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Lets have a naughty slumber party, fuck hard while the others rest, ♥// At goal: FULL NAKED DOGGY @goal 2 RUB CLIT @goal 3 FINGERING MY PUSSY SO BAD @goal 4 RIDE DILDO @goal 5 SQUIRT IN ALL UR FACE // [208 tokens remaining]
Date: November 23, 2022
You are dating a 45 year old that happens.
If it's a great work opportunity, you should go, and she decides if she ever decide to break up with you or not.
Talk to her about her insecurities and that you will be back. If you decide to move for good, then you need to break up with her, she doesn't want to move, and that's ok.
You don’t fix the relationship. You wasted a year trying to make it work. You have finally started fixing your life by getting rid of the dead weight. Why did you waste all this energy on him? Make sure to swop any important belongings left at each other‘s places asap and move on. Next time, if you notice the guy you’re seeing is disrespectful and not putting in any effort, move on. Don’t do this to yourself!
She did try to tell you you weren’t listening!
I think it’s been going on for years. I’ve caught exact details from years ago that I chose to ignore at that point. But now I just can’t take it anymore. I can’t share his mental space with someone else.
any update hun? how are you holding up?
First girl he isn't your husband he was your husband so he is your ex husband.
Second a those feelings will come up you have been together 30some percent of your life and all your adult life.
Third, you can get a good vibrator and that will do the trick with getting off.
Not true at all. Have you never heard of propaganda? The media you consume absolutely CAN affect your worldview, that’s why governments invest in it. Not saying that just because you watch something you inherently agree with it but there’s definitely more nuance to it than to simply claim that fiction is completely separate to real life and never influences it.
Okay but the mental image of the comment you're replying to is entertainment enough
I think that your post shows that you are kind of naive, which is why a man 15 years older than you chose you in the first place.
The other side of this is she is good at it because HER OWN ACTIONS ARE EXACTLY WHAT MAKE IT A REALITY.
If you think you’re partner is unenthused, I can’t think of a better way to guarantee it than to walk up and immediately lose it with them, then speak over them.
She probably thought “I’m right again about him, He needs to put in more here”
Obviously I hope he helps shift this very weird thought process. I hope it gets better if he gets vulnerable and communicates how he feels focusing on that.
I just hope she’s in touch with reality enough to be able to.
If she doesn’t and I’m him, I probably don’t want to deal with the hassle of a divorce at 53. Especially if I had kids or would have to wreck the financials.
Instead I’m gonna relieve my early 20’s. I’m choosing hobbies that get me out of the house. Instead of VB or Football, I join a bowling league.
Maybe I get a dog and pick up hiking and photography. Kayaking and fly fishing.
I just know that if he hits a point where he can’t be happy but it’s not worth the divorce, I’m creating my own independence and happiness.
If her being right about her gift let’s her justify being an asshole. I’m just not participating, finding things that make me happy and letting her reach a point she starts asks questions because you’ve ruined the reality where she has the control of being right.
A hug I didn’t know I needed today. Thank you ❤️
You sound like a huge loser
fr, everyone applauding her and patting her on the back like she did something responsible
Yes. We do.
Grow up! Whine whine whine. Do her, your child and yourself a favor. Get out of this relationship. Go together and find an attorney, draw up a fair child support arrangement. Give her sole custody and then live up to your arrangement. Move on and good luck finding a woman that will put up with your narcissistic self.
What makes you think she's trying to deceive this sub? Everyone leaves things out—there's no room to include a novel–but that's different from trying to deceive. I was wondering something else. Is “forbidding” her to have dogs in the bedroom a one-time thing, or is her boyfriend a guy who thinks a man can forbid his significant other to make her own decisions, rather than discussing things as equals?
I'm sorry for your loss
There are few black and white areas when it comes to relationships, but an agreement on whether you want kids or not is essential. Otherwise one party either ends up resentful at not having children, or the other ends up with a child they didn't want.
This conversation should not be happening now. It should have happened 8 years ago.
There's no easy answer now, but at 37, he's understandably thinking that he is already going to be quite an old dad and he needs to get a move on. If you really don't want children then you may need to break up before he ends up resenting you.
If you are in the states, joint custody is a thing.
Considering it’s NOT one of those weird anime pillows this is odd. I have a body pillow because I’m a side sleeper and it’s more comfortable. Partner’s never said boo about it.
Has OP never had a male coworker in her life before ? Is it really that simple ?
Seems like she has sexual trauma or unhealthy relationship with sex
Sadly, it is common. Happened to one of my friends and multiple acquaintances.
You're not alone in being betrayed in this way man. Some people just are not good human beings, your ex being a prime example.
The important part is that you did nothing wrong, nothing to deserve this and there's nothing you could have done to prevent it.
None of this is healthy. Postpone the wedding because you will be miserable if you start a marriage like you currently are.
You have tons of unresolved trauma which is why a song is triggering for you.
Your fiancé feels completely left in the dark because you won’t talk to her about said trauma. And is now trying to put a happier meaning to something horribly traumatic and doesn’t understand what is going on because you haven’t processed or confided in her.
This isn’t about a song.
This is about you not processing your grief and your trauma from a very difficult time in your life and it is now poisoning your future.
Talk to a therapist, talk to your SO, just talk about that time and that pain and process it. Stop trying to bury that suffering young man because he needs to come out and heal or you will never have a future.
If you just cover over a wound and never clean it, an infection will form. And that infection will eventually kill you. Your trauma is that wound and you have to open it up and flush it out and let it heal.
You have to change the way you look at things and the things you look at change. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Give yourself some slack you have a lot on your plate and is causing you distress. The thing about alcohol it’s a depressant I know your busy numbing your negative feelings but the same time your doing that your also numbing your positive ones, which can cause us to lash out…
You sound very caring. We can get lost in our loved ones and forget about ourselves we are so busy making everyone else happy that we forget about our own happiness. We put our dreams on hold to help other peoples dream come true. It’s time to focus on you…
You are on a journey of healing and healing isn’t always linear far from it. Remember it’s a process and not an event and everybody’s journey is different. Refocus your time and energy and start investing in yourself. It will be the best investment you ever make!
Do you want to die? Staying with him is a death wish. He threatened to kill you and for what ever reason you think he should just apologize and that is it! You are playing with fire. Molly your in danger girl! Please contact the domestic violence hotline and get some help!
Oof, self-esteem issues on top.
He seems to quite lost with himself and his feelings. If you have the energy, you can try giving that reassuring he needs.
How did you find out?
No offense but it sounds like you like basic agency and are refusing to make your own decisions to create the life you want. You are in this situation due to a series of bad choices, mostly around refusing to admit what you want and stating it.
You are wasting this man's time. You are wasting your time. When are you going to just say 'I don't want this' and move out?
Guys stop eating this shit up likes it’s a real post. You’re all being trolled. Forgetting the post itself, look at OP’s responses and stop wasting your energy on this BS.
Just break up with her now. You clearly don't trust each other, and it's just not working out.
Why did your husband say that about the coworker and why did the coworker go along with it?