I had an ex friend and she dated this guy for 7 years, she never once had sex with him. Which at first i thought was sweet since I thought they were going to wait. Until I realized she said she wasn’t attracted to him and felt they were not compatible…one day I found her cheating on him with some other guy. I did tell him but i dont know if he believed me. Eventually, our whole friend group found out she cheated on him again with the same guy…hes still with her for some reason. Some people stay with someone for the sake of not being alone, and use people to fill that void. Take away your time. Dont let this girl affect you, you will find someone who will not make excuses and not tell you they dont find you physically attractive for one!
It’s not just the ILY that’s too fast. It’s the sleep together every night, meet his family, don’t get unstuck, upload photos, talk about everything, etc. You sound like you’re gonna keep doing what you’re doing tho so I’ll refrain from offering advice and just stick to answering your original question. It is all too fast, and the faster and more intense you start, the harder the crash. Food for thought.
Well, he's definitely stealing from you as you are married and that money is also yours. Get a PI and then get the meanest lawyer you can find if it's anything.
With some people you just can tell. They show no interest in somebody unless they notice that it's a person they can't have, and starts to shower them with affection. This sounds like a similar case of hard insecurities on the “friends” part
I could give you several tips. But your boyfriend doesn't deserve it. Seriously. He seems to want it so badly that I doubt he would go slowly, be patient, take his time, and stop if you told him to. This seems like a recipe for a disaster. No is a complete sentence.
GF going out for dinner with a work friend –not a problem. GF going out for dinner to discuss work friends problems about his GF — a problem.
This isn't a trust issue, because, if your GF isn't a cheater, she'll shut down anything that harms or disrespects your relationship with her.
The issue is that she seems unaware of how discussing her friend's relationship problems probably disrespects HIS GF, in terms of what should intimate/private between a couple, ultimately to the detriment of the very friend she imagines she'd be helping.
If he's looking for solutions, maybe he should be seeking them WITH his GF. If he's looking for sympathy, a fellow dude might understand better.
It's quite possible he has a crush on your GF, and is testing the waters, but you should be able to trust your GF to shut him down, if so.
I had an ex friend and she dated this guy for 7 years, she never once had sex with him. Which at first i thought was sweet since I thought they were going to wait. Until I realized she said she wasn’t attracted to him and felt they were not compatible…one day I found her cheating on him with some other guy. I did tell him but i dont know if he believed me. Eventually, our whole friend group found out she cheated on him again with the same guy…hes still with her for some reason. Some people stay with someone for the sake of not being alone, and use people to fill that void. Take away your time. Dont let this girl affect you, you will find someone who will not make excuses and not tell you they dont find you physically attractive for one!
She's gaslighting u build a case to get custody of your kid then file for divorce do not let on anything is wrong at all till you serve her papers
Progress is progress. Even if it’s small.
When you call it off is when the effort you put in, does not yield any results.
You're right, I do need to grow up. Part of growing up might be accepting that I shit the bed on this one.
Thanks for your input 🙂
It’s not just the ILY that’s too fast. It’s the sleep together every night, meet his family, don’t get unstuck, upload photos, talk about everything, etc. You sound like you’re gonna keep doing what you’re doing tho so I’ll refrain from offering advice and just stick to answering your original question. It is all too fast, and the faster and more intense you start, the harder the crash. Food for thought.
I will ask her that, thank you
Well, he's definitely stealing from you as you are married and that money is also yours. Get a PI and then get the meanest lawyer you can find if it's anything.
With some people you just can tell. They show no interest in somebody unless they notice that it's a person they can't have, and starts to shower them with affection. This sounds like a similar case of hard insecurities on the “friends” part
I could give you several tips. But your boyfriend doesn't deserve it. Seriously. He seems to want it so badly that I doubt he would go slowly, be patient, take his time, and stop if you told him to. This seems like a recipe for a disaster. No is a complete sentence.
GF going out for dinner with a work friend –not a problem. GF going out for dinner to discuss work friends problems about his GF — a problem.
This isn't a trust issue, because, if your GF isn't a cheater, she'll shut down anything that harms or disrespects your relationship with her.
The issue is that she seems unaware of how discussing her friend's relationship problems probably disrespects HIS GF, in terms of what should intimate/private between a couple, ultimately to the detriment of the very friend she imagines she'd be helping.
If he's looking for solutions, maybe he should be seeking them WITH his GF. If he's looking for sympathy, a fellow dude might understand better.
It's quite possible he has a crush on your GF, and is testing the waters, but you should be able to trust your GF to shut him down, if so.