idk maybe this mans got no game because my current boyfriend did not gaf that i was sleeping w someone else because he knew he would win out in the end. or maybe he just saw me as a person with needs and respected that we were both single and could do what we want. when it was time to stop we communicated that. being open about ur sex life w someone ur talking to doesn’t mean you have a loose relationship with sex maybe shes just honest bruh? like if i’m with multiple people i have been transparent with both of them because i do not belong to either of them but they have a right to know. her sleeping with someone else when they’re talking and met up like once doesn’t mean she has a bad or loosey goosey view of sex and relationships. what was she supposed to do in this situation? commit herself to a person shes met once and only known for two months that she is not exclusive with? lie by omission by not telling him about it even though it could v well change the fate of their relationship in the future (like it did now)? or be honest. you’re only thinking abt it from his pov not hers idk. just because she’s honest doesn’t mean she didn’t like him or has a bad relationship with sex. something abt this comment rubs me the wrong way
To be honest, your girlfriend needs to address her behaviour first. Being routinely stressed does not give anyone the right to be catty or disrespectful with others. If she's understand that, she needs professional help. Also I know you want to help her which is the right attitude but you cannot help someone whose not willing to help themselves. If she's not seeking help, not actively doing anything to slowly help feel better and only responding to your help and support with varying degrees of disrespect then you need to prioritize your own health and life.
They didn't want to do anything behind my back so they were basically asking for permission to sleep together.
and started crying and my best friend got very worried and started apologizing and crying too telling me how she would never do anything that I didn't agree on or that would jeopardized our friendship and she left quickly afterwards after apologizing a million times (texted me apologies all night too).
You gave the answer, yet they still slept together? Your friend is a moron, your husband is a moron. Sit down with both of them and ask “Was me running away not enough of an answer? You are both insanely selfish. This is what you caused. If both of you had an inkling of respect for me, you would have shut up and never thought of fucking eachother.”
Info- What is his reaction to you declining his offer for pick up? I don’t know if anyone can decide if he’s being controlling or suspicious without knowing if he flips out or demanding that he picks you up.
Either quit bringing it up or hit the squat rack. Both are easy
idk maybe this mans got no game because my current boyfriend did not gaf that i was sleeping w someone else because he knew he would win out in the end. or maybe he just saw me as a person with needs and respected that we were both single and could do what we want. when it was time to stop we communicated that. being open about ur sex life w someone ur talking to doesn’t mean you have a loose relationship with sex maybe shes just honest bruh? like if i’m with multiple people i have been transparent with both of them because i do not belong to either of them but they have a right to know. her sleeping with someone else when they’re talking and met up like once doesn’t mean she has a bad or loosey goosey view of sex and relationships. what was she supposed to do in this situation? commit herself to a person shes met once and only known for two months that she is not exclusive with? lie by omission by not telling him about it even though it could v well change the fate of their relationship in the future (like it did now)? or be honest. you’re only thinking abt it from his pov not hers idk. just because she’s honest doesn’t mean she didn’t like him or has a bad relationship with sex. something abt this comment rubs me the wrong way
To be honest, your girlfriend needs to address her behaviour first. Being routinely stressed does not give anyone the right to be catty or disrespectful with others. If she's understand that, she needs professional help. Also I know you want to help her which is the right attitude but you cannot help someone whose not willing to help themselves. If she's not seeking help, not actively doing anything to slowly help feel better and only responding to your help and support with varying degrees of disrespect then you need to prioritize your own health and life.
OP you watched too much porn
The size of their anger directly correlates to the size of the titties/vag combo they are hiding
Not when a man is involved
They didn't want to do anything behind my back so they were basically asking for permission to sleep together.
and started crying and my best friend got very worried and started apologizing and crying too telling me how she would never do anything that I didn't agree on or that would jeopardized our friendship and she left quickly afterwards after apologizing a million times (texted me apologies all night too).
You gave the answer, yet they still slept together? Your friend is a moron, your husband is a moron. Sit down with both of them and ask “Was me running away not enough of an answer? You are both insanely selfish. This is what you caused. If both of you had an inkling of respect for me, you would have shut up and never thought of fucking eachother.”
I'd break up. She obviously doesn't consider your relationship to be important.
Just rip the band-aid off bro, there is no “softening the blow”, it's gonna hurt no matter what, just don't be a dick about it and let it go
Info- What is his reaction to you declining his offer for pick up? I don’t know if anyone can decide if he’s being controlling or suspicious without knowing if he flips out or demanding that he picks you up.
A relationship cannot have revenge as it’s principal foundation. You will never forget this and you definitely deserve better.