No, you don’t. You know what he’s telling you. And he’s hardly going to admit all his bad behaviour traits over messages. You have children, you can’t act like a teenager in love. Be hopeful all you want but at least try to open your eyes and be realistic.
How many times do you need to feel excluded before you give up this :friendship”? Find new friends who enjoy your company and want to spend time with you.
The only way to have the conversation is to have the conversation. If things are going along well with the two of you now, the best way for you to get her to open up is to be honest and to simply communicate with each other. Take her out or get food, whatever your routine date is, and just talk to her about this. Don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings in a calm and rational way, because most women actually appreciate it when men do that, and don’t overthink it, and you should be fine.
overheard on the street *
Person X: ya know Person A & Person B have a really shitty relationship.
Person Y: yeah and its gone on for 10 years.
Person X: yeah, who knew you could shovel shit that long.
Are you just a FWB? He is not acting like a boyfriend at all.
Break up time
No, you don’t. You know what he’s telling you. And he’s hardly going to admit all his bad behaviour traits over messages. You have children, you can’t act like a teenager in love. Be hopeful all you want but at least try to open your eyes and be realistic.
I will try that, thanks for your kind answer 🙂
Sometimes redditors can't see the most evident things.
If I take the pain to fight with my man over something that upsets me, than it sure must hold an importance to me.
Otherwise I would sit it out or ignore it.
Do you have any names for those apps? Concerned my ex maybe doing exactly that with my phone and need to check. ?
See a doctor for stage fright. It's very common. They have a pill for it.
My dude you are a stage 5 clinger and not remotely ready to be in a relationship with anyone until you get serious help for your anxiety.
How many times do you need to feel excluded before you give up this :friendship”? Find new friends who enjoy your company and want to spend time with you.
The only way to have the conversation is to have the conversation. If things are going along well with the two of you now, the best way for you to get her to open up is to be honest and to simply communicate with each other. Take her out or get food, whatever your routine date is, and just talk to her about this. Don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings in a calm and rational way, because most women actually appreciate it when men do that, and don’t overthink it, and you should be fine.
You’re both happy, right? Who cares if somebody else thinks it’s weird?