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Don't worry about proving it to his family. Run. That's classic abusive behavior and 10:1 his parents probably already know what he's like, they just can't do anything about it.
It’s more likely that you are a teenager and the chances of a teenage romance lasting for 50 years is very very slim.
Things you are attracted to are not set in stone permanent choices made for you by someone else. You can learn to appreciate different things, you can start noticing value in other things than you did before, and so on. You've already made a step in that direction since you've established that people you are attracted to often turn out to be assholes. Once you realize that, it should be easier to stop getting hots for these people.
On another note, changing yourself is sometimes a good thing to. Don't get all poetic and think of it along the lines of losing who you are. Think more about discovering who you really are. I didn't specify which of the two you should do, try to figure it out and establish who you really are and what makes you feel comfortable. If you feel like the current you is the best version of you there is and you feel great being that way, don't change it, work on changing the way you view attractiveness of other people instead.
Thank you, I do know the answer myself, my self esteem is pretty low and I can’t find it in myself to do what needs to be done.
Thanks a lot for your advice! I really see your point and I appreciate it. My physical attraction to her has always been a really important factor that made me stay in this relationship.
WHY? Seriously why would you be doing this to yourself? Being in-love is not good enough and is not an excuse!
That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have been honest, though. If you weren’t ready after sex you could have brought it up later. It’s not fair to just blame him for not understanding that you weren’t being honest.
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You don't proceed with this relationship, because it is not a relationship. People in established relationships wouldn't even consider not spending important days such as NYE with their partners. This guy doesn't value you, and you deserve to be valued, appreciated and loved. He is taking you for granted, you're just “there”. Well, it's time for you to stop being just “there” and put an end to this pseudo relationship that is not benefitting you in any way.
You are so young, by next NYE you could be with someone who will not even consider not spending it with you. But, in order to meet that guy, you have to lose the dead weight you are attached to right now.
What you do is let him go partying tomorrow with whomever he wants, and in the meantime you take whatever personal items you may have at his place, block his number and start 2023 as a single woman on her way to improving her life.
Not the best advice but let her fall asleep and check her ID or have a conversation with her about it
That last sentence is a typical example of the bias called 'sunk cost fallacy', where you continue to do something that is detrimental to you, just because you've already spent so much time/effort/money doing it. Don't see those 20 years you've spent with him as 'wasted' if you leave. Consider the next 40 years wasted if you stay and you're unhappy.
Nah, at least mold has a culture and it keeps growing.
Seems like there's a rash of these posts today??
He should have worn a condom if he didn't want a kid. He doesn't have to be happy about it but it's not just on her. Two people contributed to this pregnancy.
Uhhhhhh
I am just imagining him asking the doctor who is going to perform medical surgery on her and demand to know the full name because he freaks out that ” DR.” Is unisex
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It’s one thing to say “I’m not comfortable with XYZ”, it’s another to say “XYZ is childish/not important/unrealistic”. The former is simply a difference in preference, the latter is a judgement. I think you feel rejected and judged because, in these instances at least, you ARE being rejected and judged by him. He sees the ways you express and wish to receive love and he thinks poorly of them, and doesn’t trouble to hide that fact.
This is an EXCELLENT point. It's one thing to have differing preferences, it's another to be dismissive or show contempt.
It totally depends on transparency. F boys type guys will feign emotions and hide their intentions to get a woman to sleep with them. I'm sure some women do this too, but as someone who dates both, I have had several men pull this (or.try to) and never one woman. Casual fwb is different from stringing someone along with half assed promises of future commitment with no intention of ever following through. That's the game.
I think you are cool already! And hey, I turn 32 in about 10 days, none of that age crap ? You are still young, and have left of spark left. I think you can do whatever you want to do.
I’m really curious. What do you think will be different at 36 than 35?
Your boyfriend is very comfortable in the status quo. You’re the only one feeling angst about it. Why do you think he would magically decide to get a job next year? And what makes you think he would be able to get a job next year?
And then afterwards you have to pretend like it never happened, otherwise you're trying to punish them when they already feel so, so bad about it.
Sleeping with her fiancé is not emotionally supporting her, it's stabbing her in the back. You are not a friend.
That is objectively terrible behaviour. Stay the fuck away from this wedding, give people their money back and tell the truth for once in your life.
Good for him
He will do this again. Why wouldn't he
I would vomit if a man did this to me. Pregnancy is not a joke.
Ya go to the docs kan
It sounds like you’re communicating perfectly right? You know why he is upset, and he knows your convictions are too strong to change.
I’m trying to imagine what therapy could accomplish and coming up blank. Would it realistically open up his eyes to how great polyamory can be? Or would it cause you to reconsider whether polyamory is something you need?
You both seem to have your heels dug in on some fundamental differences. If you can imagine a compromise of any kind, then therapy could totally be helpful. Just gotta think about what that looks like.
Why force her to do this
Because it would negatively impact their marriage if she keeps having to pay rent in a place she doesn't live. OP says the rent she pays to her family takes up most of her monthly income.
Why are you acting like she has no agency or responsibility here? She's an adult and you're acting like she's a child.
He doesn’t want to be a part of his kids life and you’re ok with that and want to build a family with a guy like that?
If you’re ok with that, don’t be surprised when he does it to you.
Averaging MAYBE 4-5 hrs a week now if I’m lucky
It's not even worth getting hung up on the wording. It might not be a “girls trip” specifically but you've made it clear that it is a trip for your friend group which he is not apart of. After you explain that once, what more is there to do? He has to get over it.
I got head butted by my child when they were a baby. The swelling and bruising was so bad I too ended up at a&e trying to explain what happened while breastfeeding my now angelic baby. It took well over a month for it to heal visibly and was tender to the touch for some time after that! The oddest thing was the bruising didn’t stay just round my eye, but seemed to travel down my face, making things look even worse. I was told to try arnica cream for the bruising. No real evidence it helps, but doesn’t do any harm and a gentle rub with cream could help with drainage.