.
You should always have a good friend to confide in or get advise from.
Time…”perfect husband” until the mask comes off.
Yup! Sorry you can't run from the problems you caused 🙂
Now hold on. Hold on hold on. Now it’s he doesn’t make dinner, you aren’t really being transparent and the target keeps moving. Does he do at least 50% of the household chores? Yes or no? Does he clean up after himself or does he leave messes and the house is a mess when you get home because of him? When you say handle finances is that saying you pay the bills with all your money or that you simply facilitate paying the bills by writing checks or transferring funds? What I took from that comment was that he doesn’t do your laundry and you go grocery shopping. That doesn’t seem unreasonable. You made the choices about what you wanted to do in life and it’s a big commitment mentally and logistically. Your accomplishments belong to you and you alone. No one will be able to take those things from you, and that’s awesome. But don’t start taking your stress out on him. Trust me, I get it. I worked full time while finishing undergrad and grad school WITH a kid. I was busting my ass from literally sun up until late into the night M-F and catching up on the weekends FOR YEARS. I’ll tell you, my relationship at that time sucked for a multitude of other reasons, but I was damn miserable partially because I was burning MYSELF out with my own ambitions. I have to take ownership of my own choices and actions, just like you. I went on to work myself like a dog for a few years at a company that paid well and was growing rapidly. It was enticing to keep trying to climb the ladder there, but I realized I was angry and miserable literally 90%+ of the time. I made a choice. I was always chasing something thinking I’d enjoy it later. Later I always had a bigger goal. It was a never ending cycle. I actually found a job with amazing work life balance that pays even better and encourages you to put your family first. Point being, you need to decide if your goals are making you miserable or if it’s the relationship or if it’s both. But a healthy dose of self-reflection would be very beneficial (in my opinion). Trust me, I get what you’re saying by trying to better yourself and coming from very little or at least coming from a less privileged life than your partner. I also get that being an attorney comes with a big time commitment in school and at the start of one’s career. I’m married to one. But I also admire my husbands ability to desire success professionally, but place the most value on being present with our family. You’ve just got to decide the reasons you’re pushing yourself and if it’s worth this feeling of being totally overwhelmed…
Do you have a link to the video. Asking for a friend…
This made me laugh because it depicted how we all feel as a collective reading this creepy shit.
You need a cat not a boyfriend.
I’ve made a schedule of stuff to do with her, I’ll add to it and hopefully that’ll help ?
So his retirement plans have been foiled by her ketchup consumption? Really?! I guess you hear about something new every day.
Lol imagine telling a victim “that sucks should've dated longer.”
Now do abuse victims.
Given that you only requested to follow her yesterday and she hasn’t accepted yet so you’re already confused, I’m actually more worried about what you’re showing here than her in terms of insecurities.
She might do very specific things on Instagram regularly, but she might not check her follow requests regularly.
You already broke his heart and he is very likely to hate you (or at least think much less of you). You aren’t a child. You made a choice to cheat. The only question now is whether you take some accountability for your actions or not. And clearly you don’t love Zack, if you did you wouldn’t have cheated on him. What you hate is that you are now the bad guy. Nothing you can do about that except grow and try not to be cruel to people you claim to love in the future.
That's NOT normal . At all!
This is well above Reddits paygrade. Please see a professional.
Going out with her friends is different than staying out with friends when she went out with you.
Oh, that is a great information to have. Then it's not towards you and it's not to put you down. I thought about it that way at first! So many comments are probably in the same way!