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It's very common for a victim of domestic abuse to become accustomed to it when it happens over a period of years. But make no mistake it's a 100% abusive relationship and you should listen to your brother and get out.
If he wants help, he will ask, you are not his mother.
What exactly is his vision for your future? He writes an ironclad prenup where he gets all the upside if you someday split; you take a deep pay cut to fully relocate to his city to accommodate his job; and then what?
If he's an attorney, isn't he much more likely to be able to make a comparable salary elsewhere? Maybe he doesn't like NYC, but he wouldn't even consider the area? Or somewhere like DC so you could take the train up instead of having to fly? Where is his idea for compromise?
What does he say to all this? You sound like these are all your thoughts, and his only input has been vetoes or limitations. In a good relationship, you would approach the problem together as a team. This sounds like a lot of “me versus you” thinking on his part.
You give her power if you send her an angry/other text. Best comeback against an abusive ex is living a life well lived. Just ghost her and move on. If she engages ignore her.
Idk. I feel like dudes love bitchy chicks. And I have many redeeming qualities. And I don’t even think I’m actually that bitchy.
This! Op you have to admit to yourself there’s really no future here. I’m not trying to be harsh but this man is nearly 30 and has suspicious money and won’t talk about why he isn’t working/what he’s done in the past. Aside from strictly companionship, why keep trying to push this? There are a thousand ways to meet people outside of this guy, he’s going to let you feel complacent and like this is normal when it’s not. I don’t think it’s an issue with you offering to pay when you want to go somewhere specific, but if you want to keep hanging out with him you need to make it abundantly clear you’re splitting costs, or you need to be prepared to pay and ignore that he won’t change. There’s really no other choice. Talk to him and explain what you have here, but be prepared to walk away if he basically says he’s not going to change anything. This man is nearly 30 and has no career prospects to speak of and is then getting an attitude with you about where your money goes despite you typically being the one funding his fun. Good luck and honestly try some of the things this commenter suggested, he’s not the only person you will find in a new place but you have to be confident enough no to feel as though you’re buying friends.
no it’s just a natural odor so if what you’re saying is true and it was horrid and gross and lingers after you wash your hands i would honestly let him know. it might be embarrassing for him but he needs to know so he can take better care of himself
No they didn’t. You know you can view edits by way of other websites, yeah? They don’t show any edits.
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Your parents are snobs. Just leave, how do fuck cares about them at this point, they going to cry themselves back if you have kids anyway.
No. You respect the fact she doesn't want to talk to you and you leave her alone.
I will take back the statement on the teenager part I was reading through a lot of the comments and realized that was when you first started dating. Still yikes! And still immature.
Neither is having more children than you can raise properly, darlin
Your marriage is done. Find a lawyer.
People like that upset me, it gives us folks dealing with anxiety a bad name? I don't know. I don't like that this is excused as an anxiety issue, I have it, I take responsibility and apologize, I go above and beyond to be ok and do the work and make sure I don't hurt others, and when I do I accept what I did and make sure people are ok.
Why are you asking questions like that when you should be backing her straight up the headboard with your tongue? When she looks like she's in need of an exorcism, drive the demon out of her with your dick.
You get what you accept. It’s Ultimatum time. He brings nothing to the table. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Have you been to counseling? I would always exhaust all means before ending a marriage for anything other than infidelity. But it’s not fair to live like that forever.
It was never a friendly catch up, you lied because you knew you were doing something wrong. You can’t have your cake and eat it.
You want to solve one lie with another lie? That’s the worse thing you could do. You are unbelievable. Face the consequences of your actions. If you love your son and your husband that much, then surely they deserve to know the truth so they can make their own decisions on how to deal with this…
I knew it! Because 6 months to a year might be when someone decides she where the relationship might end up in the future.
I understand your hesitance in having your future MIL so involved with the pregnancy so early on. It’s clear to me that your concern is about how heavily she will be involved in not only the rest of the pregnancy but also after the baby arrives. Whiles it’s important to ensure your girlfriend feels supported and safe, I would keep an eye out to see how much influence her mother will ultimately have in your relationship and parenting. So do let her show up because it’s happening either way, but make sure you are involved as the father and partner and not just partner and sperm donor. Hopefully your fears will be resolved and you can all move forward happily. Congratulations on the pregnancy.
Put a cat flap in his door. Or consider changing bedrooms? I personally sleep with a eye mask and ear plugs in because I sleep with my door open for heat, and my husband’s office is across the hall. He works at night and leaves the door open for our cat ( litter box and food/water are in the office)
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His parents said so
My husband will come shopping with me, I'll try stuff on, he'll hand me stuff in the change room to try. I'll then leave without buying because it's too expensive. He'll then go back a few days later and buy the expensive coat I loved but would never buy, and gift it to me. He did this our first Christmas together. He also has a good eye and when he hands me stuff to try on it always looks great, but is also stuff I didn't think would look good so I passed it by on the hanger. Why not go shopping with her and really listen to what she says about the clothes you hand her to try. My husband always says “its free to try on, just see how it looks” use that line with her. But if she hates it or says she's uncomfortable don't buy it, even if you like it. These are clothes for her.
Thank you for this comment 🙂
It’s exactly this. He loves OP and doesn’t want the world to know it. He can go pound sand IMO.
I beg to differ; equal standing is a huge crux of successful poly relationships because without it, there can be little foundation for fair treatment and proper respect.
Equality is not needed for fairness. Equity is.
This difference of “wow wait so what? It doesn't have to be equal? And that's okay?” is a more advanced level of poly-awareness than most start out with, so again, so I don't blame someone for not automatically knowing it if you haven't been exposed to real-world poly situations.
If you don't know this kind of thing about poly, it may be better to leave the poly questions aside and answer the other ones you find on this forum.
a lot of the problems here have arisen because the GF clearly either doesn't care as much for her husband, or she doesn't particularly care much for either.
Feels like projection. There are other possibilities to explain GF's actions, such as… ignorance. Due to lack of communication.
Disagree, the whole way she has treated her BF is disrespectful.
Okay, but not all 'disrespect' is malicious or intentional.
If you have to fight for fair & decent treatment in a relationship, its not a good relationship.
You're right…so make it better. I think that's the key point you're not getting.
All you're really doing, ultimately, is reiterating “there's a problem here.”
I'd just be honest and that it's less about her and more about how her friend thinks it's okay to behave that way to someone you care about.
If it was someone else in her place, it would probably happen anyways.
This reads like a 12 year olds conversation not two 24 grown ass adults, full on billy madison vibes everyone here is now dumber….
You are right. Opinions will differ on this one. My advice is to review, once again, all the reasons why he is with you, and all the reasons he is not with her. Repeat as required. Then don't do anything to lessen your advantage.
Break up with your fiancé. Seek therapy. If, when you’re managing your depression and anxiety, you’re still interested in your friend, ask them on a date.
Don’t jump from one relationship straight to another when you have things to work on yourself.
Yeah we have a lot. I even brought an industrial one but they dont do much in this heat unless you put one right in front of you.
Well said
I can’t believe I just read this. Your friends are so right and I hope they get through to you.
Leave this guy alone. I can guarantee if he ever heard you talk about him like some kind of special traumatized treasure, he would want to stay the fuck away from you. I would too.
No baby, not if he was arrested for it. A violent man will always be a violent man.
This is what I came here to say. My guess is the wife has noticed him being inappropriate toward OP in the past.
The bar is random and they go from bar to bar. They don't tell me which bar they go to as they say the don't know yet. I have asked before. So unless I tell them there is no way to know really.
yeah he wants the cake and to eat it too. If he's making you uncomfortable, let him know.
Honestly this guy will never be a friend how you want it. To him there will always be the potential for sex. You're right, it's pointless to try and change him. So three choices.
accept who he and how he's acting now
move on and don't hang with him anymore to prevent you catching the feels
3.just ask him if he wants a relationship straight up. If you get rejected at least you know where you stand
She is gas lighting you get evidence and dump her ass
Yes I shouldn't have said anything to him at all. That's true. But then again am I being selfish for expecting him to do better by me? I don't know,I get that I'm seeming like I'm taking a high moral ground here but somehow it seems much worse him telling that to a stranger basically than me telling him. Kinda feel like we should have more trust between eachother if you know what I mean. Also appreciate you replying,any comment on the matter is more than welcome!
Sorry I don’t think I was clear. Mine is already working out, it’s been my income for over a decade now. I just need extra assistance for the load. Instead of bringing in randoms to help, we were trying to do it together.
He needs something for himself, I believe in him but I also express worry to him about the future stability of it for him, since it doesn’t always take off for everyone. I’m one of the lucky few it has, but the point is a lot of it is uncertainty and luck. He gets mad at me because he said at the beginning, I was so supportive of his goals, but lately it’s like I’m pulling back a sowing doubt about him succeeding.
This is and has been my industry, I know how it works
It's the 21st century, how much money is she earning ? Sorry dude but your partner sounds like trash, she continually belittles you for not earning enough, but claims to love you.?. Her behavior says otherwise. Tell her that she needs to take a hike and go look for one of those men that she admires so much. Look for someone that values you, and not what you can do for them
There are these 2 girls I met while playing league (both 27) and one of them once told he how she flirted with a guy just so he breaks up with his girlfriend and then she ghosted him. She basically offered to do the same if my ex found a new boyfriend, which I immedietly declined, but I mentioned it in a convo, and stupidly enough I said that she is *offering her services*
There’s a condescension in your replies here that feels incredibly invalidating. I adore my son and don’t look at him as a financial transaction. But the simple fact is that raising children does have a financial impact. You’re implying that any man who would ask for a paternity test doesn’t live their child and that’s just insane.
I don’t recall sexting qualifies as “catching up”. Sounds like your still in a love triangle and she has no intention of changing that dynamic. At this point you need to make a decision for what’s best for you. Because all her decisions are most certainly about what’s best for her.
How does he get through a work day?