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Date: September 27, 2022
The fact that he refers to his son as “the child” and not his son speaks volumes
Not trying to be noisy but, what was the issue about?
There is a lot to unpack here, but for me the biggest issue is his views on raising children. What if your kids turn out to be LGBTQ+ and they have lived their entire lives listening to their father say these things? Is that what you want for them? That alone would be reason for me to break up with someone.
Only people who aren’t LGBTQ+ can dismiss things like that as “political” talk. What he’s really doing is trying to invalidate their entire existence and basically treat them as subhuman. Are you okay with your future children potentially being treated that way by their own father?
I know for a fact he isn't, but it is a good thought.
There’s something really nasty and predatory about 30yr olds going after and dating teens … Yikes anyway regardless you’re already checked out the relationship so just bite the bullet and end things she’s gonna be hurt regardless ??♀️
No, it didn’t just fall off. This is called “stealthing,” and is actually a crime in most states (maybe all). Not okay. Not an accident. A crime. Dump him.
This definately sounds like a HER problem. Have you discussed this with her and sat her down and talk about how her attitude and behavior is grwatly affecting you and probably the kids ?
Personally, I dont think marriage counseling wilk fix this. Your wife may need therapy sessions alone. Does she suffer from depression? I knly ask because i use to be this way. My SO stop being supportive and would say shit like ” your always tired” when i said i was tired. If i was complaining he just like ” your always angry . Nothing makes your happy” and it was a few months of this. At first i was pissed off and even nore angry but than i had to look in the mirror and address the avtualy issues within myself. Ot all changed after that. I dont find myself complaining or whinning im tired.
I would suggest you talk to your wife. Go in depth about how you are being affected and tell her, you love her to death but your not going to support her negative behavoir anymore. Just be real and up front. Ask her what is really the issue. Is she happy with herself her life and if not, push her discover what will make her happy !!
I was a little shocked with that too and OP …is …fine…with it…
This guy sounds like a jerk more and more. Then again, maybe OP also has a hot stud on her lock screen (who's definitely NOT her husband). 😀
You're not gonna ever be “wife material” to people like that. Just move on, and know they they're the problem.
Now, if you want to prepare yourself to be married, (and this goes for either sex), know some skills to manage things around the house, be willing to compromise, be accepting and caring even when you're also having a bad day, and also just don't get married to someone throwing up red flags. Any guy who loves you but honestly thinks you lack marriage-ready qualities should support you to improve your skillset, not give a copout excuse to just say he isn't ready for that commitment.
These two don't live together though. She already gets a few nights a week sleeping alone and now wants to do so while on a special night away.
You can’t take her back. She will just leave again ??♂️
yeah lmao that comment made no sense. who programmed who? who got deprogrammed? if you are talking about yourself, it seems like you are still programmed
How do you know?
Not to mention the physical damage. He’s ruining her body and these things could have long lasting side effects for her and her health.
To judge this properly we need to know: Why are you the only one that seemingly can operate the heater in your house? What is this process that is too difficult for her to undertake?
Going to 3 with the letter as the only evidence is not advisable. Definitely need to do 1 or 2 first
Yeah I am with your gf here. I would drop you like hot garbage.
So you flirt with this friend, give her compliments (the word is mentioned atleast 5 times in the post), talk to her late into the night, make her your ‘online Valentine’ whatever that is, (from what I understand) spend the evening with Jane in GTA, and apologize to her for not sending her flowers while eating the takeout your gf sent you? And then this girl is badmouthing you to your gf once they connect? (I wonder what Jane’s side of the story is)
And you don’t see what’s wrong here? Ok
I mean it’s harmless
Stop trying to minimize your sleezy behaviour by calling it harmless. Clearly it’s harmful, your gf is not ok with it and left you take a hint
It’s not unusual to be valentines with a friend online is it?
It’s incredibly uncommon and cringey. I have never heard of a person in a relationship having another valentine, online or otherwise
it was just me being myself and laying video games
Then stay single and be yourself alone because no woman would put up with this nonsense, not even Jane who’s talking shit about you to your gf. Stop portraying your creepy behaviour as ‘we are gamers’ because gamers aren’t douchebags like you.
am I a cheater?
In my and your gf’s opinion, yes.
is it possible to get past things and move o
Yes, move on alone with your life. Leave your ex alone. She doesn’t deserve this shit
What if he finds someone else and treats them better
Lol, I’m just stating facts…that doesn’t make me a bully.
man… i even sent him tiktoks of people’s 5 day splits and he said it’s not enough?
To pile on… Who are these other guys, in a group you were a part of… that are focusing so much extra time on someone they know is in a relationship? They don't sound loyal if they're supposed to be your friends too.
Given how much control your partner's mother has over his life and how much he's waffled on things, I wouldn't count on him ever proposing to you. His mom is going to always say “it's too soon” or “are you sure she's right for you?” and given that he took that to heart as a 29 year old man, don't expect it to change.
What I do think you need to listen to is where he told you you will be a single parent if you have the child. I think that much is true. He can't get out of being a parent just because he doesn't want to be one, but he can make things be difficult and just be an absent parent. If you are ready to do this on your own, be a single mom, then there is no reason for you to not have this baby. It sounds like this might be your only chance which is not something to take lightly and I would be concerned in your shoes about trying again with your partner making what are almost definitely empty promises of marriage and future children. If you want the baby, absolutely keep it, just enter this with your eyes open.
I'm sorry to say this, but you posted 3 months ago requesting some nudes on another thread here on reddit. So you're already kind of 'branching out' albeit not opened the relationship/marriage with your wife anyway.
Now you're upset because she's the one who asks for an open marriage first when you've seemed to have strayed before.
Sure, the people who claim that she probably already has a bf on the side (ready to be 'open' about them) are probably right. She may have a guy already that's why she's dared to suggest this. How to deal with this heartbreak…as I've always said to many, there's no other way than go through the pain. You can't avoid it. Time will help soothe the pain some though.
Be honest to yourself. Are you happy within the marriage? I mean, you mention kids as excuse, but that's not good enough to stay put. Heck, you're trying to get nudes from other people only a few months ago too…so it doesn't sound like you're that satisfied being married anyway. If I were you, start considering the pros and cons of filing for divorce, or perhaps try separation first.
Either way, you can also request couples counseling with her if you can, I mean, if you guys do get a divorce. It'll help with coparenting.
So you’re open to him having an open relationship???? No girl!!!!! We don’t do shít like that. Block him and move On!
You are 29, not 19… Grow a damn backbone and break up for good…
This is going nowhere and you know it…
It’s so hard and it just feels so dark. I keep comparing us to other couples who are “light” aka not going through something so heavy. ?
As a child of a cheating father, I, as a kid, didn't like seeing my mother unhappy in her marriage. They were together for more than 15 years and he never stopped.
When I was old enough I ask why she stayed with him and she said because I wanted to you have a father and a family together. My answer was “don't blame me of your choices, he is going to be my father forever but I don't like the way he treats you. I don't care if you are separated”. She kicked out of the house a week later.
So please don't put your child into this, don't put yourself into this, he wants to cheat and he is constantly talking about it because he wants you to think, you agree with his intentions.
Your happiness is more important than a man who doesn't respect his vows to his wife.
If this is your deep pain then you are doing things right.