To answer your question; no, telling her will be confronting and painful. But it's a conversation that needs to be had.
I used to smoke and hindsight I wish someone had the guts to address the smell, bacause I really had no idea how bad it was untill I quit, and I'm still a tad ashamed about how I and my house used to smell
My family texts in our group chat things like “I can’t afford gifts this year, don’t buy me anything!” or “Your gifts are small and silly!” in advance of the holidays so there’s clear expectations. Just be upfront.
She says she religious. I imagine people around her do get married earlier than 25 often. It’s not the norm in cities or less religious areas, but it is unfortunately still the norm in many places given the culture of the area
To answer your question; no, telling her will be confronting and painful. But it's a conversation that needs to be had.
I used to smoke and hindsight I wish someone had the guts to address the smell, bacause I really had no idea how bad it was untill I quit, and I'm still a tad ashamed about how I and my house used to smell
“Thanks, but that's a bit awkward, now I'm all self conscious.” Let it go unless she keeps up with the flirting. I'd be flattered
My family texts in our group chat things like “I can’t afford gifts this year, don’t buy me anything!” or “Your gifts are small and silly!” in advance of the holidays so there’s clear expectations. Just be upfront.
He's saying he still needs time to assess whether things between you are going to work. Obviously, I have no idea what his criteria are.
Yea a lot of people shit on you and i thought that was unfair. I was one that told you its human to have these thoughts. I’m glad you worked thru it!
She says she religious. I imagine people around her do get married earlier than 25 often. It’s not the norm in cities or less religious areas, but it is unfortunately still the norm in many places given the culture of the area
She wants marriage, he doesn't, there is nothing in between. There isn't more to it in this situation
You've posted this before.
I agree with you on many of your points, but why does that matter?
Why does it matter if your family disagrees?
You have a difference in opinion/views. It's not a big deal.
I hope the bf sees the real issue ASAP.