That was exactly my thought too. Everyone is arguing about what timelines and men and women and what expectations people should have…but how are people not seeing that she already has a picture of her life and it's not about him. She has all these fantasies and plans in her head, and it isn't him in any of those fantasies, she sees things he checked off in her fantasy that he had no part in creating. It's her world, and he fits. No wonder the spark is already dead, there isn't chemistry in the fantasy world, only expectations vs reality.
You're overthinking things. She's essentially telling you that apologies aren't necessary and that she was just being what a friend should be.
You might need to be a little more direct. “Hey, I'm asking you out on a date when I'm talking about going out to the movie. Are you interested?” Good luck.
I want to know if he is acting and dressing like this at work?! How he is making income at all.
That was exactly my thought too. Everyone is arguing about what timelines and men and women and what expectations people should have…but how are people not seeing that she already has a picture of her life and it's not about him. She has all these fantasies and plans in her head, and it isn't him in any of those fantasies, she sees things he checked off in her fantasy that he had no part in creating. It's her world, and he fits. No wonder the spark is already dead, there isn't chemistry in the fantasy world, only expectations vs reality.
That too! I wonder if they were talking before the separation because that was very quick. I feel like there might have been existing feelings there.
That's what I'd do. Get the check, give it to her and say goodbye. Then she can't spin anything afterwards.
At the very least a good wipe down if I don't want to deal with the whole shower.
It's pretty obvious the friend had motives. She's probably crummier than his fiance.
You're overthinking things. She's essentially telling you that apologies aren't necessary and that she was just being what a friend should be.
You might need to be a little more direct. “Hey, I'm asking you out on a date when I'm talking about going out to the movie. Are you interested?” Good luck.