It wouldn’t be a problem in a secure relationship where desire is alive for each other. It is a problem in a relationship where one person is using their partner to get themselves off vs having a shared experience. And it definitely is a problem when it happens routinely. Your comments don’t are so generalized and don’t reflect the context of the situation or the nuances of OP’s relationship.
Thanks for your feedback my man, I’m having a hard time grasping the idea of manipulation because she seems to genuinely be falling apart over this. Could there be another explanation?
When you marry someone your first loyalty is to that person, and their first loyalty is to you. Period. If you break that oath, do not expect your partner to keep theirs. If you cannot guarantee that then you should not marry.
I wouldn't even call. Seriously, it is 2 days a month. This guy needs to get a grip.
He has a codependency issue – stop feeding it. He needs to learn how to enjoy his own time to himself.
If my wife wanted to get away for a weekend every month… I'd love that and take the kid to give her the chance. I might want it for myself too. Seems totally healthy and reasonable to me.
What a dick lol. Leave his ungrateful ass
It wouldn’t be a problem in a secure relationship where desire is alive for each other. It is a problem in a relationship where one person is using their partner to get themselves off vs having a shared experience. And it definitely is a problem when it happens routinely. Your comments don’t are so generalized and don’t reflect the context of the situation or the nuances of OP’s relationship.
I think he thinks that I don't like one of the girls he was going out with, which I've told him it's not true
Thanks for your feedback my man, I’m having a hard time grasping the idea of manipulation because she seems to genuinely be falling apart over this. Could there be another explanation?
When you marry someone your first loyalty is to that person, and their first loyalty is to you. Period. If you break that oath, do not expect your partner to keep theirs. If you cannot guarantee that then you should not marry.
I wouldn't even call. Seriously, it is 2 days a month. This guy needs to get a grip.
He has a codependency issue – stop feeding it. He needs to learn how to enjoy his own time to himself.
If my wife wanted to get away for a weekend every month… I'd love that and take the kid to give her the chance. I might want it for myself too. Seems totally healthy and reasonable to me.
One date?
Seek professional therapym