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This is very forward, but how do you show a man you appreciate him standing up for you and that you're more attracted to him? . . . He needs to sit back and relax while you show him how much you appreciate him. Hopefully you're picking up what im putting down.
I don't think you're being unreasonable. Living in a constant state of panic and dread is not healthy at all. Eventually that panic will just turn into full blown resentment and the marriage will be over anyways.
Has your fiance tried anything to help with his anger outburst? Maybe you guys need some marriage therapy that will also help him with anger management as well as your processing some of your trauma response.
she basically told me that it was different for her because women are more often the victims of domestic abuse
And men are much more likely to the perpetrators of rather than the victims of rape, but my rapist (I'm a male who was assaulted by a female) didn't get the memo I guess.
She can fuck right off with this flimsy justification.
All of this would be grounds for me to call it quits, too. I think most folks would understand why you would walk away from this relationship.
If you’re wondering if I have OCD, it’s something that my therapist and I have discussed and mostly ruled out. I just like an organized home. If not, it makes me nervous and uncomfortable, but not exactly itchy
The American police aren’t going to do anything even if a crime was committed in another country, which it wasn’t because in the UK the age of consent is 16.
Damn girl, you know you don’t have to suffer right? Like 11 times, cheated twice, and has addiction problems?? What do you want out of this? You can’t tell him to keep doing what he is doing, just to hide it better.
I mean your body is already telling you what you need to do. You are going to start being angry and resentful towards him because he clearly sucks. And you will endure this for your kid but ultimately you will leave him but the process will be longer and harder.
Tell your boyfriend that you think sex should be equal. Why does he get to come every time, and you don't get to come at all? If you are willing to put in the work to help him cum, why shouldn't he do the same for you. You don't have to have sex with someone who isn't willing to treat you as an equal, even if the two of you are in a relationship.
as to his feeling guilty and insecure? A lot of us grow up in cultures where sexuality is treated as dirty or shameful, and unfortunately, a lot of us, men and women, gay and straight, internalize this negativity. If he is struggling with depression, hopefully he is already seeing a therapist, maybe this is something he can discuss with his therapist.
Initially you called a commenter a liar (which was demonstrably false) and now you’re doubling down on calling OP a liar.
If your sensibilities are so sensitive to lying (which they seem to be if you’re seeing lies where there aren’t any – e.g. the comment you took issue with in this thread), the Internet is not going to be safe space for you.
Lying about birth control also doesn’t negate the possibility that the abuse is real.
You’re worried that the information in the book could be weaponized, but earlier you were doubtful OP would even read the book. So I question how much that actually worries you.
Therapy can also be weaponized, but it still isn’t something I would dissuade anyone from pursuing.
This is very forward, but how do you show a man you appreciate him standing up for you and that you're more attracted to him? . . . He needs to sit back and relax while you show him how much you appreciate him. Hopefully you're picking up what im putting down.
I don't think you're being unreasonable. Living in a constant state of panic and dread is not healthy at all. Eventually that panic will just turn into full blown resentment and the marriage will be over anyways.
Has your fiance tried anything to help with his anger outburst? Maybe you guys need some marriage therapy that will also help him with anger management as well as your processing some of your trauma response.
No yeah she said they were a kid
she basically told me that it was different for her because women are more often the victims of domestic abuse
And men are much more likely to the perpetrators of rather than the victims of rape, but my rapist (I'm a male who was assaulted by a female) didn't get the memo I guess.
She can fuck right off with this flimsy justification.
All of this would be grounds for me to call it quits, too. I think most folks would understand why you would walk away from this relationship.
If you’re wondering if I have OCD, it’s something that my therapist and I have discussed and mostly ruled out. I just like an organized home. If not, it makes me nervous and uncomfortable, but not exactly itchy
The American police aren’t going to do anything even if a crime was committed in another country, which it wasn’t because in the UK the age of consent is 16.
It's a fantastic comment. Some people are being complete assholes towards him when he's got a valid problem and it sucks.
Your husband sounds like my gf, they're the one that cheated but somehow you have to be the one to change.
If you can do it financially, you should probably tell him to get fucked and divorce him.
Damn girl, you know you don’t have to suffer right? Like 11 times, cheated twice, and has addiction problems?? What do you want out of this? You can’t tell him to keep doing what he is doing, just to hide it better.
I mean your body is already telling you what you need to do. You are going to start being angry and resentful towards him because he clearly sucks. And you will endure this for your kid but ultimately you will leave him but the process will be longer and harder.
Tell your boyfriend that you think sex should be equal. Why does he get to come every time, and you don't get to come at all? If you are willing to put in the work to help him cum, why shouldn't he do the same for you. You don't have to have sex with someone who isn't willing to treat you as an equal, even if the two of you are in a relationship.
as to his feeling guilty and insecure? A lot of us grow up in cultures where sexuality is treated as dirty or shameful, and unfortunately, a lot of us, men and women, gay and straight, internalize this negativity. If he is struggling with depression, hopefully he is already seeing a therapist, maybe this is something he can discuss with his therapist.
Initially you called a commenter a liar (which was demonstrably false) and now you’re doubling down on calling OP a liar.
If your sensibilities are so sensitive to lying (which they seem to be if you’re seeing lies where there aren’t any – e.g. the comment you took issue with in this thread), the Internet is not going to be safe space for you.
Lying about birth control also doesn’t negate the possibility that the abuse is real.
You’re worried that the information in the book could be weaponized, but earlier you were doubtful OP would even read the book. So I question how much that actually worries you.
Therapy can also be weaponized, but it still isn’t something I would dissuade anyone from pursuing.