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Date: September 26, 2022
If you look at the age gap, I can see why he’s insecure lol
As someone who is pansexual, this situation would be a nightmare. Sooo I can't hang out with anyone alone then???
This topic is more about boundaries than anything. Does your girlfriend avoid conflict a lot? Does she speak up when something is going wrong? Has there been cheating in her family before?
This is certainly an extreme view point. Very primal urges-y. But as another commenter has mentioned, you're both kind of right.
I think you can do both things here. Be understanding and frustrated. If she's telling you this is a hard boundary for her, aka she doesn't want you hanging around ANY woman alone, no exceptions.. you need to take a long pause to think if this is what you want the rest of your life to look like. You're young and this is something she may never change her mind on. And she's well within her right to uphold it.
My partner and I operate person by person. I'm an extrovert, he isn't, so I tend to interact with many more people than he does. I tell him about all my interactions with people (because I love telling him about my day) and he lets me know if he gets a bad vibe from someone based on my recount. If he does, we talk it out and I establish a boundary with that person if needed, or cut them out completely. I'm fairly good at sussing out the bad eggs who don't respect my relationship but that takes time. He also trusts me to put someone in their place and remove myself from the situation.
Regardless, you two need to talk about this further. Maybe even under the guidance of a third party, like a therapist. They would be able to help you both articulate your feelings and guide solutions if you're both willing.
I hope you two find some middle ground soon and a solution moving forward. Good luck, OP!
Oh, I am sorry. I didn’t even know that. But as I said in my other comment: your mum clearly showed that she doesn’t want her secret to get out. You don’t really need more proof, unless you want to blow up the family right now.