Even if your clock is ticking, having kids with someone like this sounds like a nightmare. So much has to be planned for with children and it sounds like he will not be willing to do that if he’s acted this way with you for years. Also, what else could he be lying about? I’m so sorry this happened to you but I would get out
it happens and is valid short term. Gender disappointment is a thing. There's a life you picture with your little one and gender plays into that. If it's been more than a week and he's still struggling, then therapy and getting to the root of why needs to be addressed. And all feelings need to be settled long before baby comes and support for you should never waver
He's not who you think he is. Lesson: don't waste time chatting. Generally, people who are serious or not lying dont waste time. Why? Because they are serious.
Lesson: they meet at least for coffee within the first week.
Too many wonderful people looking for love to waste time with a pen pal.
The smile you just gave me was award enough
Even if your clock is ticking, having kids with someone like this sounds like a nightmare. So much has to be planned for with children and it sounds like he will not be willing to do that if he’s acted this way with you for years. Also, what else could he be lying about? I’m so sorry this happened to you but I would get out
This^
it happens and is valid short term. Gender disappointment is a thing. There's a life you picture with your little one and gender plays into that. If it's been more than a week and he's still struggling, then therapy and getting to the root of why needs to be addressed. And all feelings need to be settled long before baby comes and support for you should never waver
So, just stop drinking from a glass when they make comments. Take long swiss directly from the bottle while making aggressive eye contact with them.
or a rotating chair and a white bunny
He's not who you think he is. Lesson: don't waste time chatting. Generally, people who are serious or not lying dont waste time. Why? Because they are serious.
Lesson: they meet at least for coffee within the first week.
Too many wonderful people looking for love to waste time with a pen pal.
What the fck is happening