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Date: October 17, 2022
Hey /u/Lost-Sleep1017, how did telling him overly go?
How you didn’t pick up the phone immediately to dial 911 is beyond me.
I get like this when my blood sugar is low. By ‘like this’ I mean I get nauseous, headache, stomach ache, it becomes hard to think and then almost like I’m going to pass out. i do my best to preempt it with snacks etc but shit happens sometimes. I start acting very impatient because it’s very unpleasant and I know it’s only going to get worse. If I’m out with a few friends and they’re taking ages to decide where to eat, I will get snappy and try to rush them. My alternative is to just leave and get my own food, but people tend to find that rude too!
Because I know I’m being snappy (and annoying, rushing everyone) I feel guilty about it and want to lighten the mood. I’ll try to crack jokes but they’re always terrible and miscalculated. By that point my prefrontal cortex is impaired and has one goal: make the pain stop—> food.
Obviously it’s still MY responsibility, but I’m never actually that rude and people eventually understand. I’ve never made anyone cry but I can see how someone who is a decent person can turn into a dick (or sound like one) when in that state.
The way she spoke about him reminded me of how dismissive some people can be. ‘Mr hangry’ etc. At the same time, he was very mean to his gf who was trying to do something nice for him.
He should apologise and learn from this. When I’m in that state the less I say the better.
Id give him the benefit of the doubt just because of my personal experience If he does take the lesson, then great. If he dismisses your feelings about it, or if this happens again, in any context, I would strongly urge OP to reconsider her relationship.
My ex-husband was verbally and emotionally abusive. When he thought I couldn't hear (or he didn't care) he would call me horrid names to hus family and friends. I did hear him and he never apologized. He was a vile and controlling narassisst. His family was as well. For your own sanity and mental well being I'd advise you to really look hard at your relationship. Life is too short to waste it with someone that is disrespectful and hurtful.
Time for you to leave as he is being very shady.
Remindme! 12 months updateme
Not unreasonable at all, hopefully this attitude is just from feeling like shit from covid.
Just apologize for your behavior and move on. This isn't that big of a deal. Couples get irritated with eachother every now and then over silly things.
He has got plenty advice what and how should he do. If he doesn't know how to be earnest than maybe he shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place.
Which actually makes it more worrying because it’s possible he would go hard enough to cause significant injury if he doesn’t know she’s using it and can’t feel much
Ngl I didn’t even read the whole post, and this guy already gives off rancid vibes
Abortion then leave. You don't want to have this man in your life. He's your abuser and will destroy your life. And never tell him you were pregnant with his child
Ultimately he is paying for a service people should be able to ask for what they want.
I completely agree with you on this, but I don't think it prevents some requests from being crass and embarrassing.
He could ask them to mix ultra-high end champagne with a red bull. Customer is king, and I agree it’s not rude, but it does show a level of ignorance that is understandably embarrassing.
I’m 90lbs, with a past ED, I notice any slight growth in my stomach. I noticed this, it’s not big ofc, but it is noticeable to me.
I meant there are ways to become hard again. You don’t have to just give up haha
You made it seem like that scene from Seinfeld where George just gives up because he can’t open the condom wrapper.
This age is soo weird. 5% chance to get pregnant, 5% chance of perimenopause. Its such an in between life stage.
Making it as short as possible: you are right. Sometimes either my partner or I forget a Kleenex in our pockets (which is annoying!!) and it’s the culprit who apologizes (if tracked down;) ) not the laundry-person.
i am with you on this one. better yet, just separate your load and his. you are not his mom to have to check his clothes before you put them in the machine. let him put it in himself and when the it ruins his clothes, it would be his fault. you are not his slave. laundry is not a shared chores.
If I knew my partner was a street walker, maybe. If she was just a sugar baby? Nah, I'd have done that shit too in my 20s if anyone wanted to pay a hobbit to fuck them.
sounds like her problems are causing her to act this way with you.
if she won’t communicate there’s little you can do but let her know you are there for her.
Leaving saves everyone from a shit home.
I had a friend group that broke up about 8-9 years ago now due to a similar situation. Woman came in and completely nuked her significant others relationship because of insecurity. I realized I was still holding significant baggage of it when I randomly opened up an app one day last year and HER FACE WAS THERE!!!
I have enough self awareness to know that my feelings where 100% over the top. That said if my husband was ever like, “oh yea, I saw so-and-so at a wedding last month, and she said she'd be able to get me a job at [place] I can't honestly say that I would be calm about that, at least not in the moment. I'd probably objectively come back a few hours later and be like, “bro my bad, you know how I feel about her.” And then take it to my therapist.
But I could completely understand my husband not wanting to deal with my irrational anger about something that in his mind is incredibly inconsequential, and that he knows I ultimately wouldn't care about in the long run.
That said, trust your gut always and forever, OP. The gut develops things that our unconscious senses pick up and utilize to come up with likely situations to protect ourselves. They are also more often correct then not, to the tune of first responders being taught to trust their gut in training.