Just be honest with your kids and tell them, the sooner you tell them the better, they will need lots of support so explain to your family what happened and how it may effect the kids.
yeah a little bit of man flu 🙂 I think it triggers me double because my mother was very hypochondric my whole childhood and unaware of it. So it was a lot of birthdays or other events where she suddenly wouldn't feel good because she was feeling overwhelmed a lot and suddenly everything was about her again. As and adult I know this is a bit over the top. Of course he doesn't want everything to be about him when I am not well but I guess deep down this reminds me on how I had to be strong for my mother a lot of times instead of being cared for by her.
I get where you're coming from, but the bf is not the person to complain to about this, or to expect sympathy from for this. She can complain to her friends or family.
Yeah, for sure. I'm not opposed to a little flirting in principal. What she did crossed a line, but perhaps not the worst line. Problem is, who knows what line it crossed without the conversation for reference.
No need to indulge me but I'm guessing it's belly button or nipple related. Either way, it shows your bf doesn't realize just bc he prefers something, doesn't mean he not attracted to the other.
This righf here. You can do so much better hun. Honestly my husband has never ever said anything like this to me in the more than a decade we've been together. That's not how people who love each other speaks.
What is the need for him to be overly critical of you? Is this a inspection? Are u a product? Or a tool that needs reviewing and feedback?
This man is actively putting you down. So much so you broke up already because of it.
AND NOTHING CHANGED!
HE IS DOING IT AGAIN!
You are gonna get very bitter and have your self esteem hit the depths of hell because of this man. And you will lose yourself and your self worth and just be incredibly miserable.
What kind of marriage is this even gonna be? Him telling you to lose weight? And if you get pregnant you are gonna have him hoarding more negative comments over you. The man makes rude comments about your alopecia for christ sake. ?
Please have an ounce of self respect for yourself and realize there are more men in the world than this asshole.
Don't set yourself up for a miserable marriage with someone that's a fucking adult and needs to be told in therapy that it's not good to be set asshole.
There are men out there that will love you as you are… this man isn't one of them!
Just be honest with your kids and tell them, the sooner you tell them the better, they will need lots of support so explain to your family what happened and how it may effect the kids.
Why does she have to know your medical information? I'm confused.
yeah a little bit of man flu 🙂 I think it triggers me double because my mother was very hypochondric my whole childhood and unaware of it. So it was a lot of birthdays or other events where she suddenly wouldn't feel good because she was feeling overwhelmed a lot and suddenly everything was about her again. As and adult I know this is a bit over the top. Of course he doesn't want everything to be about him when I am not well but I guess deep down this reminds me on how I had to be strong for my mother a lot of times instead of being cared for by her.
I get where you're coming from, but the bf is not the person to complain to about this, or to expect sympathy from for this. She can complain to her friends or family.
Yeah, for sure. I'm not opposed to a little flirting in principal. What she did crossed a line, but perhaps not the worst line. Problem is, who knows what line it crossed without the conversation for reference.
I’m assuming, he’s assuming lol
should i break up?
People make mistakes. That's a fact of life.
Unless your girlfriend has a history of catastrophic mistakes, just forgive her for being human. Perhaps give her some basic home safety tips.
No need to indulge me but I'm guessing it's belly button or nipple related. Either way, it shows your bf doesn't realize just bc he prefers something, doesn't mean he not attracted to the other.
This righf here. You can do so much better hun. Honestly my husband has never ever said anything like this to me in the more than a decade we've been together. That's not how people who love each other speaks.
What is the need for him to be overly critical of you? Is this a inspection? Are u a product? Or a tool that needs reviewing and feedback?
This man is actively putting you down. So much so you broke up already because of it.
AND NOTHING CHANGED!
HE IS DOING IT AGAIN!
You are gonna get very bitter and have your self esteem hit the depths of hell because of this man. And you will lose yourself and your self worth and just be incredibly miserable.
What kind of marriage is this even gonna be? Him telling you to lose weight? And if you get pregnant you are gonna have him hoarding more negative comments over you. The man makes rude comments about your alopecia for christ sake. ?
Please have an ounce of self respect for yourself and realize there are more men in the world than this asshole.
Don't set yourself up for a miserable marriage with someone that's a fucking adult and needs to be told in therapy that it's not good to be set asshole.
There are men out there that will love you as you are… this man isn't one of them!