Yes. The wife is a child and in no way responsible for her actions. Same if a man is seduced by another woman, he holds no responsibility for his actions. None of us can say no to anyone asking us to get naked /s. Way to infantilise women
Dude what? If you want to salvage this, sit her down while she's not playing the game and discuss some actual boundaries with her. Ask all the questions you need, like if she's getting off on this stuff or what. Decide beforehand what you consider to be a deal breaker. Tbh this would be hard to wrap my head around personally. If you're not too invested I'd say just dip
I'm so confused why marriage is such a big deal to people, it changes absolutely nothing about the relationship. It doesn't suddenly make you exclusive, it doesn't prevent cheating/betrayal, it doesn't suddenly make you happier in the relationship. It is just a label and some small changes to your taxes/finances. It is so weird that a religious tradition needs to be the final step in a relationship.
Don’t talk to his parents before you leave!
Yes. The wife is a child and in no way responsible for her actions. Same if a man is seduced by another woman, he holds no responsibility for his actions. None of us can say no to anyone asking us to get naked /s. Way to infantilise women
Dude what? If you want to salvage this, sit her down while she's not playing the game and discuss some actual boundaries with her. Ask all the questions you need, like if she's getting off on this stuff or what. Decide beforehand what you consider to be a deal breaker. Tbh this would be hard to wrap my head around personally. If you're not too invested I'd say just dip
Put things into perspective; you’ve forgiven her, but she’s not even sorry.
What happens the next time you fight or do something that upsets her?
I'm so confused why marriage is such a big deal to people, it changes absolutely nothing about the relationship. It doesn't suddenly make you exclusive, it doesn't prevent cheating/betrayal, it doesn't suddenly make you happier in the relationship. It is just a label and some small changes to your taxes/finances. It is so weird that a religious tradition needs to be the final step in a relationship.
Can't you just love someone?